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Venting The issue of not being able to attract my looksmatch isn't the problem.

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The problem is that I (and many of you) can't attract ANY girls. This includes girls better looking than you, and girls worse looking that you. Not only can you not get Stacy, you also can't get a 3/10 obese girl despite lifting and being in shape.

Really, unless you have zero personal hygiene and/or are comically obese or whatever, you should you should be able to find SOMEONE that finds you physically attractive. Like an out of shape chubby dude might not pull as many girls as a ripped Chad, but he should be able to find SOME girls that would like that. Doesn't matter whether or not they're fat as well, he should be able to find SOMEONE. But since even the ugliest of girls and the most average of girls all think they deserve 6'0+ alpha muscle Chad, someone who isn't that is screwed. He will either die alone or end up with a betabux girl who doesn't really like him. This is probably how most relationships are, anyway. The girl not finding the dude hot.

This is why I'm not into the looksmatch thing. Because 95% of people should be able to find someone who would want to go out with them. Whether or not this person is better looking than them or whatever does not matter. Sadly, only women get to experience this.

100% OF WOMEN SHOULD NOT ONLY WANT CHAD. There should be women into short guys. Chubby guys. Shy guys. Guys who aren't masculine or dominant. Girls who like South Asian guys. Guys on the spectrum. Girls who don't mind guys with not great facss. There should be enough girls who like different things for most men to not end up being lonely and sexless.
 
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First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them.

Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh.

Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles.
 
First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them.

Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh.

Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles.

"Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh." No.

"First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them." Fuck you.

"Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles." Says the bottom. Neck yourself at the nearest tree kthnx.
 
First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them.

Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh.

Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles.
I'm not saying you have to be. I'm saying that the issue is that even women who are worse looking than you don't want you. You should be able to find SOMEONE. Anyone. It doesn't matter if this girl is cute as hell or is a living, breathing Fiona from Shrek.
 
First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them.

Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh.

Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles.
Neck yourself at the nearest tree kthnx.
 
"Secondly if you are NT and part of a social circle you could get some girl eventually tbh." No.

"First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them." Fuck you.

"Most of us here are autists who are either too proud or too autistic to be part of the social strata. And we refuse to accept our bottom feeder roles." Says the bottom. Neck yourself at the nearest tree kthnx.
See you don't know shit about me.
I was extremely proud and I never accepted anyone ever even insulting me. I would go to great lengths to preserve my dignity and I was never part of society for that reason cause I didn't want to play their game and their role for me.
I said fuck them to all of them. But I did pay the price of ending up alone.
 
See you don't know shit about me.
I was extremely proud and I never accepted anyone ever even insulting me. I would go to great lengths to preserve my dignity and I was never part of society for that reason cause I didn't want to play their game and their role for me.
I said fuck them to all of them. But I did pay the price of ending up alone.

Except you weren't alone. Are you saying we should accept being insulted now? I'm afraid roping is too light for you.
 
Except you weren't alone. Are you saying we should accept being insulted now? I'm afraid roping is too light for you.
I ended up alone tho.
Not saying you should accept anything tbh. Live life as you want but I lived that way and now I paid the price.
Still wouldn't want to be a cuck even now,I am repulsed by the idea.

Anyways I will be roping anyways so chill.
 
livestream it so I can see
I am roping only for myself and to make best decision about my quality of life. IDGF about anything or anyone else.

Roping is an intimate choice that ultimately everyone needs to decide for themselves.
 
Todays women -- well post 1980's women -- don't show as much variety as their female ancestors.
Looking back on family albu,sm from the pre 90's I see what you would call incel-looking men with slim, fit women.

Its a sad and damaging fact of modern life that standards for how men should look have reached sky high ideals, yet the standards for women have fallen so low in the last 20 years even fat women of infertile age have admirers online and can be choosy.

Women today show little variety in what they find sexy or hot in a guy. Its always the same thing they like: guys that are tall (6ft0+, 6ft1+), athletic/fit mucualr, good jaws, good hair and are socially accepted by other normie drones... mostly through virtue of their looks.
 
This is why the advice of lowering your standards and going for fat/ugly girls isn't the best advice unless you unironically demand a model or a porn star. Ugly people (women especially, men definitely can be) aren't attracted to other ugly people just because they themselves are ugly. What does one do when fat girls reject you? Single mothers? Bottom of the barrel women? Ugly couples do exist, but what are the odds they aren't into each other and are just settling? The female especially.

YOUR LOOKS DO NOT DETERMINE WHAT YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE. THIS IS WHY IT IS DUMB TO ASSUME UGLY WOMEN WILL FIND INCELS MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN CHADS JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE UGLY THEMSELVES.
 
