- May 6, 2021
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Pearl Derriere on a Burlesque night out (PA Real Life/Collect)
A polyamorous events planner who is helping to organise the world’s largest orgy, has told how she aims to smash the Japanese record of 500 revellers, by having 1,000 people at the marathon sex party.
This will be the most ambitious occasion yet for Pearl Derriere, 29 – who stopped counting her sexual partners when she hit 100, aged 21 – since starting her first events company, Menage Life, in 2016, with a DJ pal, inspired by attending numerous private sex parties.
An advocate of the ‘sex positive’ movement, which embraces safe and consensual sexual experimentation, Pearl, of Denver, USA, said: ‘People may think my lifestyle makes me greedy for sex, but that isn’t the case.
"But I stopped counting how many people I’d slept with once it hit over 100. People assume sex parties are something which have surfaced very recently – the truth is they have always existed, they’ve just been underground and under our noses the whole time."
Pearl, who will attend the mass orgy – the date and location of which remain a closely guarded secret within the sex positive community – worked in an insurance company before moving into the sex industry in 2012.
Still openly polyamorous – enjoying a relationship with more than one partner – she currently lives with her boyfriend Dan Patrick, 35, who works in hospitality, and visits her girlfriend Tomi Tailey, 30, in Dallas.
Her partners, who have shared a bed with her, but have not had sex together, are also happy for her to have casual liaisons with other people at orgies.
Explaining her open relationship, Pearl, who lost her virginity to a boy at 16 and had her first group sex the following year, said: ‘For me, I could never imagine one person fulfilling my every physical and emotional need for the rest of my life, which is why being a poly swinger suits me.
"I may go to a sex party with Dan and sleep with someone else, sometimes even a friend I know, but it doesn’t bother him, that’s just how our relationship works. We don’t need to feel insecure, because we know our value to each other."
Dan Patrick and Pearl (PA Real Life/Collect)
"My boyfriend is human and understands me and my needs. As long as I’m safe, sane and everything is consensual there’s no problem. We both get immense satisfaction knowing each other’s sexual, physical and mental needs are being met."
Pearl first discovered her love for orgies and non-monogamous relationships when she was working as a burlesque dancer in 2012.
Hired to perform at a private sex party – the first one she properly attended – that spring, although she had engaged in group intimacy before, she had never seen what a real orgy looked like.
She said: ‘The moment I walked in, I saw someone involved in an intimate act and was caught off guard a bit, but I soon realised it was just like any other party, with people chatting and dancing, too.
"People could have sex and be intimate, or just watch if they wanted to. I made plenty of friends that night and have been enthralled by it all ever since."
But, despite her liberated approach to intimacy, Pearl has stringent rules when it comes to orgies – always providing condoms for guests and making safety her priority.
"I get tested for sexually transmitted infections every 6 months and the results are always clear," she said. To make sure that people are accounted for and not too drunk and messy, we only let people in to parties if they come with a friend or partner. That way, if someone passes out or makes other people uncomfortable, we can alert whoever they came with.
"Being filmed is also a worry at orgies – so no one is allowed in with recording devices or mobile phones. We need a trusting environment for everyone to have fun."
Luckily, Pearl’s mum is non-judgemental about her daughter’s choice of career and is very close to her. She has been less open with her dad, who thinks she is an ordinary events planner.
Pearl during a burlesque performance (PA Real Life/Collect)
And while Pearl’s life revolves around the sex industry, she admits that she usually only makes love to her boyfriend and girlfriend once a week.
She said: "Jobs and projects going on get in the way of my sex life sometimes. By the time I’m done with work I just want to sit down and read or watch TV."
Pearl, who goes to orgies once a month, is now hoping that the sexual extravagansa she is planning may lead to a "sex positive revolution."
She said: "I’m not sure what will happen, but I just know I want to be part of something I consider historically monumental to the sex positive community. For the most part, our community is hidden, no one wants to be ‘outed’ to other people as someone who attends these events, so it can be very isolating. I hope our huge event can change that and we can lead a sex positive revolution."
Can't fucking believe this shit. Look at the cuck face of her boyfriend. THAT'S LITERALLY THE MEME PORTRAIT OF A FUCKING CUCK
How do people have the guts to do this is beyond fucking any comprehension I have.