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the absolute most brutal, hardest pill to swallow BY FAR is that personality DOES

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lets be real here, 99% of us here have shit personality

no, being nice due to high inhib while barely talking and being silent doesnt mean u have a good personality

obviously its hard to have a socially acceptable personality while being deformed, while looking good gives u an easier time having a good personality, we absolutely cannot deny the fact normalfags with 8/10 personality can score with girls, sure ONS may be hard, but average looking dudes with 8+/10 personality with 7+/10 girls is non a rare sight at all

reminder that good personality means u feel good with the person, always laughing, having something to talk about with, just all around positive feelings and not being bored while with them

if u deny this u are 100% aspie

edit: JFL at all the denial and cope

it just proves how aspie most people here because they cant grasp this simple logic because they no social life, i used to untill a few months ago and this is 100% BRUTAL TRUTH

subhuman with amazing personality is as rare as a ultra giga chad so its reasonable u wont find em

but a 4-6/10 guy with great personality with a 7+/10 gf is not rare at all
 
Not going to read any further bro.

Personality might matter if you're 5+, but not if you're subhuman.

Also having a shitty personality like me is a consequence of being incel, not the cause.
 
42cel said:
Not going to read any further bro.

Personality might matter if your 5+, but not if you're subhuman.

Also having a shitty personality like me is a consequence of being incel, not the cause.

the better looking u are, the easier it is having good personality, both because looks AND the confidence due to not being a freak

>Also having a shitty personality like me is a consequence of being incel, not the cause.


while u are not wrong, that doesnt disprove my thread

a 2/10 looking guy with 10/10 personality is about as a rare as a real life gigachad obviously, they would have to be REDICOLOUSLY charismatic funny etc to pull it off, all this naturally too ofc no bs acting

otherwise ur comment proves this is an incredibly hard pill to swallow

remember while we are technically not responsible for our shit personality, it doesnt matter



aka 'average'

basically 4 and above
 
I have a shitty personality because people treat me like shit. I'm KV at 20. It's a proof most people would rather see you dead.
 
spergcel said:
I have a shitty personality because people treat me like shit. I'm KV at 20. It's all you need to know people would rather see you dead.

>I have a shitty personality because people treat me like shit.

this is true, but it doesnt disprove the personality theory on the OP

stop being subjective folks
 
hehe xd said:
the better looking u are, the easier it is having good personality, both because looks AND the confidence due to not being a freak

>Also having a shitty personality like me is a consequence of being incel, not the cause.


while u are not wrong, that doesnt disprove my thread

a 2/10 looking guy with 10/10 personality is about as a rare as a real life gigachad obviously, they would have to be REDICOLOUSLY charismatic funny etc to pull it off, all this naturally too ofc no bs acting

otherwise ur comment proves this is an incredibly hard pill to swallow

remember while we are technically not responsible for our shit personality, it doesnt matter

Your original thread mentions that you constantly see normalfags with hot girlfriends. No one is denying that, but if you are a subhuman with a 10/10 personality the best you could do is get into a cucked relationship. No female truly desires a subhuman no matter how funny he might be.
 
42cel said:
Your original thread mentions that you constantly see normalfags with hot girlfriends. No one is denying that, but if you are a subhuman with a 10/10 personality the best you could do is get into a cucked relationship. No female truly desires a subhuman no matter how funny he might be.

i havent seen a truecel subhuman in this forum yet, everyone are retarded mentalcels or attention whoring fakecels

even the retard who thinks muscles are useless isnt subhuman, hes at least average due to his light eyes/hair

octopusgun comes close, but he already got a rhinoplasty and has god tier eye area, hes high tier normie now and if he fixes his shit he will literally be chad tier
 
It's game over if you are high inhib and sub 8.
 
Sorry but personality mattering is as disproven as the idea that bad air causes sickness, if you're good looking people will always preemptively assign good personality traits to you.
 
These arbitrary numbers you're attributing to shit like looks and personality don't mean anything. Like lmao, what's the difference between a 6/10 personality and a 5/10 personality? Come on now.
 
iFartAtRoasties said:
Sorry but personality mattering is as disproven as the idea that bad air causes sickness, if you're good looking people will always preemptively assign good personality traits to you.

inb4 ur source is that OKcupid graph where the only info the vaginas had about the men is their PROFILE PICS

obviously if u knew nothing about a random person rather than their looks u would rate attractive people higher

personality matters for LTR, disagreeing is cope
 
iFartAtRoasties said:
Sorry but personality mattering is as disproven as the idea that bad air causes sickness, if you're good looking people will always preemptively assign good personality traits to you.

