Honestly, just go to any venting post in any dating related thread and you will see dozens or hundreds of comments of people gaslighting or rationalizing the OP's situation. I swear it's legit hilarious.
You have body communication PhDs who ask about the degree your face was making, if your eyes were 80% closed instead of 82% closed... (exageration but you get what I mean). You have speech experts who suggest what set of mechanical waves you should have produced so she didn't reject you.
Even if OP says something like: "Oh, I think my 5'4'' height might have got anything to do with it" you will see gaslight as in: "well boyo, I know a girl who is 5'7'' and is dating a 5'5'' guy, maybe you aren't trying enough?" or worse yet, when a tall guy or a foid states that it wasn't his height, but his personality/lack of game/hygiene/speech proficiency, and other bullshit excuses that OP is already doing.
Just today I saw a post about a guy who had a lot of trouble in OLD, then some old faggot asked him if he used tinder; OP listed like 10 different dating/hookup apps (from casual sex to serious relationship types) and the old faggot said something along the lines of: "but were your photos done by a professional? were they good?" which OP answered yes, they were. Then the fucking nigger faggot had the nerve to say: "it's not a good photographer, ditch him and get a better one".
You have body communication PhDs who ask about the degree your face was making, if your eyes were 80% closed instead of 82% closed... (exageration but you get what I mean). You have speech experts who suggest what set of mechanical waves you should have produced so she didn't reject you.
Even if OP says something like: "Oh, I think my 5'4'' height might have got anything to do with it" you will see gaslight as in: "well boyo, I know a girl who is 5'7'' and is dating a 5'5'' guy, maybe you aren't trying enough?" or worse yet, when a tall guy or a foid states that it wasn't his height, but his personality/lack of game/hygiene/speech proficiency, and other bullshit excuses that OP is already doing.
Just today I saw a post about a guy who had a lot of trouble in OLD, then some old faggot asked him if he used tinder; OP listed like 10 different dating/hookup apps (from casual sex to serious relationship types) and the old faggot said something along the lines of: "but were your photos done by a professional? were they good?" which OP answered yes, they were. Then the fucking nigger faggot had the nerve to say: "it's not a good photographer, ditch him and get a better one".
