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Hon gjorde två aborter – för att få en dotter: ”Det var rätt”
Förbjudet att fritt välja kön i Sverige • Flera vittnar om abort i slutna grupper
- It was right. I knew I wouldn't be whole otherwise, says Sofia.
She is one of several women who have had an abortion - to have a child of a specific gender.
- It was a boy and my whole world fell apart.
She and her husband had decided to terminate the pregnancy if it was a boy, which she did. Sofia's dream of a daughter was so strong that it took over everything else.
In total, Sofia had two abortions before she and her husband went abroad to select the gender with IVF treatment, which is not allowed in Sweden, except in exceptional cases.
And Sofia is not alone. In closed Facebook groups about gender selection, several women testify about how they terminated pregnancies when they were expecting boys.
"Unfortunately, I got the answer at the beginning of the week that it was a boy (I've had two before). Even before the answer came, my partner and I agreed that we would have an abortion if that was the case. So today I had a surgical abortion, I was in week 12+0. I have such a bad conscience towards the little baby in my stomach..."
"I'm not good at lying either, but I had an abortion because I was expecting a boy and called it a miscarriage to those around me."
"I had an abortion for the same reason as you... However, it is so tough and in retrospect I can still feel anxiety towards the fetus." - are examples of posts written in the Facebook group.





