Vorbei
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I was thinking about when women say "I love what he brings to a relationship", often followed by describing the man with words like kind and generous. And I realised that this sentence does a great job of encapsulating sub-8 theory, which has had a lot of threads on it over the past few days.
Your looks alone do not cut it as a sub-8 male. Her love for you does not exist without your ability to provide, whether it be money, security or some form of status (it will probably be all of them). Adjectives such as kind, generous, hard-working and giving when describing a man are at their core praising the ability and willingness to provide. And the further you get from this threshold, the less you are loved for who you are and more for what you bring until your capacity to provide is unable to bear the burden of your bad looks, at which point you can start saying it is over.
With this knowledge, you can be under no illusion as to the basis of any future relationships with women if this is how you would be described. How far will you go in pursuit of the regular nut?
Your looks alone do not cut it as a sub-8 male. Her love for you does not exist without your ability to provide, whether it be money, security or some form of status (it will probably be all of them). Adjectives such as kind, generous, hard-working and giving when describing a man are at their core praising the ability and willingness to provide. And the further you get from this threshold, the less you are loved for who you are and more for what you bring until your capacity to provide is unable to bear the burden of your bad looks, at which point you can start saying it is over.
With this knowledge, you can be under no illusion as to the basis of any future relationships with women if this is how you would be described. How far will you go in pursuit of the regular nut?