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Soy The absolute state of Islam, betabux edition.

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Alhamdulillah I have been blessed with a good career and stability in life. My friends and peers describe me as gentle, kind and generous. Initially I never thought I would marry because deep down I felt unlovable, but my family and friends always told me there was nothing wrong with me and that any woman would be happy with me. Eventually I did marry and I never expected my wife to work, pay or even do chores. I was more than ready to get maids and carry the burden, all I wanted was loyalty and some love.

The problem is that I notice she doesn’t seem to lower her gaze. It’s something that really cuts me deeply. I struggle with self esteem and worth already and when I see that, it makes me feel inadequate, like I will never be enough. I am in shape, Alhamdulillah not ugly, maybe not the best looking but I value deen, good character and loyalty more than anything. I always thought that is what matters in marriage, but sometimes it feels like people today don’t value those things. I don’t understand why marry someone if your eyes wander. If I did the same she would probably be upset too. I refuse to drop to that level though. It feels unfair because I really tried to align on religion and values, and I am fairly conservative. Yet I keep noticing this and it hurts more than I can put into words. I have the means to walk away. Alhamdulillah I make good money, I am in the top percentiles of savings in a western country at only 25. I never chased girlfriends or non Muslims even though I could have, because I wanted to do things the right way. But now it feels like even that is not enough.


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I don't know why islam dickriders act like it's the most beautiful thing to ever exist, no you're not guaranteed a foid wife
Betabuxxing is required like anywhere else, the only thing they do correctly is beat their foids.
 
If he really believes in it he should just speedrun his 72 virgins
 
This shit is so cucked
Can't escape your genes
 
Alhamdulillah :smonk:
 
Seems like a falseflagging cuck.
 
Abrahamic religions with their concept of original sin admit that humans are fallible and that is the premise of religion and society.

Since humans are sinful by nature, we have to repent and create social contracts that overcome these failures.

One example is marriage and duties of the husband and wife, i.e., betabuxxing.

Throughout history, most men had no other option but to betabuxx; the only thing that changed is that it is not worth it anymore.

You can either: 1. Marry under fair conditions (Islam) 2. Marry under unfair conditions 3. MGTOW

If you are Homo sapiens and if you are not a Chad, there is no other option.

I think it is safe to say that option 1 is objectively the best option for a normal, sane person.

So what are you exactly criticizing Islam for?
 
He's questioning his whole life and religion just because his wife's eyes wander. Truly having a loyal wife/girlfriend is all that matters
 
Least cucked Abrahamic (jewish) marriage
 
Least cucked Abrahamic (jewish) marriage
In Islam, such promiscuous behavior is not permissible.

The reason why such episodes happen is not because of Islam but because of a lack of Islam due to liberal and secular elements of society.

So why are you criticizing Islam? :feelswhat:
 
I don't have problems with valid criticism of the Ummah, but you guys complain only and have 0 solutions. :feelsseriously:
 
I don't have problems with valid criticism of the Ummah, but you guys complain only and have 0 solutions. :feelsseriously:
Making hijrah is the only solution here. The west is incompatible with islam.
 
Can’t he just honor kill her?
 
Because Religion is cucked.
It cucks degenerate Chads for the sake of social welfare.

Call it slave morality if you want, but incels are by definition not the masters. :lul:
 
It cucks degenerate Chads for the sake of social welfare.

Call it slave morality if you want, but incels are by definition not the masters. :lul:
lmao
Chaddam will get his four wives while you'll get nothing.
 
lmao
Chaddam will get his four wives while you'll get nothing.
Depends on the region and sect, but polygamy is discouraged and is uncommon.
 
@ogercel is this ur people?
 
I WANT A WOMAN TO LOWER HER GAZE

WHEN I ENTER A ROOM

SO THAT SHE KNOWS HER DUTY AND SUBSERVIENCE TO MEN AS A WOMAN WHO MUST WEAR A HIJAB

FUCK

I NEVER EVEN IMAGINED THE POWER OF THAT

Alhamdulillah ALLLAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Throughout history, most men had no other option but to betabuxx; the only thing that changed is that it is not worth it anymore.
Throughout the major parts of human existence men raped foids, they didnt need to betabuxx because noone cared about female consent. And later when marriage become a thing you wouldnt even have to talk to your future wife before you were married, you could go to her father/ oldest livin male family member and ask him to marry. In christianity the father of the bride had to give stuff (dawry) away when his daughter were married, also female consent were irrelevant. Betabuxxin become in the west only a thing since the concept that the opinion of foids is worth anything.
 
Abrahamic religions with their concept of original sin admit that humans are fallible and that is the premise of religion and society.

Since humans are sinful by nature, we have to repent and create social contracts that overcome these failures.

One example is marriage and duties of the husband and wife, i.e., betabuxxing.

Throughout history, most men had no other option but to betabuxx; the only thing that changed is that it is not worth it anymore.

You can either: 1. Marry under fair conditions (Islam) 2. Marry under unfair conditions 3. MGTOW

If you are Homo sapiens and if you are not a Chad, there is no other option.

I think it is safe to say that option 1 is objectively the best option for a normal, sane person.

