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I've been spending more time on bodybuilding websites. If you read most of the threads on there about Tinder or nightclubs, those guys don't give a shit about women at all. Most are 6'+ buff white/black guys who post shit like "lol I made a Tinder and I get 15-20 matches every day getting sluts is easy".
Because women are so particular about all wanting the same top % of men, most men exist in a state of plenty (Chads) or emptiness. There's a grey zone between Chads and incels where normies live. But most normies are a bit of hair loss, 10 lb of body fat, a few years of age, and/or a spat of bad luck away from becoming incel too. Most normies live on the precipice. They have to bend over backwards to please their woman, and if she dumps him, he will go into deep depression wondering if he'll get another.
Women are so homogeneous in their tastes that it really is pretty all or nothing to get them. ie. Think about that girl you like. That favorite girl you know who you think about when jerking off. She's so special to you, right? You want her so bad, right?
Well the funny thing is - if you actually were good looking, tall, buff, and NT enough to get her, you probably wouldn't actually care about her anymore.
Because if you were attractive enough to get her, you'd be attractive enough to get every other girl like her. And then "she" as an individual will become meaningless to you.
Look what happened to ItsOVER when he went to SEA. He stopped caring completely about women and just started treating them like disposable trash, because they started worshiping him so hard he could get away with it. The same thing would happen to most of us (to varying degrees) after 1-4 years. You don't freak out every time you buy a hamburger, because you know you can always get more at any store.
It's a kind of sad irony, but the only men who truly appreciate a woman are the ones who can't get any at all. This is created by the "all or nothing" principle of female attraction. You're either attractive to most/all of women (in which case their affection will be meaningless to you) or you're not attractive to any women (in which case they will be more precious than gold to you).
In actual fact, it makes the punishment of inceldom that much crueler.
Because women are so particular about all wanting the same top % of men, most men exist in a state of plenty (Chads) or emptiness. There's a grey zone between Chads and incels where normies live. But most normies are a bit of hair loss, 10 lb of body fat, a few years of age, and/or a spat of bad luck away from becoming incel too. Most normies live on the precipice. They have to bend over backwards to please their woman, and if she dumps him, he will go into deep depression wondering if he'll get another.
Women are so homogeneous in their tastes that it really is pretty all or nothing to get them. ie. Think about that girl you like. That favorite girl you know who you think about when jerking off. She's so special to you, right? You want her so bad, right?
Well the funny thing is - if you actually were good looking, tall, buff, and NT enough to get her, you probably wouldn't actually care about her anymore.
Because if you were attractive enough to get her, you'd be attractive enough to get every other girl like her. And then "she" as an individual will become meaningless to you.
Look what happened to ItsOVER when he went to SEA. He stopped caring completely about women and just started treating them like disposable trash, because they started worshiping him so hard he could get away with it. The same thing would happen to most of us (to varying degrees) after 1-4 years. You don't freak out every time you buy a hamburger, because you know you can always get more at any store.
It's a kind of sad irony, but the only men who truly appreciate a woman are the ones who can't get any at all. This is created by the "all or nothing" principle of female attraction. You're either attractive to most/all of women (in which case their affection will be meaningless to you) or you're not attractive to any women (in which case they will be more precious than gold to you).
In actual fact, it makes the punishment of inceldom that much crueler.
