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the one thing that’s positive about being incel is the fact that we see how dumb society is and can notice their lies. I’ll explain
society says that sex is supposed to be the best, most fun thing in the world and is supposed to feel really good but at the same time, society believes that sex crimes “ruin people’s lives and nobody can heal from sex crimes”. I can see why rape would be traumatic as it probably is physically painful, but other sex crimes aren’t even that painful. Crimes like sex with minors, getting groped, inappropriately touching kids, dating an older person when you’re underage, etc aren’t even as painful as society says they are. Yeah a lot of these crimes are still bad, no doubt, but the only reason why they traumatized people is because of society’s reaction to the crime, not because of the nature of the crime itself. Seriously, how the hell can some kid be traumatized by having his dick merely touched by some adult? The kid is only traumatized because of society’s reaction to the crime. If he didn’t notice society’s reaction to the crime, he probably would see it as a brief weird moment and move on. Also, this idea that sex with jb girls will traumatized them. The only reason some 14 year old foid would have PTSD from having sex with a man is because of society’s reaction to the crime. I bet back when interracial dating was stigmatized, there were white foids “traumatized” from dating a black man but only because of the stigma against interracial dating back then.
in 1955, a man named Paul Tappen wrote about this myth. Click the link to see what he said. This is called the nocebo effect. You teach someone to be traumatized by something, they’ll be traumatized by it regardless of how traumatic it truly was.
Why does society think even the least severe sex crimes traumatized us for life? Here’s why (explained by author DJ Wood):
“Since biblical times, sexual behavior has been scrutinized and looked upon as “evil” and “sinful” and perpetrators were cast as villains. For many, sex is only for the purposes of procreation (Clark, 1996). This meant that anything other than vaginal intercourse for the purposes of procreation was frowned upon and often punished. Even today, pure biblical scholars believe sex is for procreation and is not meant to be fun. The acts may not have been illegal but masturbation, and oral and anal sex were all sins, condemning the perpetrator to an eternity in hell.
This became the foundation of the legal restrictions on sexual behavior. Joys of the flesh and the virtue of a woman have remained an integral part of what society considers sex crimes (Quinn, et al., 2004). Sexually appropriate behavior is a cultural phenomenon and therefore changes over time. Creating many motivations for sexual crimes. Historically, women, especially young women, have been considered naïve and in many cases less intelligent than their male counterparts therefore requiring protection (Clark, 1996). The laws were enacted to protect the particularly vulnerable members of society: women and children (Quinn, et al, 2004). Others have included prevention of illegitimate children and passing on of sexually transmitted disease as reasons to control sexual behavior.”
“Sexual safety is at the core of our sociological and psychological self. Sex is considered the most intimate relationship one can have with another; therefore, taking this is the ultimate violation. Thus, the protection from sexual violation is paramount to our physical and psychological well-being. Therefore, they argue that, we have an all-inclusive label of sexual predator for all sex offenders. They go on to show that, because we fear sex crimes against children the most, all become pedophiles. This is as a self-protection mechanism from what we deem to be the vilest of crimes”
I also wanna say that society didn’t always have this whole “anything under 18 is evil pedophilia” type of thinking. Pedophiles didn’t become the most hated people in society until the progressive era (1890-1920). That’s even when the age of consent was raised much higher. And the panic over sex offenders in general didn’t begin until 1937 with 3 sex-murders of children in NY. https://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/summer-pervert-hysteria-1937-article-1.396521
it’s insane how society cannot live without sex and sex is the best thing one can experience yet society thinks simply groping someone or having sex with a teen will “traumatize them permanently”.
This is what I think is the good thing about being incel and blackpilled, we see the hypocrisy of normies
TL;DR the way society viewed sex throughout history is what made us see sex crimes as “worse than murder”
society says that sex is supposed to be the best, most fun thing in the world and is supposed to feel really good but at the same time, society believes that sex crimes “ruin people’s lives and nobody can heal from sex crimes”. I can see why rape would be traumatic as it probably is physically painful, but other sex crimes aren’t even that painful. Crimes like sex with minors, getting groped, inappropriately touching kids, dating an older person when you’re underage, etc aren’t even as painful as society says they are. Yeah a lot of these crimes are still bad, no doubt, but the only reason why they traumatized people is because of society’s reaction to the crime, not because of the nature of the crime itself. Seriously, how the hell can some kid be traumatized by having his dick merely touched by some adult? The kid is only traumatized because of society’s reaction to the crime. If he didn’t notice society’s reaction to the crime, he probably would see it as a brief weird moment and move on. Also, this idea that sex with jb girls will traumatized them. The only reason some 14 year old foid would have PTSD from having sex with a man is because of society’s reaction to the crime. I bet back when interracial dating was stigmatized, there were white foids “traumatized” from dating a black man but only because of the stigma against interracial dating back then.
in 1955, a man named Paul Tappen wrote about this myth. Click the link to see what he said. This is called the nocebo effect. You teach someone to be traumatized by something, they’ll be traumatized by it regardless of how traumatic it truly was.
Why does society think even the least severe sex crimes traumatized us for life? Here’s why (explained by author DJ Wood):
“Since biblical times, sexual behavior has been scrutinized and looked upon as “evil” and “sinful” and perpetrators were cast as villains. For many, sex is only for the purposes of procreation (Clark, 1996). This meant that anything other than vaginal intercourse for the purposes of procreation was frowned upon and often punished. Even today, pure biblical scholars believe sex is for procreation and is not meant to be fun. The acts may not have been illegal but masturbation, and oral and anal sex were all sins, condemning the perpetrator to an eternity in hell.
This became the foundation of the legal restrictions on sexual behavior. Joys of the flesh and the virtue of a woman have remained an integral part of what society considers sex crimes (Quinn, et al., 2004). Sexually appropriate behavior is a cultural phenomenon and therefore changes over time. Creating many motivations for sexual crimes. Historically, women, especially young women, have been considered naïve and in many cases less intelligent than their male counterparts therefore requiring protection (Clark, 1996). The laws were enacted to protect the particularly vulnerable members of society: women and children (Quinn, et al, 2004). Others have included prevention of illegitimate children and passing on of sexually transmitted disease as reasons to control sexual behavior.”
“Sexual safety is at the core of our sociological and psychological self. Sex is considered the most intimate relationship one can have with another; therefore, taking this is the ultimate violation. Thus, the protection from sexual violation is paramount to our physical and psychological well-being. Therefore, they argue that, we have an all-inclusive label of sexual predator for all sex offenders. They go on to show that, because we fear sex crimes against children the most, all become pedophiles. This is as a self-protection mechanism from what we deem to be the vilest of crimes”
I also wanna say that society didn’t always have this whole “anything under 18 is evil pedophilia” type of thinking. Pedophiles didn’t become the most hated people in society until the progressive era (1890-1920). That’s even when the age of consent was raised much higher. And the panic over sex offenders in general didn’t begin until 1937 with 3 sex-murders of children in NY. https://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/summer-pervert-hysteria-1937-article-1.396521
it’s insane how society cannot live without sex and sex is the best thing one can experience yet society thinks simply groping someone or having sex with a teen will “traumatize them permanently”.
This is what I think is the good thing about being incel and blackpilled, we see the hypocrisy of normies
TL;DR the way society viewed sex throughout history is what made us see sex crimes as “worse than murder”
