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Blackpill The average man has a low chance of getting a girlfriend.

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If the 80/20 rule is true, a man in the bottom 80% has a 1/4 chance of having a gf. If the 80/20 rule is true within the 80% of men which it probably is, a man in the bottom 64% has a 1/16 chance of having a gf. Consequently, the men in the bottom 51.2 % must share 0.2^3 of the women and have only 1 1/64 chance of having a girlfriend. If the 80/20 rule is true is true for the top 20% of men, the top 4% of men can have 16 gf:s each on average. The average man has such a low chance of having a woman pursuing him while the top men, the Chads according to this mathemathical model have so many women pursuing them. The top 20% of men alone have 4 women pursuing each of them on average. If you are in the bottom 20% of men, only 0.00000046256% of women are pursuing you according to this formula.
The graph I'm posting reveal that the sum of women who must be shared is negligible for the bottom 3/4 of men. Women are also a zero-sum game where improving yourself and getting one woman does not increase the number of women got, just the effort put into getting them.


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You forgot most normies get gf from social circle...
 
but i'm not average i'm way bellow that
 
:feelstastyman:Im Too low iq to understand the graph.
 
Most relationships with normies and females are borderline platonic. The female rules these relationships, and will discard the normie once a genetically superior male becomes available or if the normie steps outside his boundaries.
 
Thats not good in any way shape or form
 
We need more stuff like this on the forum.
 
Most relationships with normies and females are borderline platonic. The female rules these relationships, and will discard the normie once a genetically superior male becomes available or if the normie steps outside his boundaries.
Plato IQ. Jfl if you enter relationship as average man in 2020

@Saudade thoughts?
 
0.00000046256%

Stay positive bro!
 
average normie sure, but once she sees a more handsome option available gets gonna get tempted to cheat
Whats your point? So is the guy, statistically theres the same amount of male and female cheater tbh.
 
Consequently, the men in the bottom 51.2 % must share 0.2^3 of the women and have only 1 1/64 chance of having a girlfriend.
You definitely are correct there, the normie who gets lucky once a year going out once a week gets 1/53 of a woman.
 
From my understanding of the 80/20 rule, that tends to only apply to raw, visceral attraction. That is to say, women are only attracted to Chads in a lustful and loving way. I do think average looking men can use money or status to get into a relationship but its not the same for a number of different reasons.
 
What im saying to him is essentially, if you get into a bf/gf relationship obviously you run the risk of getting cheated on. But the risk aint as high as a lot of people here make it to be. And she cant take your shit if you separate , since not married.
And foid get cheated on just as often, so men arent getting cheated on more, we aint getting the short end of the stick.
Anyhow
I wouldnt even minds sharing a foid tbh, free pussy is free pussy, if I dont marry / spend a lot of money on her, than sharing isnt bad, as im already escortcelling anyway = having to pay a premium to fuck literal community pussy.
So in reality an open relationship would be a step up for me..
Unfortunately no foid consider me worthy of even that...lol :cryfeels: :feelsrope:
just speaking some sense man..
 
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you know world has gone to hell when average guy is not good enough, there is a reason why the 50s and 60s had the lowest suicide rates
 
What im saying to him is essentially, if you get into a bf/gf relationship obviously you run the risk of getting cheated on. But the risk aint as high as a lot of people here make it to be. And she cant take your shit if you separate , since not married.
And foid get cheated on just as often, so men arent getting cheated on more, we aint getting the short end of the stick.
Anyhow
I wouldnt even minds sharing a foid tbh, free pussy is free pussy, if I dont marry / spend a lot of money on her, than sharing isnt bad, as im already escortcelling anyway = having to pay a premium to fuck literal community pussy.
So in reality an open relationship would be a step up for me..
Unfortunately no foid consider me worthy of even that...lol :cryfeels: :feelsrope:
just speaking some sense man..
JFL just be a cuck bro, pathetic bugman behaviour :feelskek: :soy:

Even if you had a gf you still have to take her out to fancy restaurants or buy her expensive gifts. it all adds up in the end. no pussy is free unless youre high status attractive male.
 
JFL just be a cuck bro, pathetic bugman behaviour :feelskek: :soy:

Even if you had a gf you still have to take her out to fancy restaurants or buy her expensive gifts. it all adds up in the end. no pussy is free unless youre high status attractive male.
Only need to be attractive. Chad and Tyrone living in the hood slays all day
 
Most men can get girlfriends, they just can’t keep them and get cheated on frequently. Every male coworker I know has been cheated on multiple times and foids will throw away a 5 year relationship with an average guy for a one night stand with a Chad. It’s literally insanity.
 
JFL just be a cuck bro, pathetic bugman behaviour :feelskek: :soy:

Even if you had a gf you still have to take her out to fancy restaurants or buy her expensive gifts. it all adds up in the end. no pussy is free unless youre high status attractive male.
I said
I wouldnt mind so long as I DONT HAVE TO MARRY / PAY A LOT OF MONEY. Do you know how much prostitute cost me a month bro?

I AM ALREADY paying a PREMIUM for LITERAL community pussy jfl
That is essentially what escortcelling is. Not only you fuck community pussy youre paying a premium for it too! Lol at me
At least with open relationship I only have to share with a FEW men, and dont have to pay a premium!

I know online, a few men who shared foid in open relationship and they only have to buy her around $40 worth of dinner once a week, thats
$160 -200 a month, and they get to hit it twice a week..,

in the us thats just one time with a 7/10 hooker, whereas he get to fuck at least 4 to 6 times for that money with a foid thats only shared with a FEW men. Try and think with your brain not your emotions. Fools.