Exactly. People want to see the good in good-looking people, even if it isn't there. Its just the way it is.
 
hehe xd said:
matter

lets be real here, 99% of us here have shit personality

no, being nice due to high inhib while barely talking and being silent doesnt mean u have a good personality

obviously its hard to have a socially acceptable personality while being deformed, while looking good gives u an easier time having a good personality, we absolutely cannot deny the fact normalfags with 8/10 personality can score with girls, sure ONS may be hard, but average looking dudes with 8+/10 personality with 7+/10 girls is non a rare sight at all

reminder that good personality means u feel good with the person, always laughing, having something to talk about with, just all around positive feelings and not being bored while with them

if u deny this u are 100% aspie
Dude today itself there was this thread were a girl basically admits that only our LOOKS matter and that confidence on an ugly male is actually a turn off.
 
I have a great personality but the reality is women are not going for personality at all
 
QuantumDummy said:
These arbitrary numbers you're attributing to shit like looks and personality don't mean anything. Like lmao, what's the difference between a 6/10 personality and a 5/10 personality? Come on now.

its hypothetical

its same shit about looks

an attractive person is attractive, but another attractive person can be more attractive than the first

same goes to personality

i'd say 5/10 personality is average NT, 6/10 is somewhat more funny/outgoing/charistmatic/nice etc


Jockcel said:
It's game over if you are high inhib and sub 8.

only hope is alcohol in every social situation as 5+


FeminismsCancer said:
Dude today itself there was this thread were a girl basically admits that only our LOOKS matter and that confidence on an ugly male is actually a turn off.

and if a moid made a thread saying the opposite what would u say? lmao

confidence=/= personality

an ugly person would have to extremely over compenstate in their personality to achieve what a normal+ person would achieve with looks, but it can happen


NeverSubmit said:
I have a great personality but the reality is women are not going for personality at all

do u have a healthy social life? why are u on a hate forum if u have great personality? why do u think u ahve great personality? jfl
 
hehe xd said:
its hypothetical

its same shit about looks

an attractive person is attractive, but another attractive person can be more attractive than the first

same goes to personality

i'd say 5/10 personality is average NT, 6/10 is somewhat more funny/outgoing/charistmatic/nice etc



only hope is alcohol in every social situation as 5+



But then you have to realize these things are subjective. A thousand people can rate one person a 5/10 in looks or personality, while a thousand others can rate that same person totally different.
 
hehe xd said:
matter

lets be real here, 99% of us here have shit personality

no, being nice due to high inhib while barely talking and being silent doesnt mean u have a good personality

obviously its hard to have a socially acceptable personality while being deformed, while looking good gives u an easier time having a good personality, we absolutely cannot deny the fact normalfags with 8/10 personality can score with girls, sure ONS may be hard, but average looking dudes with 8+/10 personality with 7+/10 girls is non a rare sight at all

reminder that good personality means u feel good with the person, always laughing, having something to talk about with, just all around positive feelings and not being bored while with them

if u deny this u are 100% aspie

It matters for friendships. But not sexual relationships.
 
truecel23 said:
It matters for friendships. But not sexual relationships.

if anything it matters for LTR sexual relationships more than ONS


QuantumDummy said:
But then you have to realize these things are subjective. A thousand people can rate one person a 5/10 in looks or personality, while a thousand others can rate that same person totally different.

some people may be like funny people more, others will like nice people more

attractive features are objective, attraction is subjective
 
hehe xd said:
personality matters for LTR, disagreeing is cope

Yes it does, but if you are ugly to begin with no femoid will even consider getting into a relationship with you, unless she pities you and wants to come off as morally superior. Everyone has standards.

Yes many users here are mentalcels, but at least they will not get cucked, because that's what happens to normies in LTRs. LTR in general is an absurd concept IMO, but I know many here disagree.
 
hehe xd said:
do u have a healthy social life? why are u on a hate forum if u have great personality? why do u think u ahve great personality? jfl
I don't want to socialize with normies that doesn't mean my personality is bad I have good traits
 
hehe xd said:
if anything it matters for LTR sexual relationships more than ONS



some people may be like funny people more, others will like nice people more

attractive features are objective, attraction is subjective



No it fucking doesn't. Even for a LTR she wants you to be sexually attractive. After all, YOU are the guy who she's going to have sex with and the only guy for decades, no?

