赤い太陽
Recruit
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I spoke about it all here. TL;DR: She already has someone.
Oh well. I did feel a bit stupid at first, but then again, it technically isn't a rejection if she's already taken. Besides, at least she was friendly; she didn't make me feel awkward or treat me like a creep.
She told me she's from the Philippines, and works with children. But then the conversation got weird, after she told me she was with someone already...
She randomly asked if she could take my photo, something I never let anyone ever do. Ironically, I let her (imagine if a guy asked a girl to do the same. Just saying). She claimed there was a "friend" that she has, whom she told that she (the friend) should meet me.
Before anyone says that I'm a fakecel or failed normie because of the thing I wrote about the friend, hear me out: this is a typical female tactic to blow off a guy, something I've seen a Filipina do before when I was in high school.
Think about it. I've said hi and bye to her for nearly 10 months now, and not once did she mention a "friend", and didn't even bring it up until I sat next to her and started talking. That's the South East Asian equivalent of a woman saying "Give me your number, I'll call you." It's a way of sparing your feelings.
So there you have it folks. That was my very first approach in over 2 years, and my first ever approach with black pill knowledge.
It's also the last approach I'll ever make in my life. I'm done. I walked away once, I can do it again. There are certain things that are beyond my control, and as I said in the post I linked, I only approached to get my motivation back. That was a stupid idea (as some of you told me), and I was unwise to not listen. In any case, I'm through approaching.
Oh well. I did feel a bit stupid at first, but then again, it technically isn't a rejection if she's already taken. Besides, at least she was friendly; she didn't make me feel awkward or treat me like a creep.
She told me she's from the Philippines, and works with children. But then the conversation got weird, after she told me she was with someone already...
She randomly asked if she could take my photo, something I never let anyone ever do. Ironically, I let her (imagine if a guy asked a girl to do the same. Just saying). She claimed there was a "friend" that she has, whom she told that she (the friend) should meet me.
Before anyone says that I'm a fakecel or failed normie because of the thing I wrote about the friend, hear me out: this is a typical female tactic to blow off a guy, something I've seen a Filipina do before when I was in high school.
Think about it. I've said hi and bye to her for nearly 10 months now, and not once did she mention a "friend", and didn't even bring it up until I sat next to her and started talking. That's the South East Asian equivalent of a woman saying "Give me your number, I'll call you." It's a way of sparing your feelings.
So there you have it folks. That was my very first approach in over 2 years, and my first ever approach with black pill knowledge.
It's also the last approach I'll ever make in my life. I'm done. I walked away once, I can do it again. There are certain things that are beyond my control, and as I said in the post I linked, I only approached to get my motivation back. That was a stupid idea (as some of you told me), and I was unwise to not listen. In any case, I'm through approaching.