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Tell me both good and bad daily life experiences, and i'll tell you your real rating

Zyros

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Your general quality of life (good vs bad daily experiences) is a direct result of your looks level. tell me your good vs bad experiences and ill try to guess your looks rating.

Ill start with myself as an example both when I was 4/10 and with my current 6/10 rating.

4/10
Good experiences
-The few friends I had were true friends.
-Girls didn't outright hate me, and some were really friends (in a platonic way, obviosuly)
-Some people counted me in for parties
-with enough effort, able to partially overcome initial bad impressions

Bad experiences
-bullied sistematically
-always the least respected member of any social group
-intimate contat nowhere to be seen
-labelled weirdo nerd because of interests/hobbies
-called out when wearing trendy brands or haircuts because "I just was trying to copy the cool guys"
-labelled school shooter when not wearing those trendy brands or haircuts.
-mocked because my main musical isntrument is accordion "lol like the circus clowns and gypsies"
-assumed to have low iq
-labelled creep because of some not even bad fetish

6/10
Good experiences
-much easier to make friends
-always respected by default
-intimate advances now done by girls
-labelled interesting/deep/unique/mysterious because of the same interests/hobbies
-people liking my style even tho i now dress objectively like a weirdo
-when people learn I play accordion, now I am "talented" because of how difficult it seems
-assumed to have very high iq
-girls don't care about me still not living alone (not that i'm neet, but what I am building still doesnt earn me enough to fully sustain myself) while being 30 year old
-50% of the times I go out at night, some stranger (male or female) buys me a drink without asking
-no more creep shaming. Dated a 16 year old while being 29 and people didn't give two shits

Bad experiences
-still get called out if I do sperg things like getting extremely drunk and breaking things, or talking uninteligible shit to random people. Forgiven fast tho
-still get called out by girls if I insult a friend of a her (once one girl wrongly thought that I insulted her guy friend and she told me to stop mistreating him)
-enough looks for other guys to consider me a menace, but not enough for them to move on: this results in guys talking shit about me to girls behind my back, or guys trying to confront/dominate me physically specially when there are girls present because I am not big
-being approached is not something that happens everyday I go out
-people still lose interest if i'm too passive for a long time if they try to get to be near me
-people (girls) still lose interest if they learn about my incel past (big mistake here)

So, since a truly good looking guy would not have "bad experiences" and would get away with anything without ever being called out, my looks rating is a 6/10.


Post your life experiences, good and bad, and i'll probably be able to guess your true looks rating.
 
Experiences in life best determine your level of attractiveness
 
My daily experiences:

POSITIVE
- Chilling alone in my room
- Good food

NEGATIVE
- Being mogged by every male that passes me
- No friends
- Being clumsy and awkward
- No female interest
 
42cel said:
My daily experiences:

POSITIVE
- Chilling alone in my room
- Good food

NEGATIVE
- Being mogged by every male that passes me
- No friends
- Being clumsy and awkward
- No female interest

I meant good or bad experiences subjected to looks influence (halo/failo effect), not that you like to get food or chill, or that you are clumsy LOL
 
Zyros said:
I meant good or bad experiences subjected to looks influence (halo/failo effect), not that you like to get food or chill, or that you are clumsy LOL

I know. But I didn't have anything positive in that respect and just wanted to make a shitpost in a Zyros thread once in my life (add that to the positive experiences)
 
Zyros said:
I meant good or bad experiences subjected to looks influence (halo/failo effect), not that you like to get food or chill, or that you are clumsy LOL

Clumsy is part of your overall looks. Girls love swag and good dancers, those things can't be learnt by some ppl including myself. I was once told I moved like robocop by a girl.
 
FeminismsCancer said:
Clumsy is part of your overall looks. Girls love swag and good dancers, those things can't be learnt by some ppl including myself. I was once told I moved like robocop by a girl.

If you are clumsy and good looking, it becomes a funny and quirky trait of you, and girls will try to dance with you even more to "make you feel confortable and be less rigid".
 
Tellem--T said:
Experiences in life best determine your level of attractiveness

masculine, tall, athletic average dudes will have good experiences and people will be "respectful" but women won't ever touch them
 
Good:
Have a few TRUE friends who I trust with my life
No one ever disrespects me
Girls act nice to me, but then again, the only interaction with girls that I have is when it's mandatory like for a project or something
Guys act nice and respectful to me, only reason why I only have a few friends is because I'm not NT. I have no idea how to keep conversations going, I can keep one going for a long time, but it's really, really hard work. My brain just gets fucking fried after a while.