Else you get friend zoned by your SO, lmao.
 
Ok so tell me OP. You are with a group of friends you say something everyone ignores you. Chad says something everyone talks to him,people look at him and not you. You are just there but not relevant.
So tell me OP where is the personality factor there?
People will naturally assume bad things about you cause of falio effect. And please by all means define personality first.
 
hehe xd said:
matter

lets be real here, 99% of us here have shit personality

no, being nice due to high inhib while barely talking and being silent doesnt mean u have a good personality

obviously its hard to have a socially acceptable personality while being deformed, while looking good gives u an easier time having a good personality, we absolutely cannot deny the fact normalfags with 8/10 personality can score with girls, sure ONS may be hard, but average looking dudes with 8+/10 personality with 7+/10 girls is non a rare sight at all

reminder that good personality means u feel good with the person, always laughing, having something to talk about with, just all around positive feelings and not being bored while with them

if u deny this u are 100% aspie

edit: JFL at all the denial and cope

it just proves how aspie most people here because they cant grasp this simple logic because they no social life, i used to untill a few months ago and this is 100% BRUTAL TRUTH

subhuman with amazing personality is as rare as a ultra giga chad so its reasonable u wont find em

but a 4-6/10 guy with great personality with a 7+/10 gf is not rare at all

If you are 4+ (or 3+, but thats arguable) personality matters. If you are below that however, halo is too extreme and there is really no personality you can have that can make you appealing. At that point all personality can do is make you "slightly uncomfortable to be around" rather than "repulsive".
 
KV3 said:
If you are 4+ (or 3+, but thats arguable) personality matters. If you are below that however, halo is too extreme and there is really no personality you can have that can make you appealing. At that point all personality can do is make you "slightly uncomfortable to be around" rather than "repulsive".

/thread
 
Personality doesn't matter you cucks, it only matters to female when they want to settle with a nice beta cuck after they rode the cock carousel.
 
truecel23 said:
No it fucking doesn't. Even for a LTR she wants you to be sexually attractive. After all, YOU are the guy who she's going to have sex with and the only guy for decades, no?

Else you get friend zoned by your SO, lmao.

t. khhv truecel


NeverSubmit said:
I don't want to socialize with normies that doesn't mean my personality is bad I have good traits

t. aspie
 
The point of looks is so you don’t have to improve yourself. You can just be yourself and be loved for it. You will never be happy if you are being someone you’re not. That is why personality theory is a scam.
 
I have a great and attractive personality, i receive alot of attettion wherever i be and i have (or had b4 becoming NEET) alot of female friends.

However, no one of them wanna fuck me... i feel so cucked :/
 
hehe xd said:
matter

lets be real here, 99% of us here have shit personality

no, being nice due to high inhib while barely talking and being silent doesnt mean u have a good personality

obviously its hard to have a socially acceptable personality while being deformed, while looking good gives u an easier time having a good personality, we absolutely cannot deny the fact normalfags with 8/10 personality can score with girls, sure ONS may be hard, but average looking dudes with 8+/10 personality with 7+/10 girls is non a rare sight at all

reminder that good personality means u feel good with the person, always laughing, having something to talk about with, just all around positive feelings and not being bored while with them

if u deny this u are 100% aspie

edit: JFL at all the denial and cope

it just proves how aspie most people here because they cant grasp this simple logic because they no social life, i used to untill a few months ago and this is 100% BRUTAL TRUTH

subhuman with amazing personality is as rare as a ultra giga chad so its reasonable u wont find em

but a 4-6/10 guy with great personality with a 7+/10 gf is not rare at all

Notice how you're just telling this to yourself

If a conversation is going poorly, it's the fault of the person with an ugly face?

