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Serious The best trait for an incel to have is ignorance, The best trait for a Chad to have is awareness

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Although awareness is typically a good trait for any human in general to have, having it as an incel is typically not advantageous to us because of the mere fact that we are ugly. We may know the ins and outs of our peers but at the end of the day this knowledge is very useless to us because we don't even have the attractiveness to manipulate them. Although the rule always goes that Chad always wins, a Chad who is self-aware of his own behavior will always be more effective when conducting themselves with their peers. I made a comparison of this today based on two components:

1) Reproductiveness: CHAD
  • A self-aware Chad is going to be more careful with the sort of woman he sleeps with because he has more options, a self-aware Chad is going to consider things like how close the girl is with her parents, if she still has other boyfriends with her right now and if she lives in a campus, he would take these things into consideration on account of false rape accusations, and if he's in for a pump and dump, he doesn't have to worry about the girl calling in her personal bodyguards (father and boyfriend) when she eventually gets her heart broken by him.
  • In terms of settling down and making a family, a self-aware chad is going to be 2x more conscious of the sort of woman he'll marry, because if he's marrying her then he's also going to be having kids with her, he's going to want to make sure that his offspring are just as genetically fit as he is in order to continue his genetic legacy.
Reproductiveness: INCEL
  • The options of an incel are laughably minuscule or just plain imaginative. He gets utterly destroyed in the dating market and not even foids want him for betabux. Being self-aware of this is not advantageous for incels as it just adds to a heavier source of stress in their day to day lives. A self-aware incel may think of things like divorce rape or #metoo but chances are they'll never actually experience that because they are invisible to foids. The best option an incel has is hiring an escort but even then, this is a service that is only available to a certain number of incels (Fakecels) as escorts could just refuse to sleep with them.
  • When it comes to settling down, the absolute best an incel can do is marry a 2/10 used up ethnic landwhale, but because an incel is aware that his genes are shit, marrying such a person would only worsen the genes of his offspring thus at that point he would choose to remain celibate.

2) Survivability: CHAD
  • One of the first things a self-aware chad will pursue is strength, just by virtue of having muscle you automatically acquire the respect of most men, this will work well in pulling off social game and can even help Chad to mog some other pretty boy chad-lites who have been born with other halos such as blonde hair or blue eyes. The more friends you have, the more connections you have and the more services you can have provided to you (such as a friend who can get you a job if you're unemployed)
  • In the corporate world, a self-aware Chad is more than likely to bargain with his employers for a higher wage (especially if it's a female) because he already knows that by virtue of his looks he already proves himself as an asset to the business. He can be the laziest sack of shit in the company but because he already has a huge social circle, his peers are always going to stick up for him. In a scenario where a manager has to be elected he will always have majority vote because he'll be seen as "that cool guy" instead of the lazy guy he actually is. A self aware Chad will take advantage of this and will always leave himself available for other companies to recruit in order to get a higher commission from his current company.

    Survivability: INCEL
  • An incel has little to no chance of actually acquiring any useful friends and will more often than not end up being the one who does favours for his friends instead of the other way around. Unlike a chad, an incel does not attract status and instead actually is repellent to it because of his face. The incel has to compensate by having skills to sacrifice for them or by being amusing in a degrading manner just to entertain them, and even then he will be discarded once something better comes along or if they eventually get bored of him. Even if he had muscles, the incel would just intimidate other men and those men will passively avoid him instead. A self-aware incel recluses themselves because they already know this and they would rather not bother with the depression of being used.
  • In a corporate scenario an incel cannot bargain for a higher salary. The incel does not interact with his peers and mostly just comes to work to do his job and leaves. As far as the manager is concerned, the incel works just as much as any other normie so why should he be deserving of a raise? He doesn't have a family, even if he works extra hours so does other people as well, he barely speaks to anyone and a few of his employees have given complaints of him being "counterproductive in the work environment". The manager could very easily fire the incel and have him be replaced with someone equally as desperate for work because he does not offer value to the business and is just another cog. A self-aware incel already knows this and does not even bother bargaining for a raise, especially if the manager is a foid.
Being self-aware of something that you can't take advantage of isn't a good thing, especially if these are essential to your daily life. Knowing you are an un-fuckable piece of shit won't fix the fact that you're an un-fuckable piece of shit, aye, you can take measures like surgerymaxxing but those cost money which because of your ugliness is going to take longer to acquire. If surgery was such an easy solution, 80% of this forum would not be here right now, which is why when you look at realistic solutions like betabuxxing and self-degrading for social circle game the only way any incel would accept that would be through being ignorant of their own nature.

Ironically enough even when Chad is living life in automatic mode, he still manages to get 90% of this stuff done, so being self aware would only help him make more strategic decisions. But as an Incel where does being self aware get you? I'll tell you where: IT LEADS YOU TO THE ROPE. The only way to win a rigged game is to withdraw and if life is rigged against you, how do you win it? You don't "man up" or "overcome it" you jump off a building and hope the pavement kills you on impact! This is your reward for figuring it out! This is your prize at the end of the tunnel :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:

At least with being unaware of all of this, you're able to convince yourself that your pals are laughing with you and not at you and that the 2/10 landwhale you've been married to for 30+ years was the best decision you ever made, not to mention, being unaware actually leads to more dangerous behaviour because you rarely consider your own safety when doing things, like joining a gang or smoking harmful substances, so in a sense, you are actually roping but you're doing so less depressed.

That is the ultimate blackpill: the only way an incel's life is tolerable is if they aren't smart enough to figure out that it's shit. Everyone who is posting on this forum including me has been cucked by nature, because not only were we made ugly as sin, we get to live our entire lives out knowing we are ugly. And that's one fact no cope can help you to escape... at least we have the leverage of knowing that Chad is too stupid to even reproduce with a proper female now he's just reproducing with every roastie that opens it's legs :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
oh wait...
Tl;dr: cucks are living a better life than you because they're too stupid to get depressed:lul:
 
I didn't read this long ass thing but I agree with you about title
 
I didn't read this long ass thing but I agree with you about title
Tl;dr: cucks are living a better life than you because they're too stupid to get depressed :lul:
 
I agree.

Essentially you have to cope as an Incel to live on. The problem is... being blackpilled is detrimental to an Incels cope.
 
You strike a valid point and I'd say that I agree with your observation on the difference between incel and chad in terms of awareness.
 
High IQ, but I prefer to be woken than to be blind to the truth.
 
cope because an unaware incel will never get laid, atleast with knowledge on attractive features and social queues to partake in they can have a mild chance
 
cope because an unaware incel will never get laid, atleast with knowledge on attractive features and social queues to partake in they can have a mild chance
Cope cope, now that the incel has knowledge on attractive features, he becomes depressed because he realises his face is a handicap.
 
Good thread.

However I think it's almost impossible to be ignorant if you're an incel. Your biology will not let you ignore the fact that you are a social outcast with no relationship prospects.

It's why there are so many incels on places like IT. They are trying so badly to spit out the blackpill but it keeps getting shoved back down their throat again in their everyday lives.
 

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