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Serious The LDAR culture here is wrong and we should make the best out of our situations

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Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
 
ok infiltrater
 
Check username
 
ok infiltrater
enjoy committing suicide and being swiftly forgotten by people who made your life hell.
if you don't take care of yourself then you might as well be a volcel
 
enjoy committing suicide and being swiftly forgotten by people who made your life hell.
if you don't take care of yourself then you might as well be a volcel
you def a are a foid or some normtard. WIsh you a terrible death fucking infiltrating faggot
 
There is nothing to be done
 
I spent 10 years LDARing and it worsened my inceldom.
Don't make my mistake
Well I don’t really disagree with your message but it kinda depends on the individual situation, some people genuinely just can’t do anything and find comfort LDARing
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
Why is this even controversial? Should just be common sense
 
There is merit to what you are trying to say. You just have to understand that many users here are not only struggling with romantic love, but getting a proper job, having a social life at all - which is my case too. There is also the ND aspect. I am trying to get back into the job market since i am tired of the little unemployment money i do get.
 
make ... "the fullest" of their life's situation? what lifes you greytard? ok mrd fed, we won't crumble your economy, we promise! (crosses fingers behind back..).
 
Well I don’t really disagree with your message but it kinda depends on the individual situation, some people genuinely just can’t do anything and find comfort LDARing
LDARing is like taking a loan you can't pay later. Once you become an oldcel you'll suck dicks to go back to [present time].
My LDARing has exponentially fucked my life up
 
There is merit to what you are trying to say. You just have to understand that many users here are not only struggling with romantic love, but getting a proper job, having a social life at all - which is my case too. There is also the ND aspect. I am trying to get back into the job market since i am tired of the little unemployment money i do get.
I am ugly, I have a really weak body. My health is really bad, and my feet hurt all the time, yet I try to stay active. Time is going to pass regardless.
 
LDARing is like taking a loan you can't pay later. Once you become an oldcel you'll suck dicks to go back to [present time].
My LDARing has exponentially fucked my life up
Agree. LDAR is only the right choice when you get assured assistence by the state due to some diagnosed ND condition
 
"Work hard to be a productive member of society, bro"

I have nothing else to do but work to make life better for sexhavers

OP:

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"Work hard to be a productive member of society, bro"

I have nothing else to do but work to make life better for sexhavers

OP:

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chad manager driving the company car and taking the free vacations is just cucking everyone while working the least in his team. believing that being procucktive, is what pushes you forward is utter cope... .
 
Fuck off GrAY
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
I understand. I cant bring myself to tell people to just give up and die most of the time unless they really are in a extreme condition. We really deserved better lives.
I sometimes fantasize about a different world where I didnt suffer so much just for being the way I am. I do agree we deserve better.
This forum is very bleak though and people here will often just tell you to ldar or rope or something like that. But yeah, see what you can do to make your life better and worth living.
I dont think one should give up improving if thats what they want to do with their lives. So I get what you mean
 
"Work hard to be a productive member of society, bro"

I have nothing else to do but work to make life better for sexhavers

OP:

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You work so you can live independently, away from parents who will inevitably kick you out if you remain a NEET, and then you're homeless on top of being sub5.
 
Well I don’t really disagree with your message but it kinda depends on the individual situation, some people genuinely just can’t do anything and find comfort LDARing
Yeah I get that. Being a hikikomori, just bed-rotting and distracting yourself is very comfortable and sometimes you just wanna be like that. It is very tempting.
It may be something to due with depression and burnout from life. Life is very oppressive for incels. Especially as there is no support and so much judgement
 
You work so you can live independently, away from parents who will inevitably kick you out if you remain a NEET, and then you're homeless on top of being sub5.
In Spain, you get a basic income just for existing, I would never end up on the street
 
In Spain, you get a basic income just for existing, I would never end up on the street
Same in Australia. But it isn't nearly enough to sustain your life independent from parents, and it cannot cover the cost of rent, food, copes etc.
 
