IsolationHurts
Spanish Oldcel
★★★★
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2017
- Posts
- 3,853
Hey ladies. I love this subreddit and you guys. Back during my time being socially awkward and ugly, I wish this place was around. I love how tight knit this community is and how you ladies genuinely support each other and bring each other up. Unfortunately, I learned about the incels before I found out all of you existed. I was disgusted with all the misogyny, violence and flat out toxicity that came from those men. But I don't see women behaving in this way. I'd say you guys are productive, level-headed and kind hearted. Although I no longer face the same struggles, I can sympathize and I admire that through your struggle you guys have kept your dignity and morals. I just wanted to say that. When I was femcel, I didn't know the term existed yet. I was an overweight black girl (210 pounds) in a white community where most women my age were skinny blonde cheerleader types (Stacies). Only the lowest tier guys would notice me. Mostly neck beards who were desperate because the Stacies were out of their league. I'm glad I got away and eventually lost weight though. Men finally started noticing me after I graduated and moved. I'm by no means a Stacy now but I'd call myself average. I still chased men away for a while with my clinginess and low self esteem because as a younger girl, I wasn't used to male attention but now I've had a boyfriend for 2 years. I'm glad this subreddit is here to support women who are like I was and I send to you nothing but positive vibes.
I would wish she get cancer, but i think there is not enough cancer in the universe for this injustice to really be repaired.