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"First of I have no Interest in fat landwhales or disgusting females. Its just how it is. It is not a choice I am repulsed by them." Fuck you.

Landwhale = CHOICE
Ugly male = NO CHOICE

Why the fuck would ANYONE choose to be in a relationship with a person that is fat by choice that's just fucking retarded.

Femoid life is like literally two things:
1. Just don't be fat
2. Just have long hair

With the latter not even a must and it's like literally these two things that's ALL THEY HAVE TO DO and they can't even do that.:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:


Not even going to bother writing down what a male needs to be with 99% of it out of a man's control. No time to write a thesis here tbh.


BE WARNED, IF ANYONE HERE ASCENDS TO FUCK A LANDWHALE YOU ARE ADDING TO THE SUFFERING OF ALL MALES AND TO THE DEGENERACY.
 
The problem is that I (and many of you) can't attract ANY girls. This includes girls better looking than you, and girls worse looking that you. Not only can you not get Stacy, you also can't get a 3/10 obese girl despite lifting and being in shape.

Really, unless you have zero personal hygiene and/or are comically obese or whatever, you should you should be able to find SOMEONE that finds you physically attractive. Like an out of shape chubby dude might not pull as many girls as a ripped Chad, but he should be able to find SOME girls that would like that. Doesn't matter whether or not they're fat as well, he should be able to find SOMEONE. But since even the ugliest of girls and the most average of girls all think they deserve 6'0+ alpha muscle Chad, someone who isn't that is screwed. He will either die alone or end up with a betabux girl who doesn't really like him. This is probably how most relationships are, anyway. The girl not finding the dude hot.

This is why I'm not into the looksmatch thing. Because 95% of people should be able to find someone who would want to go out with them. Whether or not this person is better looking than them or whatever does not matter. Sadly, only women get to experience this.

100% OF WOMEN SHOULD NOT ONLY WANT CHAD. There should be women into short guys. Chubby guys. Shy guys. Guys who aren't masculine or dominant. Girls who like South Asian guys. Guys on the spectrum. Girls who don't mind guys with not great facss. There should be enough girls who like different things for most men to not end up being lonely and sexless.

You probably have some form of low grade autism. I know looks are a problem, but the reason this board exists is because it is the one thing you really can't change. For every Chad couple I see I see three guys with every flaw in the book. I would love to believe looks are everything but there is more to it.

Blackpill or not, women have different tastes. Same with cars, there isn't one car that everyone loves.
 
Landwhale = CHOICE
Ugly male = NO CHOICE

Why the fuck would ANYONE choose to be in a relationship with a person that is fat by choice thats just fucking retarded.

Femoid life is like literally two things:
1. Just don't be fat
2. Just have long hair

With the latter not even a must and it's like literally these two things that's ALL THEY HAVE TO DO and they can't even do that.:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:


Not even going to bother writing down what a male needs to be. No time to write a thesis here tbh.


BE WARNED, IF ANYONE HERE ASCENDS TO FUCK A LANDWHALE YOU ARE ADDING TO THE SUFFERING OF ALL MALES AND TO THE DEGENERACY.
A woman who has PCOS may not be able to lose weight, and they can have masculine features like facial hair.
 
Landwhale = CHOICE
Ugly male = NO CHOICE

Why the fuck would ANYONE choose to be in a relationship with a person that is fat by choice thats just fucking retarded.

Femoid life is like literally two things:
1. Just don't be fat
2. Just have long hair

With the latter not even a must and it's like literally these two things that's ALL THEY HAVE TO DO and they can't even do that.:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:


Not even going to bother writing down what a male needs to be. No time to write a thesis here tbh.


BE WARNED, IF ANYONE HERE ASCENDS TO FUCK A LANDWHALE YOU ARE ADDING TO THE SUFFERING OF ALL MALES AND TO THE DEGENERACY.
Even then fat bitches can have men who look decent. While fat men are wanted by no one and are possibly volcel until they not only lose weight, but also get ripped.
 
You probably have some form of low grade autism. I know looks are a problem, but the reason this board exists is because it is the one thing you really can't change. For every Chad couple I see I see three guys with every flaw in the book. I would love to believe looks are everything but there is more to it.

Blackpill or not, women have different tastes. Same with cars, there isn't one car that everyone loves.
Cope. Women only like different varieties of Chad. Any average or below man who is in a relationship is either a betabux being cheated on or is extremely lucky to have found a unicorn.
 
