Normies always think we never bothered to socialize in the past. It is a way to avoid a psychologically uncomfortable truth for them. Denialism is an essentially irrational action that withholds the validation of a historical experience or event, when a person refuses to accept an empirically verifiable reality.
And if your are social and not a self-pitying on forums, they just tell you to "work on yourself", but your already have an education, job, pay pills; basically your capable of being an adult. Its as though they expect you to have a top-tier job and be swimming in $15'000 a month or or something. Even then.... there's unemployed women that aren't told to "work on themselves" to get laid as they can easily get laid simply because they are female. The same with Chads and Chadlites that have no post-16 educations, end up working in a car wash for minimum wage, spend their wages on dope, can hardly pay for a rented apartment, yet manage to get attractive enough girlfriends.