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It's Over The importance of losing your virginity in your teens.

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Okay, this is pretty self evident and I know a lot of you incels already know this, but I feel like a lot of normies, chads, stacys and other people have no fucking clue why it’s important.

Let’s start about the fundamental NEED of sex, as humans we have two real biological purposes and everything we do is basically related to them. They are, Survive and Procreate. It’s a biological necessity to procreate and if we aren’t having intercourse then our brains think something is terribly wrong.

This applies throughout puberty at an extreme level. It’s not even the matter of having sex or getting sex, it’s about having the POTENTIAL to procreate and be desired. Incels have no idea how that feels but there is a huge stigma about it all around us through the media and real life. Our brains process and understand the idea of having affection and being desired and that’s a want that’s connected to the NEED of procreation.

So, puberty (teen years) is basically judgement time to see if we have the potential to be desired and if we fail that then we are basically useless and obsolete because we can’t pass down our genetics, this is the biggest fundamental rejection of natural selection and people that are selected fail to see that.

In the end of the day, we should just rope. Our existence is nothing but pain and cuckery.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
Sorry, man, but you're coping HARD.

Both women and men peak at their teens to early twenties.
 
Losing your virginity in your teens guarantees natural confidence which is vital to succeed in all areas of life, career-wise, socially and to a degree dating-wise.

The lack of sex (or any validation from the opposite sex) results in a natural lack of confidence as you become uncertain in yourself and forcing yourself to be confident is extremely fucking tiring and most people can tell that you're faking it due to your "quirky" nature being on full display resulting in you being ostracised due to your behaviour being extremely different to the rest because of the lack of natural confidence and social skills.
 
Sorry, man, but you're coping HARD.

Both women and men peak at their teens to early twenties.
No, men mature later in life than wahmen. When they careermaxx, moneymaxx and gymmaxx, their smv increase compare to when they are a teenager/young man.Women are willing to date much older men.
 
I agree but you missed the target. There is something missing with what you said.
It is the fact that it is very important to have a gf and have sex before you reach your 20s.
Foids will be repulsed to even think of dating you once they learn that you are a virgin and have never had a gf. They see these as red flags. So basically, teenage is where you make yourself dateable or not.
 
Losing your virginity in your teens guarantees natural confidence which is vital to succeed in all areas of life, career-wise, socially and to a degree dating-wise.

The lack of sex (or any validation from the opposite sex) results in a natural lack of confidence as you become uncertain in yourself and forcing yourself to be confident is extremely fucking tiring and most people can tell that you're faking it due to your "quirky" nature being on full display resulting in you being ostracised due to your behaviour being extremely different to the rest because of the lack of natural confidence and social skills.

You’re placing your self worth into the hands of another human being. An illogical femoids at that. That’s the biggest cuck shit you can do. Confident can come from accomplishment in other aspect of life. You need to stop placing female valiadation so high, you think all you’re problems will go away once you get laid? You will suddenly become and alpha male with massaive amount of confident just because you kiss a girl? You’re delusional.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself.
So betabuxxing is the same as being a 17 year old chad getting teen pussy?
big cope
 
So betabuxxing is the same as being a 17 year old chad getting teen pussy?
big cope
Beta buxxing is a societal problem due to female nature. Yes chad do have it easier to sleep with wahmen compare to the average normal looking male. Which means you have to find an alternate route to that prime pussy. Instead of complaining how other men have it easier, you have to work harder to get the same thing. It’s not fair but that doesn’t mean it’s out of reach.
 
Beta buxxing is a societal problem due to female nature. Yes chad do have it easier to sleep with wahmen compare to the average normal looking male. Which means you have to find an alternate route to that prime pussy. Instead of complaining how other men have it easier, you have to work harder to get the same thing. It’s not fair but that doesn’t mean it’s out of reach.
And you're saying men's SMV increases over time because they acquire resources? Seems like betabuxxing to me.
OKcupid studies have shown women's judgement of male personality is directly correlated to how attractive she finds him, so "confidence" and "attractiveness" are a lot less valid than resources out of the three things you said.

