The cognitive dissonance of not considering me incel because I'm not a virgin

[FACEandLMS]

From another thread.

Please vote in the poll.

I am a confirmed sub4 lookswise. If you don't consider me an incel because I'm not a virgin, then you are essentially saying that looks don't matter.

To put it clearly:

You either believe 1 or 2:

1) Jono Lancaster is UGLY BUT LUCKED OUT HARD with one girl and was probably incel for years before he met her and will be incel forever after her. LOOKS DO MATTER,
or
2) Jono Lancaster is UGLY but he has a gf so LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

You CAN ONLY BELIEVE 1 or 2. NOT BOTH. @"dr-problematic" - This is not a rhetorical question. Please answer me. 1 or 2???????

It's the same with me.

Also, if incel = virgin, why did we need a new word for "virgin"?

Also, if I am celibate involuntarily, what the FUCK ELSE AM I?

I more consider myself true forced lonely anyway cuz inceldom is more of a 22 yo aspie thing whereas TFL is an older, longer thing.

 

[panzerfury]

I see no poll, but agree with the point you're getting at.

In the interest of honesty, you and I are in similar boats.

 

[VLÖ]

"Jono Lancaster is UGLY BUT LUCKED OUT HARD with one girl and was probably incel for years before he met her and will be incel forever after her. LOOKS DO MATTER,"

Be incel after her? What? Are you assuming she'll 100% dump him? Well in that case she never really loved him anyway.

I don't get you copers saying "I had sex but I'm insell too!!! : ((" Why do you have to water down the term? Why do you have to rub it in our faces? Why do you humble-brag, does it satisfy you?

 

[FACEandLMS]

I see no poll, but agree with the point you're getting at.

In the interest of honesty, you and I are in similar boats.

Thanks. Now show me a pic of your face so I can descend into a jealous rage and add you to my sig kek

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"Jono Lancaster is UGLY BUT LUCKED OUT HARD with one girl and was probably incel for years before he met her and will be incel forever after her. LOOKS DO MATTER,"
Be incel after her? What? Are you assuming she'll 100% dump him? Well in that case she never really loved him anyway.
I don't get you copers saying "I had sex but I'm insell too!!! : ((" Why do you have to water down the term? Why do you have to rub it in our faces? Why do you humble-brag, does it satisfy you?

I never bring up my past here. I just respond to when others do.

You are aspie as fuck if you think h....sigh. Just answer the question. 1 or 2, and you might "get" my point.

Why is virginity conflated with inceldom here? What if you have sex with a drunk girl who regrets it and almost files a false rape charge? This site is aspie as fuck cuz it doesn't account for a guy doing 100s of approaches, it doesn't account for a 50 yo with 1 lay after a lifetime of trying vs a 17 yo who has never spoken to a woman before. You guys are too aspie, too black or white with your definitions.

VLO, ever booked a flight to meet a crazy girl, the only girl you could get, who then told you she didn't feel she could meet you? EVER DONE THAT BEFORE? EVER GOTTEN COSMETIC SURGERY IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY BEFORE? Trust me. A few hours as me and you would drink your bodyweight in bleach lol.

 

[NekoStance]

I'm betting Jono ran Just Be First in some form

she's probably a childhood friend or some shit

 

[FACEandLMS]

I'm betting Jono ran Just Be First in some form

she's probably a childhood friend or some shit

He is a personal trainer and I think he met her in a gym or something.

 

[NekoStance]

I'm betting Jono ran Just Be First in some form
she's probably a childhood friend or some shit

He is a personal trainer and I think he met her in a gym or something.

fuarrrk

pure anomaly tbh

 

[modus_coperandi]

I consider you Incel and also the only reasonable Lookism guy posting here.

 

[FACEandLMS]

I consider you Incel and also the only reasonable Lookism guy posting here.

Would upvote brah.

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fuarrrk

pure anomaly tbh

Major luck. Like I had, but the luck didn't open up my basement trapdoor and unzip my pants. I had to do 100s of approaches.

 

[Pasteleiro]

Have you ever tried approaching muslim women? Honestly you seem too NT to be incel. I can't believe a brown 3/10 wouldn't date you. Have you ever thought about going to South America? I've seen uglier men than you in South America scoring average looking womyn. and you are tall as well. South America is the land of manlets. Is it dangerous? Sure. Knowing your surroundings you can live fine. Considering that you are british, you can live comfortably in South America.

