I think I speak for a lot of us (except for the abused) when I say that a lot of the bittnerness and hatred towards women doesn't apply to the women in our families, at least the older ones.
My mother was a traditionalist. Probably the only woman I knew with extreme loyalty, dedication to her husband and the family unit, values. She was just so sweet.
She'd sing to me a lot growing up, she gave me an early childhood so good it almost makes up for the bullying and torture that proceeded afterwards (and the torture I still endure from it all).
She loved her garden, a crazy amount. And she loved music and played so many instruments.
She wasn't vapid or cruel towards anybody, she was kind to everyone even if they weren't deserving. Heavily religious and a woman of God.
She killed herself when I was 17.
Females who cheat, fuck 67 men in a week, have orgies, bully ugly people, post their tits online for cash, barely have a single brain cell or anything worth while about them get to live on happy lives. But my mother, who actually cared for people, who gave something to the world, who had integrity, is dead due to her sadness caused by this world. Nothing but ash.
And I will never forgive life for that.