I'm not saying you support betabuxxing, but saying that men's value increases as they age because they have more resources is basically saying they have an easier time betabuxxing if they're not attractive. Meaning nerd phaggots who stay virgins throughout their teens but get a good job and land some soon-to-be-fat-and-ugly used-up 30 year old whore because of their "resources", textbook betabuxx.
 
but I feel like a lot of normies, chads, stacys and other people have no fucking clue why it’s important.
That's because those degenerates have it on tap. Filthy sex havers.
 
No, men mature later in life than wahmen. When they careermaxx, moneymaxx and gymmaxx, their smv increase compare to when they are a teenager/young man.Women are willing to date much older men.
careermaxx + moneymaxx + gymmaxx = a fit beta provider
 
careermaxx + moneymaxx + gymmaxx = a fit beta provider
Pretty much a good compliant worker bee.. working to keep the shit show rolling.
 
And you're saying men's SMV increases over time because they acquire resources? Seems like betabuxxing to me.
OKcupid studies have shown women's judgement of male personality is directly correlated to how attractive she finds him, so "confidence" and "attractiveness" are a lot less valid than resources out of the three things you said.

I'm not saying you support betabuxxing, but saying that men's value increases as they age because they have more resources is basically saying they have an easier time betabuxxing if they're not attractive. Meaning nerd phaggots who stay virgins throughout their teens but get a good job and land some soon-to-be-fat-and-ugly used-up 30 year old whore because of their "resources", textbook betabuxx.

So ldar then. Yeah beta buxxing is fucked but money can buy you escorts. Wahmen nature is hypergamous as fuck. She will cuck you for your resource and cheat on you with chad when given the chance. So why place so much value in female validation? Go do shit that makes you alpha as fuck. Crying about not getting teenage love when you know about female nature is an foolish. We are not chad, life isn’t easy mode for us, so should we ldar? Give up? Fuck that I say, we can find other shit to do in life. Bang escorts, liftweight, buy cool shit, and travel the world.
careermaxx + moneymaxx + gymmaxx = a fit beta provider
When you careermaxx gymmaxx and moneymaxx this is for our own fucking benefit. Don’t share your wealth if you don’t want to. Females will seek you out and you can pump and dump them like the stupid whores they are.
 
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So ldar then. Yeah beta buxxing is fucked but money can buy you escorts. Wahmen nature is hypergamous as fuck. She will cuck you for your resource and cheat on you with chad when given the chance. So why place so much value in female validation? Go do shit that makes you alpha as fuck. Crying about not getting teenage love when you know about female nature is an foolish. We are not chad, life isn’t easy mode for us, so should we ldar? Give up? Fuck that I say, we can find other shit to do in life. Bang escorts, liftweight, buy cool shit, and travel the world.
I get what you're saying, but nothing can fill in the void of missing out on teenage/young sex/love. What you are listing are called copes. They can be good copes, but they are still just copes. Once you become hyper aware of what you have actually missed out on, you lose all motivation to continue living. So yes, most of us have choosen suicide or LDAR
 
So ldar then. Yeah beta buxxing is fucked but money can buy you escorts. Wahmen nature is hypergamous as fuck. She will cuck you for your resource and cheat on you with chad when given the chance. So why place so much value in female validation? Go do shit that makes you alpha as fuck. Crying about not getting teenage love when you know about female nature is an foolish. We are not chad, life isn’t easy mode for us, so should we ldar? Give up? Fuck that I say, we can find other shit to do in life. Bang escorts, liftweight, buy cool shit, and travel the world.