Bad:
Virgin
actually crippling social anxiety (i can barely even go to the grocery store, feel like everyone is watching my every move)
insanely high inhibition, although that strongly correlates with the thing above


can't think of much bad things really, mostly im just invisible.
 
mylifeistrash said:
masculine, tall, athletic average dudes will have good experiences and people will be "respectful" but women won't ever touch them

Yep that's why I belong here
 
I was definitely a 4/10 growing up my early youth and that description fitted me to a tee. It was spot, so spot on that I bet that was your experience growing up, too.
 
you will never be able to guess my looks rating without looking at my post history.

with glasses and acne:
bullied ages 6-18. no friends, enough time to be top tier in world of warcraft and starcraft 2. banned from league of legends for rage issues. destroyed my properties up to 3 times, almost killed myself 2 times. sent to the mental hospital. drugged by doctors to stop me from destroying more stuff. someone challenged me to shave my hair for 50 euros, i said sure. and a girl said: "dont do that you will look even uglier - oh wait, thats impossible". got called "the ugliest person in the world" the first time i went to a school party age 15 and people agreed with the drunk guy who said it. sent valentines card on valentines day in class and got laughed at.
bonus suicide fuel: we made a picture with people from my class and i was standing next to a girl and she said: "hes my boyfriend now - actually EWWWW lets hope that NEVER happens hahahaha"

after 5 years gym and eye surgery and accutane:
- no friends
- 50+ approaches that failed
- people who work with me in group projects tend to get annoyed at me
- a roastie kissed me when she was blackout drunk at a club
- when i almost died at the hospital due to burst appendix nobody sent me a message for 15 days while i was in coma and checked my phone when i came out of it
- when i tell my near death experience people get bored and dont realize how severe it was when i talk about it
 
Good: nothing

Bad: women on the street put their head when walking past me to avoid eye contact

No friends

Bullied heavily throughout middle school - early highschool.

Complete loner from late highschool till now.

Only contacts I have in my phone are family members and work friends.

Never been on a date.
 
This is going to be interesting. I won't tell you my rating, but chances are, you have seen me mentioning it frequently around here. Let's start. I'm going to focus on my high school experience.

Good: 

- I was well-liked by most kids, both girls and boys

- I got invited to a few parties, both girls and boys

- I was told I was funny, kids would laugh WITH me, and not at me 


Bad experiences 

- Brutally mogged by everyone facially

- I was disliked by a handful of people for seemingly no reason, one of them was a below average femoid 

- I got teased because of one of my ogre-tier facial feature, only by boys though 

- One of my friends was a higher-tier Chadlite, my crush liked him romantically but he never pursued anything 

- Never had a girl being interested in me romantically
 
Positive :
-I can chill alone in my room without having someone bother me
Negative :
-I have to LOOK for new friends as no one wants to befriend me themselves
-I have to GAIN attention one way or another
-I have to be very careful with what I say with IRL friends as my words always seem to lead to bad consequences for some reason, even if it’s only slightly offensive (sometimes i even have to be careful with swearing although my friends swear all the time)
-Sexually and physically invisible to femoids. If I don’t go up and face them and talk to them, they wouldn’t acknowledge my existence (had a femoid ignore me one time when I was calling her from the opposite street even though we were only 6 meters apart and her excuse was that she didn’t hear me)
-Got rejected at every approach (have done nearly 90 approaches IRL)
-I only have one TRUE friend who’s an autistic Chad, he’s forced to be with me as my family and his are friends themselves so we’re basically like brothers.
-I get relied on to do shit that my friends can’t be arsed to do.
 
whogivesafucc said:
Good:
Have a few TRUE friends who I trust with my life
No one ever disrespects me
Girls act nice to me, but then again, the only interaction with girls that I have is when it's mandatory like for a project or something
Guys act nice and respectful to me, only reason why I only have a few friends is because I'm not NT. I have no idea how to keep conversations going, I can keep one going for a long time, but it's really, really hard work. My brain just gets fucking fried after a while.

Bad:
Virgin
actually crippling social anxiety (i can barely even go to the grocery store, feel like everyone is watching my every move)
insanely high inhibition, although that strongly correlates with the thing above


can't think of much bad things really, mostly im just invisible.

5.25/10


ghostcell said:
you will never be able to guess my looks rating without looking at my post history.

with glasses and acne:
bullied ages 6-18. no friends, enough time to be top tier in world of warcraft and starcraft 2. banned from league of legends for rage issues. destroyed my properties up to 3 times, almost killed myself 2 times. sent to the mental hospital. drugged by doctors to stop me from destroying more stuff. someone challenged me to shave my hair for 50 euros, i said sure. and a girl said: "dont do that you will look even uglier - oh wait, thats impossible". got called "the ugliest person in the world" the first time i went to a school party age 15 and people agreed with the drunk guy who said it. sent valentines card on valentines day in class and got laughed at.
bonus suicide fuel: we made a picture with people from my class and i was standing next to a girl and she said: "hes my boyfriend now - actually EWWWW lets hope that NEVER happens hahahaha"

after 5 years gym and eye surgery and accutane:
- no friends
- 50+ approaches that failed
- people who work with me in group projects tend to get annoyed at me
- a roastie kissed me when she was blackout drunk at a club
- when i almost died at the hospital due to burst appendix nobody sent me a message for 15 days while i was in coma and checked my phone when i came out of it
- when i tell my near death experience people get bored and dont realize how severe it was when i talk about it

