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the consequences of raising nice boys

youeyeballinmypiecefiddycent?
3 months ago
My mother told me all she wanted was to raise a "perfect, good little boy." This is the problem. Being a "good boy" only works for dogs. It doesn't work for competing with other men for jobs, women, and aggressively planning and pursuing a goal. Women think that because being nice and charming gets THEM the things that they want, they think it works the same for men. No. Being well-behaved will only lead a man to harmlessness, niceness, and mediocrity. Dr. Robert Glover articulated this wonderfully in "No More Mr. Nice Guy".
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Chris P
3 months ago
The problem with women asking about "good men" is that what they say they want in a man and what they actually go for don't align. Letting society i.e. women define what a good man is, is a huge mistake.




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Richman
3 months ago
Single mothers destroyed generations of men because they raised them to be compliant and serve the woman’s needs and not their own. Coach Greg Adams calls these guys son-husbands which is spot on




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Mark Sule
3 months ago
My mom was afraid of men and so she made sure to reward all of my feminine qualities and not the masculine ones. Also I didn't grow up with a father passed age 4. This is how it happens, folks!




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G Wills
3 months ago
Many mothers will clip their sons wings out of convenience and solipsism. We have almost three generations of broken boys and men thanks to feminism




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Tim Gibney
3 months ago
My mom did a great diservice making me super femine and accomodating and kept reminding me of benig empathetic and how important it was to be a nice guy. BIG mistake as it turned disasterous when I hit dating age. Girls who are friends are not girlfriends when you act all nice and accomodating. Coach Corey Wayne and then Redpill really opened my eyes what reality is from what I was taught.




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sonofsarek
3 months ago
Many mothers set a standard that girlfriends and wives will never meet. I based my expectations of women based on what my mother did (seemed like the logical thing to do). Once I started dating, reality struck. The narcissistic, capricious, fickle, selfish, and downright crazy behavior patterns is enough to drive any man insane.




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Simo
3 months ago
The destruction of male only spaces has been a terrible blow for young men learning how to become men. There is barely anywhere men can relax and just be normal away from some controlling woman.




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