It doesn't matter how charismatic you think you are if you have an ugly face, you simply can't be taken seriously

This isn't coming from someone that (you will imagine as one for disagreeing with you) is an aspie and sits infront of a computer screen all day while barely knowing how to interact with others when they do get in a social situation, I have 6-7/10 social skills and am nice to people who deserve it, but get treated like shit at every opportunity for having an ugly face by femoids, and it doesn't actually matter how you react because if you have an ugly face and a femoid attacks you it will seem to them or anyone watching I guess that you are a socially awkward loser just because their bitch face says so
 
buddy personality comes due to looks

its easy to be nice to girls if everything u do is interesting to them

its easy to be seen as cool if everyone finds whatever you do hot

how do i know? swallow the blackpill.

and my tinder asia experiment confirmed this to me.

if I talk the same way I would to girls in my home country (note I never got a like or match yet on tinder, but if i msg on FB or something) i get bored responses, ghosted or whatever. if i talk the EXACT same way to girls on tinder in asia, they are interested.

so which part is my personality?
 
True your not going meet decent girls on tinder or clubbing so you think every girl is like that. Try going to church or something.
 
hehe xd said:
So all non normies are aspies lol? You are probably a failed normie
 
I agree with OP that personality matters, but like everyone else has said here: Being ugly makes it really damn hard to develop a good personality. And it's also the halo-effect that makes good-looking people automatically have a better perceived personality compared to ugly people.

Basically an ugly guy with a 8/10 objective personality, would be perceived as having a 6/10 personality.

A good-looking guy with a 4/10 objective personality would be perceived as having a 6/10 personality aswell.



But yeah, good luck developing a good personality with scientific evidence like this:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3654018/
Decades of research demonstrate that children and adults judge each other based on physical attractiveness. Attractive people are viewed as more sociable, honest, intelligent, and superior social partners compared with less attractive people (see Langlois et al., 2000 for a review and meta-analysis). Furthermore, these judgments are correlated with differential treatment in social and occupational settings. Not only are unattractive people less likely to be chosen as dating partners, but also they are less likely to receive equal pay and job advancement (Hamermesh, 2011; Hamermesh & Biddle, 1994; Hosoda et al., 2003).

Brutal blackpill
 
Looks=Personality
 
Kointo said:
Looks=Personality
cope
SlayOrDie said:
I agree with OP that personality matters, but like everyone else has said here: Being ugly makes it really damn hard to develop a good personality. And it's also the halo-effect that makes good-looking people automatically have a better perceived personality compared to ugly people.
Basically an ugly guy with a 8/10 objective personality, would be perceived as having a 6/10 personality.
A good-looking guy with a 4/10 objective personality would be perceived as having a 6/10 personality aswell.
But yeah, good luck developing a good personality with scientific evidence like this:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3654018/
Decades of research demonstrate that children and adults judge each other based on physical attractiveness. Attractive people are viewed as more sociable, honest, intelligent, and superior social partners compared with less attractive people (see Langlois et al., 2000 for a review and meta-analysis). Furthermore, these judgments are correlated with differential treatment in social and occupational settings. Not only are unattractive people less likely to be chosen as dating partners, but also they are less likely to receive equal pay and job advancement (Hamermesh, 2011; Hamermesh & Biddle, 1994; Hosoda et al., 2003).
Brutal blackpill
the thing is most posters here arent ugly, most are just fat or average/below slightly


NeverSubmit said:
So all non normies are aspies lol? You are probably a failed normie

non normies are socially retarded, yes

including me, since a few years ago at least
 
For fucks sakes how many times do we have to keep saying this:

Looks get you in the door, personality makes you stay. Can't get in the door if you don't have looks in the first place. Also, here's a post for the "ugly guys acting confident" by another woman:

http://theplacetorant.com/ugly-creepy-guys/
 
ghostcell said:
buddy personality comes due to looks

its easy to be nice to girls if everything u do is interesting to them

its easy to be seen as cool if everyone finds whatever you do hot

how do i know? swallow the blackpill.

and my tinder asia experiment confirmed this to me.

if I talk the same way I would to girls in my home country (note I never got a like or match yet on tinder, but if i msg on FB or something) i get bored responses, ghosted or whatever. if i talk the EXACT same way to girls on tinder in asia, they are interested.

so which part is my personality?

