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Blackpill The danger of self improvement with no positive reinforcement and my hatred for women

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For the past 5 years ive been watching self improvement videos and trying to better myself in multiple ways. Ive lost an extreme amount of weight, so much that i have losse skin, i also saved up money (my mother helped me out too) and got a rhinoplasty to improve my huge hooked nose. Ive decided to try and be social so i obtained friends from work sort of. All of this, and im still a virgin who has never had a gf.

Ive started to wonder why my disdain for women has grown, and its obvious. Even after all my improvements, im still not being selected. Its exrtemely frustrating. To put so much time and effort, and to still be denied. But what really gets me furious is that women are judging me of not being worthy. Its like they are an embodiment of nature and im being rejected by it, even after trying to be a good person and improving myself, they still will not consider me as a partner.

How could one not begin to hate women? Why do they feel so much better than me? Why do they act as if they levitate above the rest of us? Like they are so almighty? If im angry, its only because women made me this way.


How many more years of self improvement until i get a gf? Until im accepted? Maybe im not the one with the actual problem, maybe its women. Maybe women as a collective should look at themselves and wonder why they arent selecting a good catch like me. THERE IS NOTHING SO WRONG WITH ME THAT I SHOULDNT SURVIVE INTO THE NEXT GENERATION.
 
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chad DONT HAVE TO SELF IMPROVE MY DRILLA
 
No self improvement for bad genetics. Unless you are Chad, you're nothing. There is no victory.
 
now you just have to hit the gym daily for 1 year, make 100k/year, improve your social skills, and you can ascend with a 45 year old single mom! :feelsLightsaber:
 
What you stated in the title touched on a whole other thing that 'foids don't ever even begin to consider: even if we do make efforts to "work on ourselves", the fact that we get little to no positive reinforcement further increases the chances that we'll just give up altogether. A fat former Chad or Stacey immediately gets loads of positive reinforcement the moment they even state that they're considering losing weight. Often times it is things like that which keep someone going. So in other words, even self-improvement in and of itself is much harder by default to achieve for unattractive men. This of course ignores the obvious fact that it's usually all for nil anyhow but I digress
 
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Just get a haircut
 
Have you tried taking a shower?

Seriously though I relate to this so much. It's natural to hate those that hate you.
 
now you just have to hit the gym daily for 1 year, make 100k/year, improve your social skills, and you can ascend with a 45 year old single mom! :feelsLightsaber:
Fat single mother?
 
JBC: Just be Chad, bro.

It's women's nature, they don't care how much effort you put into yourself, or how much you "improve."
Unless you were born with the genes they want to be bred by, it's over. In fact, it never began.
 
Chads are born, not made. You fucked up by letting normies gaslight you into distracting yourself so you dont go ER on them in Minecraft.
 

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