This is my 1000th message on incels.is and I'd like to say thank you for having me.
Ever since I've joined .me I've been feeling a lot better about myself.
Here I don't have to lie about my inceldom or my virginity and it has made me realize that I'm not the only one that hasn't even lost his virginity at the age of 21.
I found incels.is via cuestars videos and I actually originally made this account to infiltrate the incel community and make fun of incels. (sorry about that)
However reading through the posts made me realize that I actually belong here and that I am in no way better than the people posting here.
This community made me realize that incels are much friendlier and much more helpful than they are portraied by the media.
Before I joined I used to sit infront of my pc in my flat just watching youtube videos, playing video games or making music but I always felt like there was something I was doing wrong. I started university last year and ever since I've been living in a different city without my parents I've been feeling very lonely every day. I actually tried using tinder with no success in germany and I started becoming slightly depressed when I couldn't find any girlfriend.
I had no one to talk to since I don't have many close friends especially in the city that I study in I don't have any true friends apart from my roommate, but he wouldn't understand.
What made it worse is that I didn't really know what to do with my life and what my future would/could look like.
Now my life is still pretty much the same but I don't feel that sad anymore.
I have come to realize that the blame for my inceldom isn't fully on me.
I now have hope for my future since I will change universities and hopefully move to a different country when I'm done with uni.
Even if I won't be lucky on my quest to find a woman that actually loves me, I willl always have a place to cope.
Thanks for leading me to the right path.
Ever since I've joined .me I've been feeling a lot better about myself.
Here I don't have to lie about my inceldom or my virginity and it has made me realize that I'm not the only one that hasn't even lost his virginity at the age of 21.
I found incels.is via cuestars videos and I actually originally made this account to infiltrate the incel community and make fun of incels. (sorry about that)
However reading through the posts made me realize that I actually belong here and that I am in no way better than the people posting here.
This community made me realize that incels are much friendlier and much more helpful than they are portraied by the media.
Before I joined I used to sit infront of my pc in my flat just watching youtube videos, playing video games or making music but I always felt like there was something I was doing wrong. I started university last year and ever since I've been living in a different city without my parents I've been feeling very lonely every day. I actually tried using tinder with no success in germany and I started becoming slightly depressed when I couldn't find any girlfriend.
I had no one to talk to since I don't have many close friends especially in the city that I study in I don't have any true friends apart from my roommate, but he wouldn't understand.
What made it worse is that I didn't really know what to do with my life and what my future would/could look like.
Now my life is still pretty much the same but I don't feel that sad anymore.
I have come to realize that the blame for my inceldom isn't fully on me.
I now have hope for my future since I will change universities and hopefully move to a different country when I'm done with uni.
Even if I won't be lucky on my quest to find a woman that actually loves me, I willl always have a place to cope.
Thanks for leading me to the right path.