When you careermaxx gymmaxx and moneymaxx this is for our own fucking benefit. Don’t share your wealth if you don’t want to. Females will seek you out and you can pump and dump them like the stupid whores they are.
Dig the mindset
 
I get what you're saying, but nothing can fill in the void of missing out on teenage/young sex/love. What you are listing are called copes. They can be good copes, but they are still just copes. Once you become hyper aware of what you have actually missed out on, you lose all motivation to continue living. So yes, most of us have choosen suicide or LDAR

Teenage love is not forever. They oftentimes get bored of each other and will cheat or break up later on. Hook up culture due to dating apps have change the game. Chad have it easier no doubt about that, but I’m saying there are alternative route to what you desire. It’s a harder road compare to chad but ldar/suicide is defeatism. You get one live to live and you are gonna wallow in self pity and cry how chad has it easier than you. Life isn’t fair.

If you do what is easy, life will be hard, if you do what is hard, life will be easy.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
Incredibly low IQ man. Males start to show signs of success as early as elementary school. The popular chad in high school will be much more successful than the awkward friendless guy and this has been proven most of the time. Dominant attractive bullies such as the paul brothers and most models are now millionaires and famous. If you are a beta in high school there will be no way to truly become an alpha male in the future

If you aren't getting laid in high school or at around 15-17 it's terribly over.
 
Incredibly low IQ man. Males start to show signs of success as early as elementary school. The popular chad in high school will be much more successful than the awkward friendless guy and this has been proven most of the time. Dominant attractive bullies such as the paul brothers and most models are now millionaires and famous. If you are a beta in high school there will be no way to truly become an alpha male in the future

If you aren't getting laid in high school or at around 15-17 it's terribly over.

Okay bro, ldar.
 
Losing your virginity in your teens guarantees natural confidence which is vital to succeed in all areas of life, career-wise, socially and to a degree dating-wise.

The lack of sex (or any validation from the opposite sex) results in a natural lack of confidence as you become uncertain in yourself and forcing yourself to be confident is extremely fucking tiring and most people can tell that you're faking it due to your "quirky" nature being on full display resulting in you being ostracised due to your behaviour being extremely different to the rest because of the lack of natural confidence and social skills.
HIGH IQ
 
My father studymaxxed, gymmaxed and get her virgin woman when he was 28 so no, it's not important to get laid at 17...

Today he is double-millionar with 3 children.
 
Teenage love is not forever. They oftentimes get bored of each other and will cheat or break up later on. Hook up culture due to dating apps have change the game. Chad have it easier no doubt about that, but I’m saying there are alternative route to what you desire. It’s a harder road compare to chad but ldar/suicide is defeatism. You get one live to live and you are gonna wallow in self pity and cry how chad has it easier than you. Life isn’t fair.

If you do what is easy, life will be hard, if you do what is hard, life will be easy.

Not experiencing teenage sex is the biggest void in a mans life. You can never go back once you miss out on it. The main reason is that the foid will never have such tight skin and overall attractive body once she passes 20. If you manage to experience sex later in life it will never compare to a tight virgin pussy, you will never experience taking a foids virginity and breaking her hymen - the ultimate experience. Don't try to downplay that, you and I both know it is the best experience a man can have in his entire life - and we missed out on it. Yes, life isn't fair, so if you don't get the right cards dealt to you, you can just restart the game instead of wasting your time playing with the useless ones (ie. suicide is a good thing if one has the balls to do it). Your last sentence is just an empty platitude
 
the truth hurts, but this is true
 
Couldn't agree with this more. It's not just about losing your virginity in your teens, it's about losing it in highschool.
 
Maybe when you guys are older your mindset will change.

I do agree that our current situation is really fucked with the 80/20 rule.
 
If you don't lose virginity by 19, you can't "just be confident"
 
Maybe when you guys are older your mindset will change.
It's not our mindset, it is the axioms we observe - and those will never change. Btw, I'm old enough to have a 25 year old child so do the math (edit: inb4 someone misreads this, I don't *have a child)
 
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Loosing your V means nothing. You will still be the ugly guy you where before. Tasting the other side that was never meant for us , just makes things worst. It's so freaking easy to loose your virginity anytime, teen, adult years. But it's nothing.....Don't blame inceldom for your virginity when you can pay for it.
 
