The problem with most advice we get is that it suggests that there are other things that people value at the same amount as your looks. Like they think that humans will value confidence when it comes to interactions to the same degree as your facial features and height. Or going to the gym is a subtitution for being tall and handsome that will directly make up for being ugly and short.
In their mind, for example: 6'4, handsome and skinny is equivalent to 5'6, ugly but buff. When not only will this show minimal effect in generating more positive social responses, but people actually see a genetically unfortunate man trying to max out in other aspects as a bad thing:
Getting muscles - "You're compensating"
Being confident - "Napoleon complex"
Wearing new clothes - "Trying too hard to be different"
In their eyes subconsciously they'll believe you're genuinely not meant to be someone better than you are, you should know your place as a low value male and suck it up
Ofc the advice they give being legit is complete and utter fantasy, and I'm certain they only suggest these to us incels to appear morally superior, so when we inevitably tell them this doesn't work, they can sit there and go "oh well, I tried to help someone as the good person I am, but they don't want it, which makes me better than they are", because there's no way in observable reality that they think a 5'4 man with a recessed chin and bug eyes can mirror the benefits of being attractive by "grooming himself" or wearing smart clothes ffs
In their mind, for example: 6'4, handsome and skinny is equivalent to 5'6, ugly but buff. When not only will this show minimal effect in generating more positive social responses, but people actually see a genetically unfortunate man trying to max out in other aspects as a bad thing:
Getting muscles - "You're compensating"
Being confident - "Napoleon complex"
Wearing new clothes - "Trying too hard to be different"
In their eyes subconsciously they'll believe you're genuinely not meant to be someone better than you are, you should know your place as a low value male and suck it up
Ofc the advice they give being legit is complete and utter fantasy, and I'm certain they only suggest these to us incels to appear morally superior, so when we inevitably tell them this doesn't work, they can sit there and go "oh well, I tried to help someone as the good person I am, but they don't want it, which makes me better than they are", because there's no way in observable reality that they think a 5'4 man with a recessed chin and bug eyes can mirror the benefits of being attractive by "grooming himself" or wearing smart clothes ffs
