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Theory The males vs females dynamic in childhood and how it may affect sexuality

Shay Patrick Cormac

Shay Patrick Cormac

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Men and women are in a sort of competition since childhood (the "ew girls"for boys and "ew boys" for girls phase) . Men desire power, being the best, having a meaning regardless of the possible reality of nihilism, men have the drive to be alpha in order to attract girls, because your brain knows girls go for strong men even if you don't consciously realize so; your brain however ignores your looks and convinces you have the potential to be alpha. So this hostility-dynamic is actually a subtle complex strategy for attraction. As for girls, they also have their own faction,but their objective and instinct however is focused on manipulation and subtle social power; they also use the "ew boys" strategy for attraction, but not to impress boys, but to dominate them, make them slaves of "love" and make them compete against eachother and gain:
1)Ego boost for being in control and manipulating people
2) Select the best mate
You could say the childhood hate for the opposite sex is nothing but an innate reaction formation for both males and females. Also, you can notice a certain pattern: gay people tend to have a reversed hate and "betray" their own faction, this is especially prevalent in gay males; chances are, that if a male sided with girls during childhood and acted for what one could mistake as a cuck, with the whole "Girls are more mature" stuff, the person is question is gay and their hate strategy is just so happen to be directed to the same sex. Gay males however don't have the same potential of manipulation of females and act as a sort of "ally of the enemy". Am I saying that if a subhuman is rejected by the male faction (like it commonly happens) this means he is more likely to be gay!? Absolutely not. In fact straight subhumans tend to operate as sigma wolves and don't side with the female faction, even if they might developed a sort of hate that doesn't however reflect a strategy for attraction. I belive this whole dynamic influenced the whole history, wars and human achivements. And at last, when "love" is achieved ,this instinct remains, for the male to keep their mate, and the female to constantly test him and gain ego from manipulation. Incels sit on a sort of gray area most of the time, both by becoming a sigma wolf due to rejection by the male faction and because they understand female nature and resent being manipulated, making the motives of the "hate strategy", a blend of ego boost and revenge of the male faction for shunning them and not being destined to be alpha, and yes the reaction formation for female attention remains too, unconscious.
 
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