So what are you exactly criticizing Islam for?
:feelskek::lul:
 
Throughout the major parts of human existence men raped foids, they didnt need to betabuxx because noone cared about female consent.
True, but wasn't reproduction less egalitarian prior to the advent of marriages? In addition, children were raised communally, which supposedly led to parental neglect relative to the nuclear family.

In regards to betabuxxing, wasn't the sexual division of labor between the husband and wife its predecessor?

And later when marriage become a thing you wouldnt even have to talk to your future wife before you were married, you could go to her father/ oldest livin male family member and ask him to marry. In christianity the father of the bride had to give stuff (dawry) away when his daughter were married, also female consent were irrelevant.
Also true, but I think the mechanism was more or less the same. It's just that instead of the bride, the paternal figure was responsible for sexual selection, as he held superior wisdom and intelligence.
 
Throughout the major parts of human existence men raped foids, they didnt need to betabuxx because noone cared about female consent. And later when marriage become a thing you wouldnt even have to talk to your future wife before you were married, you could go to her father/ oldest livin male family member and ask him to marry. In christianity the father of the bride had to give stuff (dawry) away when his daughter were married, also female consent were irrelevant. Betabuxxin become in the west only a thing since the concept that the opinion of foids is worth anything.
Yes exactly this. There really was no dating market, “flirting” or matchmaking. You were either arranged married, took your wife by force, or married the nearest woman to you by default. “Chad” as we know it today was also meaningless because, the ability to be a good partner and survive was not based on looks it was based on actual evolutionarily beneficial skills. Remember, modern hypergamy is not natural or eugenic.
 

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimNikah/comments/1mvlz00/my_wife_doesnt_seem_to_lower_her_gaze_and_its/

Alhamdulillah I have been blessed with a good career and stability in life. My friends and peers describe me as gentle, kind and generous. Initially I never thought I would marry because deep down I felt unlovable, but my family and friends always told me there was nothing wrong with me and that any woman would be happy with me. Eventually I did marry and I never expected my wife to work, pay or even do chores. I was more than ready to get maids and carry the burden, all I wanted was loyalty and some love.

The problem is that I notice she doesn’t seem to lower her gaze. It’s something that really cuts me deeply. I struggle with self esteem and worth already and when I see that, it makes me feel inadequate, like I will never be enough. I am in shape, Alhamdulillah not ugly, maybe not the best looking but I value deen, good character and loyalty more than anything. I always thought that is what matters in marriage, but sometimes it feels like people today don’t value those things. I don’t understand why marry someone if your eyes wander. If I did the same she would probably be upset too. I refuse to drop to that level though. It feels unfair because I really tried to align on religion and values, and I am fairly conservative. Yet I keep noticing this and it hurts more than I can put into words. I have the means to walk away. Alhamdulillah I make good money, I am in the top percentiles of savings in a western country at only 25. I never chased girlfriends or non Muslims even though I could have, because I wanted to do things the right way. But now it feels like even that is not enough.


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The fact that Westerners are concerned about Islam is absurd to me, they don't understand that Islam is incompatible with Western values and they are still trying to push LGBT and other heresies into Islam. Why don't they meet their Muslim brothers and sisters in Afghanistan or Palestine?
 
In regards to betabuxxing, wasn't the sexual division of labor between the husband and wife its predecessor?
In medieval times division of labour wasnt really a thing, like most part of society until industrial revolution were mostly farmers, Im the offspring of x generation of field workers so I know that my grandmother and even my mother in her younger years had to help workin on the field, women also had to work, not the physical hard work but still they had to work the whole "traditional" role-model were the case at best between 1890 and 1990, besides those time division if work between sex wasnt a case for most part of population

Also true, but I think the mechanism was more or less the same. It's just that instead of the bride, the paternal figure was responsible for sexual selection, as he held superior wisdom and intelligence.
If got to be honest I dont know any source for this I only can tell what I think and that is that is wasnt a thing, females were "sold" either within family or into befriended families and myabe for some people they were married of to gain influence as political or social bargaining tool
 
I can't seriously look at any post like this that comes from a Muslim and not feel like they way they talk is just one massive LARP. How embarrassing.
 
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In medieval times division of labour wasnt really a thing, like most part of society until industrial revolution were mostly farmers, Im the offspring of x generation of field workers so I know that my grandmother and even my mother in her younger years had to help workin on the field, women also had to work, not the physical hard work but still they had to work the whole "traditional" role-model were the case at best between 1890 and 1990, besides those time division if work between sex wasnt a case for most part of population
Reminds me of the fact that women chose to stay at home following the industrial revolution, which is what you were probably implying.

If got to be honest I dont know any source for this I only can tell what I think and that is that is wasnt a thing,
Ok.

females were "sold" either within family or into befriended families and myabe for some people they were married of to gain influence as political or social bargaining tool
:yes:
 
Can't escape betabuxx fate, not even religiontards :feelshaha:
 
W
no pajeet hes another pajeet from pakistan these subs are full of brown people from your subcontinent
What about your ummah
 
Depends on the region and sect, but polygamy is discouraged and is uncommon.
My pops maxed out and got all four. It's not going well for him. I'm not gonna follow his example after seeing how he is right now.
 
Islam wants you dead. Their Qur'an tells you to kill all infidels, and the Hadith shows you how to do it.
 

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