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The media never acknowledges that most 5/10 men suffer years of rejections on dating sites

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As for the importance of looks on internet, I've discovered that years ago: ZERO success on POF, OKcupid, Faceparty, Badoo, Tinder (with completely average to slightly hot women, I don't care about fat or butch women!). It's obvious that I'm way under a skinny 5/10 plain janes lofty standards, which got me severely depressed for years. As a healthy weight man that wants a healthy weight partner, I will never lower my standards to a 3/10 whale. Never. Got that, media spies?

Now your typical 5/10 girl will be inundated with date requests within hours of creating her profile. She'll hold out for a Chad or 7/10 Chadlite.

They will just parrot the same shit: "delete your dating accounts and meet women in the real world". But Normans don't understand that Tinder, POF etc are now the real world, they are reality... just an extension pool of men to most women's lives. Why would a 5/10 woman want to spend hours out in public waiting for a 5/10 stranger to sweep her off her feet? Why would she give that 5'8, 5/10 guy at her Tennis club a chance? She won't.
 
OP, I'm not gonna say to lower your standards but most guys do which is why the media doesn't report about most 5/10 guys being rejected.
 
As for the importance of looks on internet, I've discovered that years ago: ZERO success on POF, OKcupid, Faceparty, Badoo, Tinder (with completely average to slightly hot women, I don't care about fat or butch women!). It's obvious that I'm way under a skinny 5/10 plain janes lofty standards, which got me severely depressed for years. As a healthy weight man that wants a healthy weight partner, I will never lower my standards to a 3/10 whale. Never. Got that, media spies?

Now your typical 5/10 girl will be inundated with date requests within hours of creating her profile. She'll hold out for a Chad or 7/10 Chadlite.

They will just parrot the same shit: "delete your dating accounts and meet women in the real world". But Normans don't understand that Tinder, POF etc are now the real world, they are reality... just an extension pool of men to most women's lives. Why would a 5/10 woman want to spend hours out in public waiting for a 5/10 stranger to sweep her off her feet? Why would she give that 5'8, 5/10 guy at her Tennis club a chance? She won't.

average does not cut in there

u need to be 8+

this is not a joke

even 6 and 7s get humiliated
 
What most guys on these apps don’t realize is that they are a stepping stone to creating a social circle for YOU to monkey branch to more attractive girls. Start with the 3/10. Monkey branch to the 5/10 at the periphery of her friend group. Monkey branch to dating the 6/10 who is friends with your buddies girlfriend who has seen you around with other girls, etc.

Girls like nothing more than humiliating a less attractive girl to reaffirm their own desirability. You can make that work for you.
 
What most guys on these apps don’t realize is that they are a stepping stone to creating a social circle for YOU to monkey branch to more attractive girls. Start with the 3/10. Monkey branch to the 5/10 at the periphery of her friend group. Monkey branch to dating the 6/10 who is friends with your buddies girlfriend who has seen you around with other girls, etc.

Girls like nothing more than humiliating a less attractive girl to reaffirm their own desirability. You can make that work for you.

lol

that kind of investment

it will take a lifetime for roi worth a shit
 
lol

that kind of investment

it will take a lifetime for roi worth a shit

You could easily do it in 4 months, and get laid the whole time in the process. Plus if you want to invest time you could be doing it with multiple 3/10s at the same time. It’s a feasible means of getting a decent girlfriend as an average guy, if you aren’t willing to put in that bare minimum then lol.
 
What most guys on these apps don’t realize is that they are a stepping stone to creating a social circle for YOU to monkey branch to more attractive girls. Start with the 3/10. Monkey branch to the 5/10 at the periphery of her friend group. Monkey branch to dating the 6/10 who is friends with your buddies girlfriend who has seen you around with other girls, etc.

Girls like nothing more than humiliating a less attractive girl to reaffirm their own desirability. You can make that work for you.


Lol you gotta be kidding right? As soon as that plain slim 5/10 girl see's you with a 3/10 whale your toast in her eyes. A scrub. Watch your worth drop in the eyes of fit/passable women if you habituate with fat fucks/ugly girls. This has all been well documented by sociologists.
 
