- People who believe anyone can get laid if they want.
- People who believe the bluepill and blame you for failing.
That's basically the same, no? My choice would be one of these.
The first reaction I was thinking of the people who believe everyone is equal, so if person
x can get laid, then person
y shouldn't have any more trouble. This is usually thought by women, who can get laid whenever they want no matter how ugly they are. I still remember asking my female doctor for HPV vaccine, and she said, "You only need that if you are sexually active - are you?" I replied, "Not right now, but I'm trying to be in the future." She looked at me in pure confusion, unable to process how someone can want to have sex, but isn't getting any.
I saw something else where a Chadlite was writing on a forum, unable to comprehend why rape existed - since anyone can get laid whenever they felt like it, right? That's how his life was, so everyone else must have the same experience. Another time a girl said I just wasn't talking to enough people, and that's why I couldn't find girls to fuck me.
People who blame you accept that things are hard, but the mere fact you've failed means you haven't tried. They think you need to change yourself to appeal to women, but are too lazy or masochistic to try. Maybe it's more of a redpill ideology.
TL/DR - So the first reaction is someone not understanding how you could want sex, but not get it (who thinks you must be over-complicating things); whereas the other reaction is more a pull-yourself-up-by-your-own-bootstraps, hard-ass condemnation. One is clueless, the other is malicious.