Actual prostitutes sleep with 3 to 5 men A DAY, and yet they cost you more than a foid in 'open relationship'.

Every escortcellers are already worse off than men in open relationship whether they know it or not!
"Foids face the same problems as men too!" :soy::soy::soy:
No, im only saying foid and men both cheat at the same rate. Fucking knuckleheads pissing me off, fuck off dumbass.

Most men can get girlfriends
BIGGEST suicidefuel of them all tbh. :feelsrope:wanna fucking die, when im reminded of this :lul: :woke:
So long as most men can get gf, the blackpill movement aint gonna go anywhere..
 
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If the 80/20 rule is true, a man in the bottom 80% has a 1/4 chance of having a gf. If the 80/20 rule is true within the 80% of men which it probably is, a man in the bottom 64% has a 1/16 chance of having a gf. Consequently, the men in the bottom 51.2 % must share 0.2^3 of the women and have only 1 1/64 chance of having a girlfriend. If the 80/20 rule is true is true for the top 20% of men, the top 4% of men can have 16 gf:s each on average. The average man has such a low chance of having a woman pursuing him while the top men, the Chads according to this mathemathical model have so many women pursuing them. The top 20% of men alone have 4 women pursuing each of them on average. If you are in the bottom 20% of men, only 0.00000046256% of women are pursuing you according to this formula.
The graph I'm posting reveal that the sum of women who must be shared is negligible for the bottom 3/4 of men. Women are also a zero-sum game where improving yourself and getting one woman does not increase the number of women got, just the effort put into getting them.


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This is why harems and poly is becoming normalised. Non-Chads will share women or accept she will cheat but still buy her shit.

I've observed from my own male friends and acquaintances that they 'got lucky' once and very lucky if its their looksmatch and then spend the rest of their life trying to hold onto her. This is why men orbit women. They're desperate for a chance.
 
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I got the same probability of winning the lottery than having consensual sex with a female
 
Over a lifetime the odds get a bit better.

The odds in a day, week, month or year for the average male are terrible but over a 50 year period will shorten a bit because theres always a minor possibility of being in the right place at the right time. That's all men have if they arent Chad or not NT and low inhib enough to run any kind of social circle game.

Women just need to exist.
 
Then it's not yet over too. The possibility of life with a girl you love is over, but your life isn't.
Yes,in the sense that I am physically alive. But I'm dead inside,mang. Everyday I think about roping. Not even video games are fun anymore brocel.
 
Yes,in the sense that I am physically alive. But I'm dead inside,mang. Everyday I think about roping. Not even video games are fun anymore brocel.
I feel you homie. It's not easy. People say girls won't solve your problems but I can't help but think maybe it can. Takes a beautiful to solve a guy's problems of life. Things like time go slower with a girl, y'know? Secs become mins, days become weeks, weeks become months, and months become years. Time goes slower with a girl you love because you wanna take your time.
 
Believe me, you shouldn't envy the average oofy-doofy subhumanbuxx. In matter of fact, the average bluepilled betabuxx will envy you, as soon as the blackpill hits him.
 
I feel you homie. It's not easy. People say girls won't solve your problems but I can't help but think maybe it can. Takes a beautiful to solve a guy's problems of life. Things like time go slower with a girl, y'know? Secs become mins, days become weeks, weeks become months, and months become years. Time goes slower with a girl you love because you wanna take your time.
Exactly..and it's not just about the sex,having a girl that actually,genuinely loves you is better than anything else.
 
people do know "80/20" isn't an absolute law of nature but rather a general rule-of-thumb / trend that doesn't apply in all conditions and rarely ever holds true in the most literal sense of a perfect 80/20 distribution?
 
people do know "80/20" isn't an absolute law of nature but rather a general rule-of-thumb / trend that doesn't apply in all conditions and rarely ever holds true in the most literal sense of a perfect 80/20 distribution?
It was supposed to be so obvious
 
I feel you homie. It's not easy. People say girls won't solve your problems but I can't help but think maybe it can. Takes a beautiful to solve a guy's problems of life. Things like time go slower with a girl, y'know? Secs become mins, days become weeks, weeks become months, and months become years. Time goes slower with a girl you love because you wanna take your time.
Exactly..and it's not just about the sex,having a girl that actually,genuinely loves you is better than anything else.
let's calculate the chances of fullfilling these two unlikely conditions at the same time
-a loveable woman (x0.01)
-who loves me back (x0.0)
let me get the calculator out... :cryfeels:
 
Every day I get more tired, I have a great tiredness in me I don't want to hate anymore
 
people do know "80/20" isn't an absolute law of nature but rather a general rule-of-thumb / trend that doesn't apply in all conditions and rarely ever holds true in the most literal sense of a perfect 80/20 distribution?
:yes:

Absolutely this.

I've always tried to steer clear of autistic ideas about people's numbers and the mathematical probability of having it work out for you.

But a bunch of us from work went to an industry presentation evening recently, young chadlite had at least two women flirting with him and outright hitting on him. Young Chad had three women openly thirsting after him.

It's a good thing I took my blackpills years ago, and I quite like Young Chad and Chadlite, they are both nice guys. (I supervise both of them, Chadlite is very young and still hasn't developed much instinct for what a good design is. But he works fast as long as he is pointed in the right direction. Chad always takes a bit longer to get to the right answer, but he is diligent and works hard.)

If I had been Young and still in the FOMO phase it would have been quite hard to watch.
 
*the average ethnic man has a low chance of getting a girlfriend
 

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