>tinder confirmed this

delusional cope


rafaelvicuna3 said:
For fucks sakes how many times do we have to keep saying this:

Looks get you in the door, personality makes you stay. Can't get in the door if you don't have looks in the first place. Also, here's a post for the "ugly guys acting confident" by another woman:

http://theplacetorant.com/ugly-creepy-guys/

an average/below average guy can definitely stay around the door and be accepted inside after his good personality is seen

unironically uncommon scenarios ofc
 
hehe xd said:
cope
the thing is most posters here arent ugly, most are just fat or average/below slightly



non normies are socially retarded, yes

including me, since a few years ago at least



Why the hell is it cope? If an ugly male and Chad do the same thing, then a female will have different reactions. This is a basic blackpill. Have you been touched on the head?
 
incellooksmaxer said:
True your not going meet decent girls on tinder or clubbing so you think every girl is like that. Try going to church or something.

school/social meetings etc

people here read an extremel biased graphed and declare themselves 'blackpilled' its pathetic they think all girls are tinder stacies, many girls were properly raised they just arent ultra whores
 
hehe xd said:
non normies are socially retarded, yes

including me, since a few years ago at least
You are coping with this personality crap. Women are rejecting us in 1-5 seconds how can they know our personality before we even open our mouth?
 
towncel said:
Notice how you're just telling this to yourself

If a conversation is going poorly, it's the fault of the person with an ugly face?

It doesn't matter how charismatic you think you are if you have an ugly face, you simply can't be taken seriously

This isn't coming from someone that (you will imagine as one for disagreeing with you) is an aspie and sits infront of a computer screen all day while barely knowing how to interact with others when they do get in a social situation, I have 6-7/10 social skills and am nice to people who deserve it, but get treated like shit at every opportunity for having an ugly face by femoids, and it doesn't actually matter how you react because if you have an ugly face and a femoid attacks you it will seem to them or anyone watching I guess that you are a socially awkward loser just because their bitch face says so

then u arent average/slightly below average as i said in the op

i literally said this is for 4+/10s, for below that u need to have extremely good and unique personality, a chad personality wise basically, which u arent
 
hehe xd said:
school/social meetings etc

people here read an extremel biased graphed and declare themselves 'blackpilled' its pathetic they think all girls are tinder stacies, many girls were properly raised they just arent ultra whores

No amount of nurture can eradicate the human desire for Chad's thundercock.
 
hehe xd said:
cope
the thing is most posters here arent ugly, most are just fat or average/below slightly



non normies are socially retarded, yes

including me, since a few years ago at least



fat=ugly. And no, most posters are below average here although most would be able to reach average with serious looksmaxing and plastic surgery in some cases.

Still means you got the personality of someone who was treated like shit because his looks for his entire youth.
 
hehe xd said:
then u arent average/slightly below average as i said in the op

i literally said this is for 4+/10s, for below that u need to have extremely good and unique personality, a chad personality wise basically, which u arent

You're an idiot if you take the personality Chad meme seriously. Fuck off.
 
KilluminoidBR said:
I have a great and attractive personality, i receive alot of attettion wherever i be and i have (or had b4 becoming NEET) alot of female friends.

However, no one of them wanna fuck me... i feel so cucked :/

perhaps u are over estimating ur personality as a cope? read the op, good personality is just as uncommon as good looks, with good looks having the advantage anyways
 
SlayOrDie said:
But yeah, good luck developing a good personality with scientific evidence like this:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3654018/
Decades of research demonstrate that children and adults judge each other based on physical attractiveness. Attractive people are viewed as more sociable, honest, intelligent, and superior social partners compared with less attractive people (see Langlois et al., 2000 for a review and meta-analysis). Furthermore, these judgments are correlated with differential treatment in social and occupational settings. Not only are unattractive people less likely to be chosen as dating partners, but also they are less likely to receive equal pay and job advancement (Hamermesh, 2011; Hamermesh & Biddle, 1994; Hosoda et al., 2003).

Brutal blackpill

giphy.gif
 
hehe xd said:
perhaps u are over estimating ur personality as a cope? read the op, good personality is just as uncommon as good looks, with good looks having the advantage anyways

Personality doesn't fucking matter for ugly males.
 
Kointo said:
No amount of nurture can eradicate the human desire for Chad's thundercock.

punishments and strict belief can supress it for most
 
SlayOrDie said:
fat=ugly. And no, most posters are below average here although most would be able to reach average with serious looksmaxing and plastic surgery in some cases.

Still means you got the personality of someone who was treated like shit because his looks for his entire youth.

>Still means you got the personality of someone who was treated like shit because his looks for his entire youth.


this literally doesnt matter, it doesnt matter how justified ur shit personality is, its still shit, lmao

learn to let go off of ur ego brothers


Kointo said:
You're an idiot if you take the personality Chad meme seriously. Fuck off.

>meme

>real life situations
 

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