Landwhale = CHOICE
Ugly male = NO CHOICE

Why the fuck would ANYONE choose to be in a relationship with a person that is fat by choice that's just fucking retarded.

Femoid life is like literally two things:
1. Just don't be fat
2. Just have long hair

With the latter not even a must and it's like literally these two things that's ALL THEY HAVE TO DO and they can't even do that.:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:


Not even going to bother writing down what a male needs to be with 99% of it out of a man's control. No time to write a thesis here tbh.


BE WARNED, IF ANYONE HERE ASCENDS TO FUCK A LANDWHALE YOU ARE ADDING TO THE SUFFERING OF ALL MALES AND TO THE DEGENERACY.

It doesn't matter anymore. Either you get her or a normie gets her. JFL if you think she'll ever be in the dry, she'll ALWAYS have someone. If it ain't you, it will certainly be someone else.
 
Cope. Women only like different varieties of Chad. Any average or below man who is in a relationship is either a betabux being cheated on or is extremely lucky to have found a unicorn.
But there is also reality. I want a 500K lambo but there is no fucking way I can afford it. Chads are 10% of the population. Those chads will also dump women too because they have so much choice. There has to be compromise, and people are happy driving Toyotas.
 
Would be amazing if I could get regular sex from my looksmatch. Too bad they are all shallow whores who 15/10 Chad doctor.
 
It doesn't matter anymore. Either you get her or a normie gets her. JFL if you think she'll ever be in the dry, she'll ALWAYS have someone. If it ain't you, it will certainly be someone else.

This is why we need an incel uprising. I choose not to be part of the problem.
 
The girls who like me I don't like back unfortunately. The girls I like I'm too scared to ask out but I doubt they like me anyway.
At least you have girls that like you
 
But there is also reality. I want a 500K lambo but there is no fucking way I can afford it. Chads are 10% of the population. Those chads will also dump women too because they have so much choice. There has to be compromise, and people are happy driving Toyotas.
If this were true, incels would have loving girlfriends and wouldn't be betabux if they by some miracle got girlfriends.
 
If this were true, incels would have loving girlfriends and wouldn't be betabux if they by some miracle got girlfriends.
I think there is a missing ingredient though. Once you have any autism all bets are off.
 
I think there is a missing ingredient though. Once you have any autism all bets are off.
I'm socially awkward, but not autistic.

Any girl I'll date if I ever do date will not love me. I am doomed to be betabux.
 
Where the hell were you for the past month or so?
 
Where the hell were you for the past month or so?
I come and go. I come here when my depression gets ugly and lately I've been feeling pretty neutral.

I also was on spring break.
 
I come and go. I come here when my depression gets ugly and lately I've been feeling pretty neutral.

I also was on spring break.
Ah ok. I don't want to derail this, but I made a thread a while ago about how anime has become normie, and most people agreed. I tagged you in it
 
Ah ok. I don't want to derail this, but I made a thread a while ago about how anime has become normie, and most people agreed. I tagged you in it
Hmm...
 
Landwhale = CHOICE
Ugly male = NO CHOICE


Femoid life is like literally two things:
1. Just don't be fat
2. Just have long hair



BE WARNED, IF ANYONE HERE ASCENDS TO FUCK A LANDWHALE YOU ARE ADDING TO THE SUFFERING OF ALL MALES AND TO THE DEGENERACY.
 
THE ISSUE IS THAT WE ARE SUBHUMANS
 
you're one of the only usernames i see in this place from /r/incels tbh, welcome back:feelsokman:
 
In nature, there is a continual arms race between male and female in terms of sexual selection. Thats why you get birds that evolve ridiculously elaborate dances as part of their mating ritual.

In humans, mens strategy was to just lower their standards. However that is an old strategy - standards have been lowered. Women have adapted to it, so now even the lowest tier know they can easily access higher tier men.

The next adaption men are going for is PUA game, looksmaxing, anything to desperately try and increase their own value. Even that has now run its course as women know the basics of game.
 
I dont care about women. I am just really unhappy with my FUCKING LOOKS
 
YOUR LOOKS DO NOT DETERMINE WHAT YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE. THIS IS WHY IT IS DUMB TO ASSUME UGLY WOMEN WILL FIND INCELS MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN CHADS JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE UGLY THEMSELVES.
No one has a problem telling men to lower their standards, and not bat out of their league, so we should also say the same thing to fat hogs and butterfaces.
 
No one has a problem telling men to lower their standards, and not bat out of their league, so we should also say the same thing to fat hogs and butterfaces.

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On Reddit they told me you can't control who you are attracted to.
 

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