 

[dr-problematic]

You either believe 1 or 2:

1) Jono Lancaster is UGLY BUT LUCKED OUT HARD with one girl and was probably incel for years before he met her and will be incel forever after her. LOOKS DO MATTER,
or
2) Jono Lancaster is UGLY but he has a gf so LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

You CAN ONLY BELIEVE 1 or 2. NOT BOTH. @"dr-problematic" - This is not a rhetorical question. Please answer me. 1 or 2???????

It's the same with me.

Also, if incel = virgin, why did we need a new word for "virgin"?

Also, if I am celibate involuntarily, what the FUCK ELSE AM I?

I more consider myself true forced lonely anyway cuz inceldom is more of a 22 yo aspie thing whereas TFL is an older, longer thing.

1. Yes, looks matter a lot in life, i dont and cant argue with that.

2. I didnt say incel = virgin, but incel=/= non-virgin even more so. We needed word INCEL, because it portrays far more profound concept of a person, beyond just struggle in romantical field of life. Incel is the guy who was laughed and picked on in school for stuttering, having speech problems, having bad acne and failing to successfuly treat, someone who is from birth socially and intelleactualy inferior, who cant understand or make jokes, who cant normally socialize, just naturally non-understanding of norms and society mechanics, someone who was unlucky through life, who came out from poor or dysfunctional family or gone through abuse and in result happened to life extremely low quality life with no friends or to barely having any, being despised everywhere just due to his presence, consequently failing at job and everywhere else. 

3. If you managed to have a girlfriend, to have numerous lays with women, to have social circles and friends, to be somewhat successful at a job (if to believe what you said yourself), you arent anywhere close to being INCEL, you are at worst failed norman, if not more.

 

[FACEandLMS]

Have you ever tried approaching muslim women? Honestly you seem too NT to be incel. I can't believe a brown 3/10 wouldn't date you. Have you ever thought about going to South America? I've seen uglier men than you in South America scoring average looking womyn. and you are tall as well. South America is the land of manlets. Is it dangerous? Sure. Knowing your surroundings you can live fine. Considering that you are british, you can live comfortably in South America.

I've used most of my savings on surgery, consultations or flights for surgery.

We have had a recent influx of latin americans where I live and they consider me subhuman. They'd rather date a manlet from their own country, Bolivia, Colombia, etc, than a tall non-Latino Westernized subhuman.

I've learned that location theory works for whites, i.e. whites can slay in Asia, but for ethnics, subhuman here = subhuman everywhere.

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1. Yes, looks matter a lot in life, i dont and cant argue with that.

2. I didnt say incel = virgin, but incel=/= non-virgin even more so. We needed word INCEL, because it portrays far more profound concept of a person, beyond just struggle in romantical field of life. Incel is the guy who was laughed and picked on in school for stuttering, having speech problems, having bad acne and failing to successfuly treat, someone who is from birth socially and intelleactualy inferior, who cant understand or make jokes, who cant normally socialize, just naturally non-understanding of norms and society mechanics, someone who was unlucky through life, who came out from poor or dysfunctional family or gone through abuse and in result happened to life extremely low quality life with no friends or to barely having any, being despised everywhere just due to his presence, consequently failing at job and everywhere else. 

3. If you managed to have a girlfriend, to have numerous lays with women, to have social circles and friends, to be somewhat successful at a job (if to believe what you said yourself), you arent anywhere close to being INCEL, you are at worst failed norman, if not more.

So if I can prove that I'm uglier than you then would you say looks don't matter?

 

[dr-problematic]

So if I can prove that I'm uglier than you then would you say looks don't matter?

im far more inferior than you genetically, since i have a lot of health issues that result in social death sentence, as i said before, my situation isnt only about looks, hence i dont understand how these guys who are 4-7 cry about not having gf, when clearly its very much possible.

 

[RealestFakecel]

the same tale everytime "i know a very ugly guy who bla bla bla" dude, for each personal story breaking the rule, there is thousands which follow them

 

[itsOVER]

Amen to this OP. I've had people call me fakecel just because I've had sex and a couple of girlfriends before. Even though that was a long long time ago in a totally different (and much easier) country and when I looked a fair bit better than I do now.

But apparently despite being NEETcel, KHV with western women, living with parents, no friends, no money, 5 ft 7 and well below average face that doesn't qualify me in some peoples eyes just because YEARS ago I had a girlfriend.