3.75-4/10
 
Zyros said:
whogivesafucc said:
Good:
Have a few TRUE friends who I trust with my life
No one ever disrespects me
Girls act nice to me, but then again, the only interaction with girls that I have is when it's mandatory like for a project or something
Guys act nice and respectful to me, only reason why I only have a few friends is because I'm not NT. I have no idea how to keep conversations going, I can keep one going for a long time, but it's really, really hard work. My brain just gets fucking fried after a while.
Bad:
Virgin
actually crippling social anxiety (i can barely even go to the grocery store, feel like everyone is watching my every move)
insanely high inhibition, although that strongly correlates with the thing above
can't think of much bad things really, mostly im just invisible.
5.25/10

That's exactly what I was rated by a guy on this site. Are you fucking psychic, bro?
 
Captvic said:
Good: nothing

Bad: women on the street put their head when walking past me to avoid eye contact

No friends

Bullied heavily throughout middle school - early highschool.

Complete loner from late highschool till now.

Only contacts I have in my phone are family members and work friends.

Never been on a date.

3.5/10 but low amount of info


RREEEEEEEEE said:
This is going to be interesting. I won't tell you my rating, but chances are, you have seen me mentioning it frequently around here. Let's start. I'm going to focus on my high school experience.

Good: 

- I was well-liked by most kids, both girls and boys

- I got invited to a few parties, both girls and boys

- I was told I was funny, kids would laugh WITH me, and not at me 


Bad experiences 

- Brutally mogged by everyone facially

- I was disliked by a handful of people for seemingly no reason, one of them was a below average femoid 

- I got teased because of one of my ogre-tier facial feature, only by boys though 

- One of my friends was a higher-tier Chadlite, my crush liked him romantically but he never pursued anything 

- Never had a girl being interested in me romantically

5-5.5/10 based on that info.
 
Octopusgun2 said:
Negative :
-I have to LOOK for new friends as no one wants to befriend me themselves
-I have to GAIN attention one way or another

Fuck this hit me hard. It ALWAYS feels like I'm the one making all the effort...If I just sat there NO ONE would ever come talk to me srsly.
 
Tellem--T said:
mylifeistrash said:
masculine, tall, athletic average dudes will have good experiences and people will be "respectful" but women won't ever touch them
Yep that's why I belong here

life isn't a shitty high school stereotype. "bullying" is rare. most incels will get just get ignored.
 
Octopusgun2 said:
Positive :
-I can chill alone in my room without having someone bother me
Negative :
-I have to LOOK for new friends as no one wants to befriend me themselves
-I have to GAIN attention one way or another
-I have to be very careful with what I say with IRL friends as my words always seem to lead to bad consequences for some reason, even if it’s only slightly offensive (sometimes i even have to be careful with swearing although my friends swear all the time)
-Sexually and physically invisible to femoids. If I don’t go up and face them and talk to them, they wouldn’t acknowledge my existence (had a femoid ignore me one time when I was calling her from the opposite street even though we were only 6 meters apart and her excuse was that she didn’t hear me)
-Got rejected at every approach (have done nearly 90 approaches IRL)
-I only have one TRUE friend who’s an autistic Chad, he’s forced to be with me as my family and his are friends themselves so we’re basically like brothers.
-I get relied on to do shit that my friends can’t be arsed to do.

3.75/10 

But your case will improve dramatically after the jaw surgeries
 
u dont really need experiences, u just need to take into consideration 2 factors: if u have had girlsfriend, if u have had loyal friends, thats pretty much it
 
dr-problematic said:
u dont really need experiences, u just need to take into consideration 2 factors: if u have had girlsfriend, if u have had loyal friends, thats pretty much it

No, there are much much more things to take into consideration when assessing how looks impact your life. Any incel can gain one loyal friend. Any low tier normie can have a girlfriend.
 
Zyros said:
5.25/10



3.75-4/10



sent you pic. you can be the judge. this is after i got a haircut last week, got rated 5-6 out of 10 by them which i believe to be fair.
my life experiences are so ridiculously retarded, i dont believe anyone with my looks rating will have experienced retarded shit on the same level.

my height, acne and glasses completely fucked me over for all those years.
 