least obvious copium, i LDAR because i acknowledged that i can't achieve anything in life due to factors beyond my control, and even if there's room to make my situation slightly more bearable, the time and effort it requires is not worth it, it's over
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
“Bro! Just torture yourself attempting to be attractive when you won’t ever achieve that and don’t cope with any methods that actually feel good (LDAR’ing)
 
"vro just work to give things to soyciety and keep chasing what you will never get vro"
Hop off a building GrAY
 
You can be anybody if you put your mind to it. You just🤥😸👃 gotta keep your chin up
 
Ok I will stop LDAR
 
Typing this as I weigh the odds of going to sleep vs. catching up on boatloads of work. LDAR is a privilege nigga and shouldn't be scorned :feelsokman:
 
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Just become a millionaire out of nowhere theory.
 
I enjoy collecting free money.
 
enjoy committing suicide and being swiftly forgotten by people who made your life hell.
if you don't take care of yourself then you might as well be a volcel
Until we unite collectively, there is no purpose in grinding for anything unless it is to spite our enemies in our final moments. You're advocating for meaningless work in system designed to wring you dry and spit you out. The sad thing is that you're not even the worst of the people who try to subvert our kind.
 
Just break your leg or pretend you're too retarded to go to war :bigbrain:
I'm honestly not that strong-willed or intelligent (ironically enough).
 
people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
 
Normies infiltrating incel forums and telling them to work for a society that actively hates them :feelskek:
 
Many of us have tried and nothing changed.

We don't want to waste our entire lives trying for something that is almost out of reach.
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
I had a job and a productive member of society but people still didn't respect me because i am ugly and undesirable.
Fuck " contributing" to soyciety
Traitor traitor go away.
 
a life without LDARing isn’t a life worth living
Normies infiltrating incel forums and telling them to work for a society that actively hates them :feelskek:
 
Well I don’t really disagree with your message but it kinda depends on the individual situation, some people genuinely just can’t do anything and find comfort LDARing
exactly, its complicated.
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
Your body will be less prone to injuries if you get strong. I strongly recommend checking out starting strength 3×5 program. Do not fall for those manlet science coper fitness influencers. Just focus on getting big and strong.
I reject the ldar lifestyle. I wouldn't survive long that way it's bad for my mental health. I am planning to move to a city and leave my shitty village and also practicing larping as nt irl.
 
Working for society is cucked.

Instead of roping, every LDARcel should do the GTA V insta karma funny moments compilation.
 
Fuckoff retard
 
Being incel is hard enough and having people passively treating you like shit is hard enough too. The brocels here that tell you to give up and LDAR or to rope are wrong. I don't want to talk shit and insult them but they should not do this.

I believe an incel is the most worthy of living his life to the fullest. To get as fit as they can get (if they are not injured - Sadly my body gets injured like it's made out of tissue paper) and to cope in ways that offset their inceldom.

People hate us for the halo effect (or specifically the "horn effect"), and even if the ones that talk shit and engage with trolls make us look like lunatics, most of us are just people who were abused, shit on by life and circumstances.

99.99% of incels would probably become normal functioning members of society if they ascended. HELL, it takes even less than that.

The key takeaway that I want to put forth is that a brocel should never tell another brocel to give up. Even if you are a 90 year old wizard who's got a few months to live, spend those few months doing some activities that help you cope.

My philosophy is that people hate us, hurt us, life fucks us, and everything is against us. To add self-harm to that stack of misfortune is comical levels of its over. Live the best lives you can manage to live in spite of our disabilities, neurodivergence, and inceldom.
I will neet and produce for myself to achieve self-reliance outside of the system. If that LDAR, so be it
 
Your body will be less prone to injuries if you get strong. I strongly recommend checking out starting strength 3×5 program. Do not fall for those manlet science coper fitness influencers. Just focus on getting big and strong.
I reject the ldar lifestyle. I wouldn't survive long that way it's bad for my mental health. I am planning to move to a city and leave my shitty village and also practicing larping as nt irl.
Did you just use manlet in a derogatory manner!!!!!!!?

Mods ban this talloid cuck fakecel. fuck you
 

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