Fuck them with a rake.

 

[FACEandLMS]

So if I can prove that I'm uglier than you then would you say looks don't matter?

im far more inferior than you genetically, since i have a lot of health issues that result in social death sentence, as i said before, my situation isnt only about looks, hence i dont understand how these guys who are 4-7 cry about not having gf, when clearly its very much possible.

OK.

But I am far from a 4. I'm barely a 3.

 

[dr-problematic]

OK.

But I am far from a 4. I'm barely a 3.

u know its nonsense, cuz u had girls b4

 

[itsOVER]

u know its nonsense, cuz u had girls b4

It's not nonsense. He's got god-tier height but yeah his face is 3/10.

 

[St.Tropez]

Amen to this OP. I've had people call me fakecel just because I've had sex and a couple of girlfriends before. Even though that was a long long time ago in a totally different (and much easier) country and when I looked a fair bit better than I do now.

But apparently despite being NEETcel, KHV with western women, living with parents, no friends, no money, 5 ft 7 and well below average face that doesn't qualify me in some peoples eyes just because YEARS ago I had a girlfriend.

Fuck them with a rake.

Same situation here. 

And in my case all my gfs dumped me so in a way I am a legit incel cause I actualy went and got rejected

 

[dr-problematic]

It's not nonsense. He's got god-tier height but yeah his face is 3/10.

all this bullshit with 3/10 1500/10 and other crap doesnt matter. if you pull girls you pull girls. if one chick was in rs with you it means there will be others. (unless it happens in a long period of time where you age drastically and/or something happens with your looks eg balding)

 

[Redpill Robert]

That's some SERIOUS looksmaxing there. But he got lots of pity and support online. Wouldn't be surprised if the femoid is only doing it 1.) For the chance to also be in the spotlight and 2.) To be seen as some kind angel that puts personality above all.

 

[dr-problematic]

all my gfs

just lol @ this

 

[itsOVER]

Same situation here. 

And in my case all my gfs dumped me so in a way I am a legit incel cause I actualy went and got rejected

It's sorta worse when you managed to fuck it up yourself rather than have them leave you. I chose to go home, and leave my ex in Thailand. : Why oh why...

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all this bullshit with 3/10 1500/10 and other crap doesnt matter. if you pull girls you pull girls. if one chick was in rs with you it means there will be others. (unless it happens in a long period of time where you age drastically and/or something happens with your looks eg balding)

Hahahaha, no.

There's a world of difference between pulling a girl in SEA, and getting a western girl in the UK. It's night and fucking day. It's not the same league. It's not even the same damn competition or the same game.

KHV for life with western girls.

 

[dr-problematic]

It's sorta worse when you managed to fuck it up yourself rather than have them leave you. I chose to go home, and leave my ex in Thailand. : Why oh why...

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Hahahaha, no.

There's a world of difference between pulling a girl in SEA, and getting a western girl in the UK. It's night and fucking day. It's not the same league. It's not even the same damn competition or the same game.

KHV for life with western girls.

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it means there will be other asian who will want to be with you, therefore you are volcel, since you can go there again and slay easily.

 

[itsOVER]

it means there will be other asian who will want to be with you, therefore you are volcel, since you can go there again and slay easily.

Oh yeah sure I can just pack up my things right now and go can't I?

Except, you know...not everyone can just do that. I certainly can't. Maybe we could say you're volcel too for not jumping on that same plane, but for a lot of people it's just not an option for various reasons.

 

[dr-problematic]

Oh yeah sure I can just pack up my things right now and go can't I?

Except, you know...not everyone can just do that. I certainly can't. Maybe we could say you're volcel too for not jumping on that same plane, but for a lot of people it's just not an option for various reasons.

due to genetical problems i wont slay even there, otherwise id consider, plus income problems

i cant even get neet bux here

 

[itsOVER]

due to genetical problems i wont slay even there, otherwise id consider, plus income problems

i cant even get neet bux here

So you have reasons that prevents you boarding that plane, so you're not volcel.

Yet apparently if I also have reasons that mean I cannot just fuck off to SEA, that makes me volcel? Wtf bro.

 

[panzerfury]

Thanks. Now show me a pic of your face so I can descend into a jealous rage and add you to my sig kek

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Tell ya what, the next time I take a picture of myself, I will do that, but only if you promise to tell me to start working out and get a haircut.