mangoboy
Professional misanthrope
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So, we've all heard it. You need to have "confidence" and be "interesting" as a male to succeed with women. Most of us don't buy it. We hear this ALL the time from ITcels. They love telling incels to have confidence. Here's the thing though:
WHY should men need to have confidence to attract women? WHY should men be forced to be confident, secure, cool, interesting, etc. to attract women, when women do not need ANY of those things to be attractive to men? It's not like every man has a reason to be proud of himself, or came from a background which is conducive to developing those personality traits, so why expect that from all of us? How can women afford to be insecure, stupid, boring, lame, etc. and still have no problem at all finding a mate?
It's a fucking double standard, and the worst thing is that it's being perpetuated by the very same people who will tell you that they are against "sexist gender roles". So which is it inceltears, are you against gender roles or not? Why do you insist on perpetuating them?
WHY should men need to have confidence to attract women? WHY should men be forced to be confident, secure, cool, interesting, etc. to attract women, when women do not need ANY of those things to be attractive to men? It's not like every man has a reason to be proud of himself, or came from a background which is conducive to developing those personality traits, so why expect that from all of us? How can women afford to be insecure, stupid, boring, lame, etc. and still have no problem at all finding a mate?
It's a fucking double standard, and the worst thing is that it's being perpetuated by the very same people who will tell you that they are against "sexist gender roles". So which is it inceltears, are you against gender roles or not? Why do you insist on perpetuating them?