You could easily do it in 4 months, and get laid the whole time in the process. Plus if you want to invest time you could be doing it with multiple 3/10s at the same time. It’s a feasible means of getting a decent girlfriend as an average guy, if you aren’t willing to put in that bare minimum then lol.

r/REDDITREdpill awaits you

gtfo with that theorymaxxing bullshit
 
Lol you gotta be kidding right? As soon as that plain slim 5/10 girl see's you with a 3/10 whale your toast in her eyes. A scrub. Watch your worth drop in the eyes of fit/passable women if you habituate with fat fucks/ugly girls. This has all been well documented by sociologists.

Lol completely wrong. They want to cuck the 3/10 because it annoys them that she might be receiving any validation / attention. Women are just as vicious to each other as they are to men (if not more).
 
Lol completely wrong. They want to cuck the 3/10 because it annoys them that she might be receiving any validation / attention. Women are just as vicious to each other as they are to men (if not more).


I'm afraid your wrong buddy. When women see you with a less attractive woman (fatty), your less value to them. When they see you with a fitter/hotter girl than them its that what TRIGGERS them to believe your a decent guy. Its their jealously or thought of a woman better than them being with you.
 
I'm afraid your wrong buddy. When women see you with a less attractive woman (fatty), your less value to them. When they see you with a fitter/hotter girl than them its that what TRIGGERS them to believe your a decent guy. Its their jealously or thought of a woman better than them being with you.

Yeah that’s true to the extent that it agitates them more. But, the fact that there might be another girl out there less desirable than them that might be happy and fulfilled fills them independently with rage, and they desire to steal you away from them to reaffirm the natural female order.
 
Society and the incel community undetestimates how averagecels who can't betabux are completely fucked in 2018.
 
What most guys on these apps don’t realize is that they are a stepping stone to creating a social circle for YOU to monkey branch to more attractive girls. Start with the 3/10. Monkey branch to the 5/10 at the periphery of her friend group. Monkey branch to dating the 6/10 who is friends with your buddies girlfriend who has seen you around with other girls, etc.

Girls like nothing more than humiliating a less attractive girl to reaffirm their own desirability. You can make that work for you.
do u actually know anyone who has achieved this? y wud a 5/10 girl want a 5/10 guy if she can get better?
 
do u actually know anyone who has achieved this? y wud a 5/10 girl want a 5/10 guy if she can get better?

I have seen it but is very rare. It was more common in the 1990's.

If I do see a 5/10 non-fat girl (decent body) with a 5/10 boyfriend, he usually tall to extremely tall.
 
I found when i finally decided to lower my standards to 3/10 landwhale that she had no interest in me either..landwhales have WAY more smv than the average incel.me poster..
 
As a healthy weight man that wants a healthy weight partner, I will never lower my standards to a 3/10 whale. Never.
so if a fat woman fell hopelessly in love with you, you would turn her down rather than helping her loose the weight and thus building her affections for you?
 
do u actually know anyone who has achieved this? y wud a 5/10 girl want a 5/10 guy if she can get better?

Because the independent biological attraction women feel towards a man is supplemented by social proof in the form of affirmed desirability in the eyes of another women. Remember, women are far more sensitive and deferential to perceived social trends. If another woman is attributing value to this man, it serves as a proxy for an underlying value he must have even if not readily apparent. She will, to an extent, allow the value judgments of society override (or at least supplement) her own perception.

And keep in mind, women are deeply insecure. She may not be as sure of her value relative to another girl as you may be.
 
women aren't insecure about their SMV, any woman who has opened a dating app has had shitloads of men message and match with her, complete BS
 
I found when i finally decided to lower my standards to 3/10 landwhale that she had no interest in me either..landwhales have WAY more smv than the average incel.me poster..

The truth has been finally spoken


You could easily do it in 4 months, and get laid the whole time in the process. Plus if you want to invest time you could be doing it with multiple 3/10s at the same time. It’s a feasible means of getting a decent girlfriend as an average guy, if you aren’t willing to put in that bare minimum then lol.

If its so easy, what are you doing here?
 
Lol you gotta be kidding right? As soon as that plain slim 5/10 girl see's you with a 3/10 whale your toast in her eyes. A scrub. Watch your worth drop in the eyes of fit/passable women if you habituate with fat fucks/ugly girls. This has all been well documented by sociologists.

Yeah, I lose respect for a man if I find out he's been fucking a hambeast. Only time it's acceptable is if the guy is a looksmatched fat ugly neckbeard.
 
you dont get social proof from fucking a 3/10, that's negative social proof. that's like saying you get social proof from hanging out with homeless people
 

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