Oneitiscel
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I'm a 26 year old man. I have never had a girlfriend. Every woman I met organically has rejected me. Online dating has never worked after trying it for four years. The one woman who I fell in love with blocked me after all the time we spent together. I lost my shit, begging her to come back, only to hear nothing but dead silence.After sending a pleading message, I cried in my bathroom without the lights on for three hours and didn't eat. Another woman whom I been on three dates with said that she only saw me as a friend, making me break down in tears in front of her.
I cant help but feel like trying to find a date is always a uphill battle of me trying to win the other person over. It never feels like two people trying to get to know each other. I've always known that life is unfair. But no, not like this. It fucking hurts so much, that I'm now half assing my dating profiles because of how terrible online apps are.
All I do is fucking choke on my loneliness, especially when I see other men with healthy, loving relationships while I look at myself and feel nothing but emptiness, shame, and a broken heart.
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Who the fuck wants to jump through so many hoops just to reschedule three times before meeting and then getting ghosted? "Dating is supposed to be fun" my ass.
Since dating is a numbers game and if every organic encounter just ends with constant rejection, what do you resort to? Use online dating consistently to increase your odds. Still getting nothing? Try cold approaching random women at a bar or a coffee shop (most of whom you wouldn't be interested in). Still nothing? Try finding a social hobby that involves potential partners. What? Still getting rejected by those potential partners involved in those hobby groups? Try meeting someone through your friends? Oh, and the woman your best bud introduced you to stood you up? Well shit.





