I have a theory that explains men with a girlfriend who are neither chads nor betabuxers: The "hubbyzone".
Let me explain:
After a while of chasing chads in college and shit, foids will want to "settle down". Whether it's because they have hit "the wall" (I disagree that there's a wall but I know many incels feel there is), or because they got tired of hookups and want a long term relationship for life, at some point most of them will want to "settle down", which in itself sounds like an euphemism for betabuxing but I think it's not always like that necessarily, I think there's women out there who settle down with men they're attracted to (chads or chadlites).
Anyway, sometimes it'll come up in this forum that there's lots of couples in which the husband or boyfriend is not a chad but isn't a betabuxer either, so how did that happen? How does the blackpill explain that? imo it's because of the hubbyzone, which is kinda like a friendzoned husband. Like, at some point foids realize they can't get a chad, and don't need money, but don't want to be alone either so they have to lower their standards, so what they do is marry someone they see as a friend. Like emotional betabuxing in a way. There's some degree of true love there unlike with betabuxing, but the guy is still getting scammed since there has to be sexual attraction for it to be a legit romantic relationship.
When you see a foid referring to her husband as "hubby", he's hubbyzoned aka she doesn't truly want or respect him as a man. Needless to say this is also out of reach for us since women hate us for our looks, but it explains normie tier guys with girlfriends.
Let me explain:
After a while of chasing chads in college and shit, foids will want to "settle down". Whether it's because they have hit "the wall" (I disagree that there's a wall but I know many incels feel there is), or because they got tired of hookups and want a long term relationship for life, at some point most of them will want to "settle down", which in itself sounds like an euphemism for betabuxing but I think it's not always like that necessarily, I think there's women out there who settle down with men they're attracted to (chads or chadlites).
Anyway, sometimes it'll come up in this forum that there's lots of couples in which the husband or boyfriend is not a chad but isn't a betabuxer either, so how did that happen? How does the blackpill explain that? imo it's because of the hubbyzone, which is kinda like a friendzoned husband. Like, at some point foids realize they can't get a chad, and don't need money, but don't want to be alone either so they have to lower their standards, so what they do is marry someone they see as a friend. Like emotional betabuxing in a way. There's some degree of true love there unlike with betabuxing, but the guy is still getting scammed since there has to be sexual attraction for it to be a legit romantic relationship.
When you see a foid referring to her husband as "hubby", he's hubbyzoned aka she doesn't truly want or respect him as a man. Needless to say this is also out of reach for us since women hate us for our looks, but it explains normie tier guys with girlfriends.
