Blackpill Telling men that being "pleasant", "nice" and "polite" is the way to get girls

[Nordicel94]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

 

[copemaxx9002]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

It really doesn't matter how u behave just be NT and good looking

 

[BeatleJuiceFanboy10]

It really doesn't matter how u behave just be NT and good looking

Honestly NT doesn’t even matter that much. If ur a legit 8/10 and 2m what u say or do wouldnt even matter a little bit.

 

[Moroccancel]

It's control of the male populations disposition.

Water.

Control and gaslight the fury of men who do not understand that they are disposable. Difficult to understand among so much information, but in the end "you're not entitled sex", "you're not entitled to be loved" both represent a declaration of failure.

 

[Moroccancel]

Honestly NT doesn’t even matter that much. If ur a legit 8/10 and 2m what u say or do wouldnt even matter a little bit.

NTcopers just wanna cope.

 

[BeatleJuiceFanboy10]

NTcopers just wanna cope.

I could understand if they were a white MTN with average height that NT makes a difference. But for sub 5’s and chads really not.

 

[Moroccancel]

I could understand if they were a white MTN with average height that NT makes a difference. But for sub 5’s and chads really not.

It is just jestermaxxing.

Think carefully with me. Collective stupidity is called "neurotypicality." This absurd behavior, empty conversations and lack of depth. The difference is made by a series of characteristics that are generally innate and that many people call "personality"; such as the way of speaking (generally by the tone of voice), the way of articulating their arms and gestures...;

It's an eternal battle of mogging. And jestermaxxing is just the supreme cope.

 

[BeatleJuiceFanboy10]

It is just jestermaxxing.

Think carefully with me. Collective stupidity is called "neurotypicality." This absurd behavior, empty conversations and lack of depth. The difference is made by a series of characteristics that are generally innate and that many people call "personality"; such as the way of speaking (generally by the tone of voice), the way of articulating their arms and gestures...;

It's an eternal battle of mogging. And jestermaxxing is just the supreme cope.

Good point, a deep voice with a relaxed mannerism and tall height. Could probably cover for the lacking aspects caused by non-NT. But if someone doesnt have all the things listed at first. The lack of conversation skills becomes really apparent.

 

[LGBTKoala]

Honestly NT doesn’t even matter that much. If ur a legit 8/10 and 2m what u say or do wouldnt even matter a little bit.

 

[faded]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

hava nagila

 

[Serious]

So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all

So do women have sex with people just because they are nice?
I guess the answer from women would be like:

"You silly incel, we are not machines that you put coin of niceness in and sex out."

But all she had to say was: no, we dont sleep with men because they are nice.

So conclusion is very simple : being nice doesnt help in getting sex.

 

[Moroccancel]

So conclusion is very simple : being nice doesnt help in getting sex.

Birds fly.

 

[NeverGetUp]

Water is wet but good thread as always. I agree with you

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

for centuries foids didn't have much sexual choice, so males could actually get a partner simply because other males (and her father) respected them

so in a way it's just modern culture trying to pretend that society is still functional, when irl it's quite different

 

[Freixel]

Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies.

 

[splintterCELman]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

Women don't know what they want so they do their best, which is bad. Single mothers raise either castrated cattle or borderline antisocial people who can't handle the world and become criminals etc.. Families with father figures are better off but not perfect. I don't even remember what my original point is/was, this just collapsed into a meaningless rant. I'm sorry.

 

[ethniccel1]

Been pleasant and nice should be basic manners, ovER for anyone who behaves like a wild chimpanzee , even if you a thug you can still have basic manners.

Do they mean "pleasant and nice" in trying to flirt with girls? What exactly do they mean?

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Anything works when you're good looking. Nothing works when you're ugly.

 

[SocialOutkast95]

It doesn't really matter how you act / behave, the halo / failo effect takes form and overtakes the slightest little trivial thing you do or say. You can be nice all you want, but because you don't look like a Super Saiyan Trunks or Michael B. Jordan's Creed, you're looked at as, either weak asf or an asshole inkwell.

Nuff said.

 

[Gott _mit _uns94]

for centuries foids didn't have much sexual choice, so males could actually get a partner simply because other males (and her father) respected them

so in a way it's just modern culture trying to pretend that society is still functional, when irl it's quite different

This

 

[Therapywasawaste]

The lack of conversation skills becomes really apparent.

If you're above mid tier normie, the foid will guid the conversation and try to make it easy to talk to her.

 

[BeatleJuiceFanboy10]

If you're above mid tier normie, the foid will guid the conversation and try to make it easy to talk to her.

Definitely, being non-NT only is a dealbreaker for MTN and maybe short HTN and chadlite. For chads and sub5s it is already set in stone

 

[Kanye's Cousin]

Very good post, op

 

[GloriousFight]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

All facts

our parents taught us to be "nice" because they wanted a docile and obedient kid that doesn't add any stress to their lives and/or they wanted to show us off to their peers as the "good kid". It wasn't because they thought these skills were actually important in life, especially for men, they just wanted something easy

 

[tanfeo]

Being nice and obedient are not the same things.
If I have interactions with others (and that is not often) I like to be polite to people. Just because everyone is fighting their own battles and we have no idea.
I may hate some normies or foids that behave in a certain way, but I refuse to be dragged down to their level. I learned that I can't give society a weapon they can use against me.
So, be polite. I'd certainly like to be treated politely. If people have problems, I even try to be nice. To world today is a horrible place already.

On the other hand, obedience only if that keeps me out of jail. For the rest, I don't let society dictate the rules of my life. I don't follow trends, I do not support trannie stuff or DEI copers.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

Its funny how i was never told that directly, i just assumed that you just had to be nice and respectful to girls was how to get a gf and that things like looks or nt brain don't matter.

I wasn't told how to talk to girls by anyone, parents didn't talk to me about it and my female guardian just brushed off any signs of me wanting a gf

 

[darkdoomer]

was never meant as actual advice from our culture. For centuries now, the opposite qualities have shown to be more successful. Telling boys to be pleasant is basically a way of castrating them and making them fall in line. It's control of the male populations disposition. Society knows that if boys aren't pummelled with the idea that being nice will get them girls from preschool, a lot more men would go down a dark triad path, and that's not good for society obviously. Society's job is to keep the large swathe of generally unattractive men as mindless workers and providers, it doesn't care if these men even procreate, as long as they don't cause any trouble. Remember that when men band together, even if it's only a few hundred, they can start revolutions and topple societies. So basically, when a woman tells you to be nice to attract a girl, she's just a mouthpiece of society, and she's not really giving you advice on dating at all, she's trying to dissuade you from shaking things up and telling you to stay in your lane. She is defenseless if young men start deviating from the golden rule of being "nice".

But now we have porn and microplastics to pacify them instead

 

[Enigmaz]

They want chivalry but only the part that benefits foids. If you're brainlessly being polite and nice to foids, i'm afraid it's too late for you.

 

[La Grande Kanga]

It doesn’t really matter how you act. She’s not going to want to have anything to do with you, you’re sub-chad.

 

[Rationalizer1999]

After social media, the problem (and the main reason for us to be here) is the subnormal amount of attributes needed to get a relationship. This forum's existence is caused by this fact, and the truth is that nothing matters anymore, both the good goyim false promise and this supposedly sophisticated "narrative arrangement for social control" too.