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Serious Talking to females over text

Sir Silentium

Sir Silentium

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I don't have my face as my pfp or under any other displays on social media so there is no possibility that anyone can identify what I look like. As soon as a show my face it ruins the whole thing.

I was texting a female for about 4 months, daily. She wasn't really texting first but she was engaging and replying with the same amount of effort as I was typing. She brang up about adding her on snap and I declined a few times. It got to the point where I didn't really have an option without sounding like a looser. I ended up adding her and she sends a fantastic photo, 9/10. I knew that this would be my only chance to make a good impression physically; I went in the pool, kept my hair wet, went into the sun with no shadows or overcast and spent a few very narcissistic minutes trying to make my photo look the best I could. I ended up with a absolutely frauded photo but who cares, I then sent it.

I she didn't unadd me. Just since then, over the course of a few days, it all feel off dramatically. Since the picture she stopped engaging and only replied with 1 - 5 words. I knew this was my only chance I may ever have with someone I would willingly go with, so I kept texting, until it eventually faded. This all occurred a few months ago.



More recently, I was talking to a female for a week or so. I then sent her a face picture of who I am and got an instant unadd.





In the future I will try and meet them in person and never send any camera distorted pictures. The only thing is, they will be reluctant to see you in person if they don't know what you look like, and there is a great possibility that they may leave you in the dust, in public.

Any advice?
 
No point to talk using text. While you are doing that she is speaking to 50 other niggers who all look better than you.
 
many such cases
 
No point to talk using text. While you are doing that she is speaking to 50 other niggers who all look better than you.
I can't speak in real life because I can't put together sentences correctly, I am working on it but with my Apserger's it is a challenge. Texting provides the time I need to compose sentences. Unless I try and Jestermax with females, which would never work anyway.
 
I can't speak in real life because I can't put together sentences correctly, I am working on it but with my Apserger's it is a challenge. Texting provides the time I need to compose sentences. Unless I try and Jestermax with females, which would never work anyway.
How do u even find these foid to text.

I haven’t done that shit in 3 years.
 
Brootal. This has happened to me so many times and it hurts every time.
 
Search on instagram. You can pretty much hand pick then.
How? Do you just find a foid that you like and send her a random message? What do you write? Bold for someone who claims to have Asperger's. I want to try it too.
 
How? Do you just find a foid that you like and send her a random message? What do you write? Bold for someone who claims to have Asperger's. I want to try it too.
I just keep what I am saying consistent, otherwise it leads to mistakes.

Start of saying Hey how's it going.
Then whatever she says next, try and lean the conversation in favour of her. Try and ask her about her posts or whatever it is.
If she never asks you the same questions back, stop talking to her.
If she asks about yourself kind of try and fraud your social status, and really focus on your positives.
 
I just keep what I am saying consistent, otherwise it leads to mistakes.

Start of saying Hey how's it going.
Then whatever she says next, try and lean the conversation in favour of her. Try and ask her about her posts or whatever it is.
If she never asks you the same questions back, stop talking to her.
If she asks about yourself kind of try and fraud your social status, and really focus on your positives.
I was too high-inhib to think of that. And too autistic to succeed (because I did try one time years ago, but I said something weird and she didn't even respond). But are they girls that you know in real life, or friends of friends from your city, or total strangers?

I am so fucking retarded, fuck. Even if I was a Gigachad and girls started texting me themselves because of my looks, I am sure that I would still scare them away.
 
Fucking fakecels galore
 
No point in texting foids if it doesn't lead to real life encounters.

Chad can just texts "hey" and they fuck at his place the same night.
 
No point in texting foids if it doesn't lead to real life encounters.

Chad can just texts "hey" and they fuck at his place the same night.
I can lead to real life encounters. It just hasn't occurred yet. Even if it just a one time interaction it is progress.
 
Mogs me for engaging in correspondence with a female.
 
No point to talk using text. While you are doing that she is speaking to 50 other niggers who all look better than you.
This. You're wasting your time unless she finds you physically attractive.
 
This. You're wasting your time unless she finds you physically attractive.
That's why I have been really trying to improve how I look recently. Just really doing everything I can to reach a normal status.
 
Happened to me. Was chatting online daily with a gorgeous Indian girl that lived in Canada. We talked for months. I’m sure you can guess what happened when I showed her my pic.
 
boggles are fucking mind that dudes would be reading blackpill studies, watch bp content, know about lookism , the current dating market , hoeinflation , and STILL be texting girls in the big 25'

No point to talk using text. While you are doing that she is speaking to 50 other niggers who all look better than you.

literally a waste of time and you cant convince me otherwise.
 
I challenge IT cucks to post it on their stupid sub but I know you are a bunch of pussies.
 
Happened to me. Was chatting online daily with a gorgeous Indian girl that lived in Canada. We talked for months. I’m sure you can guess what happened when I showed her my pic.
Wow, I would have guessed Indian girls would have been more lenient. Harsh.
 
boggles are fucking mind that dudes would be reading blackpill studies, watch bp content, know about lookism , the current dating market , hoeinflation , and STILL be texting girls in the big 25'



literally a waste of time and you cant convince me otherwise.
I believe in miracles.
 
I don't have my face as my pfp or under any other displays on social media so there is no possibility that anyone can identify what I look like. As soon as a show my face it ruins the whole thing.

I was texting a female for about 4 months, daily. She wasn't really texting first but she was engaging and replying with the same amount of effort as I was typing. She brang up about adding her on snap and I declined a few times. It got to the point where I didn't really have an option without sounding like a looser. I ended up adding her and she sends a fantastic photo, 9/10. I knew that this would be my only chance to make a good impression physically; I went in the pool, kept my hair wet, went into the sun with no shadows or overcast and spent a few very narcissistic minutes trying to make my photo look the best I could. I ended up with a absolutely frauded photo but who cares, I then sent it.

I she didn't unadd me. Just since then, over the course of a few days, it all feel off dramatically. Since the picture she stopped engaging and only replied with 1 - 5 words. I knew this was my only chance I may ever have with someone I would willingly go with, so I kept texting, until it eventually faded. This all occurred a few months ago.



More recently, I was talking to a female for a week or so. I then sent her a face picture of who I am and got an instant unadd.





In the future I will try and meet them in person and never send any camera distorted pictures. The only thing is, they will be reluctant to see you in person if they don't know what you look like, and there is a great possibility that they may leave you in the dust, in public.

Any advice?
Ive gotten rejected because of my appearance as well, but I think if youre going to keep trying its best to talk a bit and get the face reveal out of the way sooner so that you dont get hurt as bad. Foids are ruthless.
 
Ive gotten rejected because of my appearance as well, but I think if youre going to keep trying its best to talk a bit and get the face reveal out of the way sooner so that you dont get hurt as bad. Foids are ruthless.
The thing is, it will never work for good looking girls on instagram because it is too rare they settle for less. I tried on snapchat but all the girls were around 13 - 14ish. And no way in the world I am approaching in real life, I can't even ask the waiter for water without turning into a blabbering mess.
 
I am working on that though
 

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