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Blackpill The Manipulated Man!

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There are many betabuxx here, please read this book by Esther Villar, stop dreaming of being a conservative betabuxx!

Synopsis
The book argues that, contrary to common feminist and women's rights rhetoric, women in industrialized cultures are not oppressed, but rather exploit a well-established system of manipulating men.

Vilar writes, "Men have been trained and conditioned by women, not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs, into becoming their slaves. As compensation for their labours men are given periodic use of a woman's vagina." The book contends that young boys are encouraged to associate their masculinity with their ability to be sexually intimate with a woman, and that a woman can control a man by socially empowering herself to be the gate-keeper to his sense of masculinity. Vilar states that this has been going on for some time.

The author says that social definitions and norms, such as the idea that women are weak, are constructed by women with their needs in mind. Vilar explains how it works: if women are viewed as weak, less is expected of them; and therefore they are given more leeway in society than men. Vilar states that women are generally "gold diggers" who attempt to extract money and other material resources from men. One means by which women control men to effect this transfer of resources is praise. Women dole out praise to men only when their needs are met in some way.

Another means of manipulation is the calculated use of emotional displays. Vilar claims that women can control their emotional reactions whereas men cannot, and that women create overly-dramatized emotional reactions to get their way: they "blackmail" men emotionally. Women also use sex as a tool of manipulation and control but also traditional concepts of love and romance, which are seen more positively than sex, to control men's sexual lives. Vilar writes that men gain nothing from marriage and that women coerce them into it under the pretense that it fulfills their romantic desires.

The book closes with Vilar stating that it would be difficult to change the situation by appealing to women, as women are unsympathetic to the plight of men, and unwilling to give up their comfortable position in society. It is up to men to see past the deception and emotional blackmail and subject it to open criticism before any meaningful changes can occur.
 

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I've read it. Pretty good book.
 
Just pay for the wustie
:soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy:
 
A book written by a woman? :waitwhat::feelsseriously::feelswhere:

Also, the term "betabuxx" doesn't apply correctly to a situation where you get an arranged marriage with a virgin girl, without the possibility of divorce, in a true traditional society. "Betabuxx" is a pejorative term for cucks who accept to have 30+ used-up sluts settling with them.
 
A book written by a woman? :waitwhat::feelsseriously::feelswhere:

Also, the term "betabuxx" doesn't apply correctly to a situation where you get an arranged marriage with a virgin girl, without the possibility of divorce, in a true traditional society. "Betabuxx" is a pejorative term for cucks who accept to have 30+ used-up sluts settling with them.

"Conservative betabuxx" is obviously different in bark than the other but in essence has similarities.
 
So what should we do then? Women are the only ones with vaginas and the ability to give us sexual validation.

The options are betabux, pay a escort for fake validation(short term betabux) or live your life as a virgin. All options are terrible.

Chad can get sexual validation anytime he wants it for free.

Just be Chad theory strikes again.
 
So what should we do then? Women are the only ones with vaginas and the ability to give us sexual validation.

The options are betabux, pay a escort for fake validation(short term betabux) or live your life as a virgin. All options are terrible.

Chad can get sexual validation anytime he wants it for free.

Just be Chad theory strikes again.

One of the weaknesses of the book is not to talk about chad - of course I was not going to speak in those terms. But he is more focused on marriage and the strategies of female manipulation in them. It's a 1971 book.
 
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How is it different
That's why in modern betabuxx it can be with single mother or woman who bumped into the wall. What many dare here is a betabuxx that they would marry a virgin, just do not know that she would start having sex with ill will like the previous one, even worse because of the little experience. Who really takes advantage is chad, maybe if it's a rich incel she can still do it with will.
 
One of the weaknesses of the book is not to talk about chad - of course I was not going to speak in those terms. But he is more focused on marriage and the strategies of female manipulation in them. It's a 1972 book.
Marriage is a scam, that’s true. If I was Chad, I’d just have a live in girlfriend in a place without common law marriage. If she cheats, just go get another girlfriend.

I totally believe in the dread part of the red pill. You have to make a foid dread you having options to keep her loyal. Only works for Chad though.
 
Heard about that book on the Red Pill Documentary. Interested in reading it.
 
A book written by a woman? :waitwhat::feelsseriously::feelswhere:
I know, I was sceptical as well, but this book is really good.

Highly recommended, you guys will not regret reading it. It describes how women changed mens' behavior, their self image and even their world view in a way that would benefit women themselves.
It's life fuel because it teaches its male readers how to overcome the manipulation and see through female trickery. I know, most of us are already blackpilled, but read the book, it's good.
 
Legit one of the greatest books of all time, I have read it countless times. Idk why this Jewish roastie decided to write it, but oh well. At least she did!
 
theres a lot of lazy thinking in the book and absurd generalizations, but the basic premise of the book is correct imo

its folk psychological and comically polemic nature makes it hard to get anyone who doesnt already agree with it to take it seriously

its one of those books that preaches to the choir
 
Retarded bullshit, they manipulate us because we want to fuck pussy
 
Concerning her divorce she stated, "I didn't break up with the man, just with marriage as an institution."
 

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