So being desired sexually by attractive young women and their acceptance is what you want the most?
Heh, let me tell you, you get over that quick. Your self worth gotta come from yourself.
Although I do agree with what you guys are saying about how validation at a young age will give you a head start in life. That is fucking true, but that doesn’t mean it over if you don’t get that.
 
Sorry, man, but you're coping HARD.

Both women and men peak at their teens to early twenties.
Lmfao idk how he can type that with a straight face on this forum
 
Holy shit, it's just another iteration of the same thread over and over again. I was starting to worry it would show some scientific study. That being said, I don't disagree with the premise, I just hope someone would make a study on this, like comparing mental health between normal men and incels and late bloomers. Guess it'll never happen in the cucked West, but a man can dream.
 
Okay, this is pretty self evident and I know a lot of you incels already know this, but I feel like a lot of normies, chads, stacys and other people have no fucking clue why it’s important.

Let’s start about the fundamental NEED of sex, as humans we have two real biological purposes and everything we do is basically related to them. They are, Survive and Procreate. It’s a biological necessity to procreate and if we aren’t having intercourse then our brains think something is terribly wrong.

This applies throughout puberty at an extreme level. It’s not even the matter of having sex or getting sex, it’s about having the POTENTIAL to procreate and be desired. Incels have no idea how that feels but there is a huge stigma about it all around us through the media and real life. Our brains process and understand the idea of having affection and being desired and that’s a want that’s connected to the NEED of procreation.

So, puberty (teen years) is basically judgement time to see if we have the potential to be desired and if we fail that then we are basically useless and obsolete because we can’t pass down our genetics, this is the biggest fundamental rejection of natural selection and people that are selected fail to see that.

In the end of the day, we should just rope. Our existence is nothing but pain and cuckery.
Ya I plan on doing that to myself next year. I'll just go out drinking one more time like I used to. I'll buy a cake for my birthday and eat it at the bar with all the people. I was planning on buying either a bolt action Mauser rifle or ODing on muscle relaxers but I guess I'll give myself one more year to try and make friends and contacts. I'll probably either join a drawing class at my college next semester and do some community service work just to help some homeless people out. I figure I should help other people be happy even if its at the expense of my own.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.

So being desired sexually by attractive young women and their acceptance is what you want the most?
Heh, let me tell you, you get over that quick. Your self worth gotta come from yourself.
Although I do agree with what you guys are saying about how validation at a young age will give you a head start in life. That is fucking true, but that doesn’t mean it over if you don’t get that.
GIGACOPE
You sound like a MGTOW redpill cuck from reddit.
 
Losing your virginity in your teens guarantees natural confidence which is vital to succeed in all areas of life, career-wise, socially and to a degree dating-wise.

The lack of sex (or any validation from the opposite sex) results in a natural lack of confidence as you become uncertain in yourself and forcing yourself to be confident is extremely fucking tiring and most people can tell that you're faking it due to your "quirky" nature being on full display resulting in you being ostracised due to your behaviour being extremely different to the rest because of the lack of natural confidence and social skills.
 
Not experiencing teenage sex is the biggest void in a mans life. You can never go back once you miss out on it. The main reason is that the foid will never have such tight skin and overall attractive body once she passes 20. If you manage to experience sex later in life it will never compare to a tight virgin pussy, you will never experience taking a foids virginity and breaking her hymen - the ultimate experience. Don't try to downplay that, you and I both know it is the best experience a man can have in his entire life - and we missed out on it. Yes, life isn't fair, so if you don't get the right cards dealt to you, you can just restart the game instead of wasting your time playing with the useless ones (ie. suicide is a good thing if one has the balls to do it). Your last sentence is just an empty platitude

ROPEFUEL

I is why I still to this day desire JB

This classic from misc forum says it all:


you'll never be 15 and in love
lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting
not worrying about rent, bills, student loans
only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday
you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"
you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits
you're in your 20's now
gotta get a good job
gotta be a serious man now
all the good ones are taken
maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you
they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter
you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
you have missed out on teenage love
 
@Berserker123 I crown you king of cope for the day
 
this is why im nervous about seeing an escort, being a virgin in your 20 's def gives off the loser vibe.
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
Septembercels cope even harder than Augustcels did.
 
