The thing with your argument is that us incels are genetic trash. We are not only ugly but very passive and we are not willing to fight for equality. We are ok with society pushing us around and we have given up.
That’s where we differ from groups like blacks or women or other groups who fought for equality.
You think black people would have got anywhere if they just complained among each other and kept telling each other that “it’s over, we will be slaves forever and that’s the end”. If they had that mentality, they would still be slaves.
Or what about feminism. What if women just sat on their asses and said “it’s over, men own us and we can’t do anything”. There would be no such thing as feminism.
If you look at history, every marginalized group fought for equality, nobody complained and said it’s over and got anywhere with that mentality. People with that mentality just died because that strategy doesn’t work.
Sure initially people will laugh at you and be like “hey, look at those ugly people protesting”. But that’s probably how women and blacks felt protesting and men said “hey look at those women/ black people protestong. They think they are equal to us haha”.