So, this summer I've been outside a lot. And using some meds / alcohol I've been able to lower my inhibitions enough to be able to start conversations with strangers very easily. This enabled me to talk with maybe 50-100 women? I've lost the count now. Usually I talk them up at outdoor events, bars, clubs, rarely in public places like shops or parks.
So, I'd say all in all it has been a big disappointment. Main reason being, all of them simply show zero interest. There's a pattern to it and it goes something like this: I say something, then she gives fake polite smile and answers. Doesn't ask anything back. So I keep pushing and I get short answers, eye contact avoidance, looking away or being on their phone, no signs of positive body language. I try to make some jokes, I get fake laughs, then I push a bit more and leave before it gets awkward. And here's the funny part. When I have the same kind of conversations with guys they actually go well, the conversation goes both ways and is interesting and a few times I've even exchanged information with a few of them (whatsapp, instagram, etc.). So it goes to show, the chance of success of this does not depend on how good of a conversationalist you are, but whether you are Chad or Subhuman.
On a positive note, after doing all these approaches / talks I have learned which places / situations are optimal for this kind of game. So if anyone is willing to try this himself, here is a brief summary of where to go / not to go:
Parks: yes you will find many women there, but most of them are in a group, the ones that are alone are usually with headphones / sunglasses and sit far away from other people. Furthermore all of them are sober, making them even more averse to strangers. Starting a conversation there is possible, but difficult.
Plazas / squares: a bit like parks, but much more difficult, you will almost never find alone women sitting there and if you do they are either very old or lowlifes / drunks.
Malls / big stores: Here it's a bit easier to start a conversation, but harder to keep it going, because people want to buy their shit and go away. But, regardless it is way less creepy to start a conversation there. A very easy tactic is to start a conversation about a certain item on the shelf that's infront of you / her.
Tourist attractions: Here it's even easier. Tourists are always more open to talking to strangers, so all you need to do is go next to one (even if not alone is OK) and talk about the attraction they are looking at.
Outdoor workout place I kept this one as a joke, because I've been going to one such place for 2 months and that entire time I saw maybe 2 women there.
Clubs / bars: Once people are dancing and drunk it's extremely easy to talk them up. The issue is, due to the very loud music the conversations are very short. If you are a chad you don't even need to talk actually. Drunk girls very often jump on / make out with chads without asking in such places. Probably not the best place for subhumans / non-NT's.
Outdoor events, for example mini festivals / outdoor music: This one I like. People usually stand in groups looking at the stage. All you need to do is stand next to a girl whether she's in a group or not and start talking when the opportunity arrives. The music is less loud than in clubs, but a lot of the girls are drunk, these two factors make it quite easy to have conversations. Furthermore there are often benches / tables where people sit, so there you can try as well. Finally, from talking to some couples I was informed that several of them had actually met at such an event. So if I had to pick a favorite out of the list it would be this one.
So, I'd say all in all it has been a big disappointment. Main reason being, all of them simply show zero interest. There's a pattern to it and it goes something like this: I say something, then she gives fake polite smile and answers. Doesn't ask anything back. So I keep pushing and I get short answers, eye contact avoidance, looking away or being on their phone, no signs of positive body language. I try to make some jokes, I get fake laughs, then I push a bit more and leave before it gets awkward. And here's the funny part. When I have the same kind of conversations with guys they actually go well, the conversation goes both ways and is interesting and a few times I've even exchanged information with a few of them (whatsapp, instagram, etc.). So it goes to show, the chance of success of this does not depend on how good of a conversationalist you are, but whether you are Chad or Subhuman.
On a positive note, after doing all these approaches / talks I have learned which places / situations are optimal for this kind of game. So if anyone is willing to try this himself, here is a brief summary of where to go / not to go:
Parks: yes you will find many women there, but most of them are in a group, the ones that are alone are usually with headphones / sunglasses and sit far away from other people. Furthermore all of them are sober, making them even more averse to strangers. Starting a conversation there is possible, but difficult.
Plazas / squares: a bit like parks, but much more difficult, you will almost never find alone women sitting there and if you do they are either very old or lowlifes / drunks.
Malls / big stores: Here it's a bit easier to start a conversation, but harder to keep it going, because people want to buy their shit and go away. But, regardless it is way less creepy to start a conversation there. A very easy tactic is to start a conversation about a certain item on the shelf that's infront of you / her.
Tourist attractions: Here it's even easier. Tourists are always more open to talking to strangers, so all you need to do is go next to one (even if not alone is OK) and talk about the attraction they are looking at.
Outdoor workout place I kept this one as a joke, because I've been going to one such place for 2 months and that entire time I saw maybe 2 women there.
Clubs / bars: Once people are dancing and drunk it's extremely easy to talk them up. The issue is, due to the very loud music the conversations are very short. If you are a chad you don't even need to talk actually. Drunk girls very often jump on / make out with chads without asking in such places. Probably not the best place for subhumans / non-NT's.
Outdoor events, for example mini festivals / outdoor music: This one I like. People usually stand in groups looking at the stage. All you need to do is stand next to a girl whether she's in a group or not and start talking when the opportunity arrives. The music is less loud than in clubs, but a lot of the girls are drunk, these two factors make it quite easy to have conversations. Furthermore there are often benches / tables where people sit, so there you can try as well. Finally, from talking to some couples I was informed that several of them had actually met at such an event. So if I had to pick a favorite out of the list it would be this one.