Zyros said:
No, there are much much more things to take into consideration when assessing how looks impact your life. Any incel can gain one loyal friend. Any low tier normie can have a girlfriend.

exactly, if u have only 1 friend u r subhuman, all good looking people have billions of contancts and at least 10-20 reliable people who are willing to help out including females.

and if u had a girlfriend (depending on the case tho obviously) it already means u arent 3/10 (except for severe cases)
 
ghostcell said:
sent you pic. you can be the judge. this is after i got a haircut last week, got rated 5-6 out of 10 by them which i believe to be fair.
my life experiences are so ridiculously retarded, i dont believe anyone with my looks rating will have experienced retarded shit on the same level.

my height, acne and glasses completely fucked me over for all those years.

Your life experiences don't correlate with your looks. You are 5.5/10 easy 6 if you define a bit more your face by leaning. Did you look worse when all you stated happened to you? Unless you live in some place in which being Chad is the norm, your life experience correlates more with the first rating I gave you.
 
Positive

I have a very closet set of friends during school, we will put our figths but at less they were stickied to me, the more continuous were two friends at once
Teachers don't outrigth hated me

Negative

Females don't see me an the same level as others, when i join one conversation i have not problems communicating with other males but somehow i have to call the attention directly of x roastie to even look at me in the eye(Just to usually get 1 word answers)
Outrigth bullied non-stop
The only femails i can call "friends" all my life have the same range age(6-10)(This started when i was 14)
I can count my fingers the numbers of times femoids have been friendly to me and not dismissive/bitchy(if we don't count 50 years and more ladies)
Always default low status don't matter where i go
 
Zyros said:
Your life experiences don't correlate with your looks. You are 5.5/10 easy 6 if you define a bit more your face by leaning. Did you look worse when all you stated happened to you? Unless you live in some place in which being Chad is the norm, your life experience correlates more with the first rating I gave you.

where i live all throughout highschool i was considered ugly. so my location might have something to do with it.

in elementary school i had a genetic problem which caused me to have nosebleeds very often, asthma, and glasses, which i think is why i was bullied there. in addition i was one of the only white kids in a ethnic school. i dont think i was that ugly as a kid though.

in high school i had full blown pizza face and extremely thick glasses, plus i was 6 foot 7 at age 14 and severely underweight.  i think i could have been 4/10 back then.  i still think my experiences are completely ridiculous looking back. 

do u have any tips for looksmaxing for me? next year i will graduate from uni and want to make a new start somewhere. i hope i can go to asia and beta bucks but if im unlucky i will have to stay somewhere in europe so i need to improve myself if i want to stand any chance.
 
Octopusgun2 said:
Positive :
-I can chill alone in my room without having someone bother me
Negative :
-I have to LOOK for new friends as no one wants to befriend me themselves
-I have to GAIN attention one way or another
-I have to be very careful with what I say with IRL friends as my words always seem to lead to bad consequences for some reason, even if it’s only slightly offensive (sometimes i even have to be careful with swearing although my friends swear all the time)
-Sexually and physically invisible to femoids. If I don’t go up and face them and talk to them, they wouldn’t acknowledge my existence (had a femoid ignore me one time when I was calling her from the opposite street even though we were only 6 meters apart and her excuse was that she didn’t hear me)
-Got rejected at every approach (have done nearly 90 approaches IRL)
-I only have one TRUE friend who’s an autistic Chad, he’s forced to be with me as my family and his are friends themselves so we’re basically like brothers.
-I get relied on to do shit that my friends can’t be arsed to do.

A solid 3.5 imo.
 
dr-problematic said:
exactly, if u have only 1 friend u r subhuman, all good looking people have billions of contancts and at least 10-20 reliable people who are willing to help out including females.

and if u had a girlfriend (depending on the case tho obviously) it already means u arent 3/10 (except for severe cases)

I didn't mean only having 1 friend. And also If you had a girlfriend it just means that you are 4+/10 but there is a lot of range between 4/10 and 9/10.
 
Zyros said:
5-5.5/10 based on that info.

Actually, not bad. I would have been a 5/10 if I hadn't injured my face. I'm actually a 2/10 because of my ogre-tier facial feature (nose).
 
https://i.imgur.com/bcHmwTC_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=medium
 
Good experiences
-never been a gay vampire
-never been a fart nigga

Bad experiences
-I'm an ugly cunt
 
Richard spencer said:
Good experiences
-never been a gay vampire
-never been a fart nigga

Bad experiences
-I'm an ugly cunt

loool
 
Good
- When I was at school the popular guys were cool with me
- Overheard rumours about girls who had crush me
- Had some good friend who hung out with me dispise being quiet introverted as shit
- People assumed I was quiet because I was intelligent as shit


Bad
- Felt I was liked but never respected
- Have never been called attractive or outright approached
- Had some randoms hate on me for no reason

Life experience limited because of isolation and LDAR lifestyle
 

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