The blog of a 48 (now 52) year old "Dating Challenged Male"

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Why my kittens are better for me than any woman.
Simple.

They give me unconditional love.

They give me comfort.

They ask nothing save for what I can provide for them.

They do not play mind games with me.

Do not seek to belittle me at every turn.

They are wonderful beyond words. No woman has ever made me feel the way they do.

I feel wanted.

Why prostitution should be legalised
I make no apologies for the tone or the reason for this post. I speak as a man who has NO CHANCE, WHATSOEVER, of having sex with a woman, UNLESS I PAY HER FOR IT.

Now, I am not going to debate with anyone on the wrong-ness of my thinking; you are NOT me, you have NOT had the life that I have have had, so you know jack shit about me.

The simplest, surest, easiest way to get sex is to simply pay an escort. These women are professionals. You pay them, you get to have sex with them. No shit tests, no hoops to jump through, no trying vainly to compete with alpha dickheads. You pays your money. You get your dick wet. Simple.

Now, I have been giving two pieces of advice to Incel / Loveshy men for some time. Piece of advice number one; fix your looks.

Now, we can argue about this ad infinite um. I deal in reality. Looks ARE a factor in determining whether a guy is Incel or not. If you are young and fit enough, get your ass OFF that XboX, and get down to the gym. GET ON THOSE WEIGHTS SOLDIER. Get yourself jacked up into shape. Keep at until you are jacked. YOU WILL GET LAID.

You see, women are the biggest bunch of liars on this planet. Observe NOT what they say...BUT WHAT THEY DO. Jacked guys make them WET. Fat, weedy, nerdy, feeble guys DO NOT.

Second piece of advice - do not...I repeat DO NOT..let your sex life or lack thereof fester in your head until it makes you crazy. You REALLY want to be the next George Sodini? No? Then you have to take steps. So if you are not getting regular sex, and it is causing you distress, get yourself to the nearest brothel and pay for it.

Which brings me neatly to the point I am trying to get across; prostitution should be legalised. It should be regulated, like every other service industry is, and it should be made AFFORDABLE. So that men who have need of a prostitute - ESPECIALLY men who CANNOT get sex, can get what they need, when they need it, AT A PRICE THAT THEY CAN AFFORD. Legalise prostitution, take away the stigma that goes with a guy making use of a sex worker, and I guarantee, Incel would be reduced by 80% overnight.

We men are simple creatures. I know I am. A meat pie, a warm bed, a pint of ale, and sex. That is all I want out of life. I have been denied the latter for so long. I finally managed to get some sex in 2011. Not enough. It went nowhere as far as I wanted. And I have had none since.

By denying men sex, by creating a society so screwed up that it rewards total dickheads with a glut of available women, whilst at the same time withholding said sex from decent, quiet men, you are doing nothing less than stoking up a bonfire of frustration, jealousy and rage, that can ONLY end in something terrible taking place. I am making a conscious effort now to NOT let my sexless status get the better of me. For the very simple reason that I might not have that much longer to live. I do not want to go to my grave with anger boiling in my soul. If I am to die, I would rather not do so shaking my fist at the world.

Should anyone care to reply to this post, please DO NOT simply come on here and hurl insults. Because I will insult you back. I can give every bit as good as I get. I would much prefer reasoned debate. Incel is not a joke. It is a horrible condition that causes a lot of pain. It is time that we treated the problem like adults.

Some thoughts concerning Involuntary Celibacy

There is no overall purpose to this blog. There are issues that I am passionate about, but there are other people who have blogs in place to discuss such issues. Thing is, if you set yourself up as a single issue blogger, you will attract equally as determined single issue fanatics.



Now, I am not going to tell lies here. I have commented upon other people's blogs, and I have made some pretty controversial comments. So I suppose I could be considered to be a hypocrite. Fair enough.



Unfortunately, one of the subjects that I am so passionate about, is one which affects me personally. It also affects a lot people, predominantly men, and there is a wealth of comment and advice upon the subject 'out there'.



The subject that I am alluding to is 'Involuntary Celibacy'. The term is nebulous. It goes hand in hand – or is perhaps separate to 'Love Shyness'. Clinical terms for a condition – whatever you wish to call it – that causes those so afflicted a great deal of pain.



Let me put in very simple terms. Being a virgin over the age of 40 is no fun. Neither is being a virgin over the age of 30, of 20, or at any age when everyone else is getting sex at (apparently) the drop of a hat.



It becomes very easy, for your virginal status, to become a very big thing in your mind. I know this only too well.



I will admit – and here is where the slanging match will begin – that is mostly my own fault. You see, I believed the lies that society fed to me. I lost sight of Rule Number One in the dating game. And it is this; a guy needs to OBESERVE WHAT WOMEN DO, NOT WHAT THEY SAY. Most women in the west are very shallow creatures. If you, as a man, do not have the looks, and the cocky, swaggering attitude that modern women want, you are NOT going to get laid. It is, unfortunately, as simple as that.



Now, I fully expect people to take issue with this. I am not interested in the opinions of others. I have not come to mine overnight. I have come to it, by getting to FORTY SIX, before I experienced any real intimacy with a woman.



You women do yourselves no favours. You bitch and moan about 'Why can't I find a Nice GuyTM', whilst you CONTINUALLY go for the stereotypical alpha dickhead. Every single time. Let me tell you something about being an undesirable male. It hurts. As a man, you are biologically programmed to want sex. A LOT. This is not our fault. Believe it or not, we do not do this to piss you off. And when, as a man, you cannot get aforementioned sex, it leads to sexual frustration.



Some people do not deal with it very well. Some people go crazy. Some people resort to murder. I am not saying committing murder because you cannot get laid is right. I am saying it happens. And it will continue to happen.



If I had to offer one possible solution, it would be to legalise prostitution, make it safe and regulated, and make it AFFORDABLE. Almost a thousand dollars for A SINGLE NIGHT with a prostitute is not unheard of. Some men use these women BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE.



This is the only way I can get sex. Unfortunately, my resources just will not allow it.



So yeah, I am one happy dude.

Another post on Incel
I have a major problem. At 48, I have less sexual experience than your average 15 year old. I simply CANNOT attract a woman. And the worse thing is, that Incel has inflicted so much damage upon me in emotional terms, that I am not all that sure if I could pick up signals from a woman even if she were interested in me, unless they were very clear and unambiguous.

So what am I left with?

Masturbation and porn. Both of which are I am rapidly losing interest in. Now, maybe this is a good thing. Maybe this is nature's way of easing my pain. If so, I welcome it.

To have a normal male sex drive, and to be denied the chance of ever having one's sexual needs met, is one of the cruelest fates that existence throws at you. And it happens predominantly to MEN. Make no mistake about that.

I cannot say what the future holds for me. Perhaps I am the next George Sodini. I hope not. But I cannot say for certain.

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Yet another incel who fails to recognize the equal importance of validation and companionship. Focusing only on sex examines only one of the many facets of the issue. Men aren't getting sex and men aren't getting anything.

 

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I wonder why prostitution isn't legalized, is it because the rulers think we'll slide into more degeneracy?

Or maybe it will take a cut in human tracking black market

I think the reason certain drugs are made illegal is because of the black market business of having it illegal and authorities profit from it and make it illegal at the same time.