So being desired sexually by attractive young women and their acceptance is what you want the most?
Heh, let me tell you, you get over that quick. Your self worth gotta come from yourself.
Although I do agree with what you guys are saying about how validation at a young age will give you a head start in life. That is fucking true, but that doesn’t mean it over if you don’t get that.

No, we don’t just want that. Our brain thinks something is extremely wrong if we don’t have that, it’s a necessity that we must experience in order for us to know that we have the ability to procreate in the future. Let’s not forget that no foid wants a virgin cuck thats 20, especially if he’s never been in a relationship because it shows two things, he didn’t have the ability to get a foid AND that he doesn’t know anything about relationships so he lacks the utility of experience.
 
No, we don’t just want that. Our brain thinks something is extremely wrong if we don’t have that, it’s a necessity that we must experience in order for us to know that we have the ability to procreate in the future. Let’s not forget that no foid wants a virgin cuck thats 20, especially if he’s never been in a relationship because it shows two things, he didn’t have the ability to get a foid AND that he doesn’t know anything about relationships so he lacks the utility of experience.
Interesting concept, kinda like the growing stages that are vital to become a normal functioning kid. For example learning how to talk then walk, then learning how to use the bathroom etc? One of the growing stages to lead a normal life. I’m gonna need some scientific evidence on that but I understand your point. I am in no way a normal individual because I too never experienced teenage love as you call it. Not due to being perceived as ugly but due to society anxiety and being an outcast. Although there were females showing interest during middle school and high school but they were below my looks match. It did not bother me as much that I was not getting female validation as I was more worried for my physical safety as I grew up in a ghetto ass school system. Lucky the bullying eased up a lot when Columbia shooting happened (I attribute Eric and Dylan giving up their lives to show the bullies what could happen when you push an individual too far. )
I am not totally dismissing your claim, but I also firm on my belief that men can change their smv, in fact men smv increases over time. They are at their lowest when you are young (assuming you don’t have chad looks)
Also a lot of the problem you see today is due to hook up culture and dating apps where femoids have more options therefor more choosy.
GIGACOPE
You sound like a MGTOW redpill cuck from reddit.
Mgtow that are forced to go mgtow are the cuck, mgtow that chooses to go mgtow are in no way cucks. The question now becomes, are you self aware enough to know which category you fall under? :feelswhere:
 
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The lack of sex (or any validation from the opposite sex) results in a natural lack of confidence as you become uncertain in yourself and forcing yourself to be confident is extremely fucking tiring and most people can tell that you're faking it due to your "quirky" nature being on full display resulting in you being ostracised due to your behaviour being extremely different to the rest because of the lack of natural confidence and social skills
Faking confidence not only has a risk of backfiring but there is also no garantee that it will make you seem more desireable to women
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
Copernicus
 
Everyone here seems to have lost it at 13-15
Yeah all the people I went to school with it lost it around those ages. I’m not sure, it’s just what I found when searching it up
 
Low iq post. A man worth only increase over time as he acquires more resources, gain more life experiences, and becomes more confident in himself. A women worth is at her peak when she is young and sexually attractive to all men. A young man has potential to become a very desirable male later on in life. When you’re a teenager, with pimples and skinny as fuck body. Doesn’t mean you don’t have the potential to become a rip af alpha male later on.
the blue pill is strong in this one
 
ROPEFUEL

I is why I still to this day desire JB

This classic from misc forum says it all:


you'll never be 15 and in love
lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting
not worrying about rent, bills, student loans
only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday
you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"
you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits
you're in your 20's now
gotta get a good job
gotta be a serious man now
all the good ones are taken
maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you
they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter
you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
you have missed out on teenage love
Strongest suifuel there is.
 

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