Bolded highlights for those too lazy to read the whole thing. This is an excerpt from Michelle Langley's book called Women's Infidelity and she is lecturing a man who is having issues with his wife.
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She might discover that the guy has a small penis and decide to pass on intercourse. It just may not be worth the miles [on her depreciating vagina].
What, are you kidding me? A woman might decide not to sleep with a guy because he has a little dick?
You may want to believe that the size of a man’s penis doesn’t matter, but it can matter a lot—especially during a woman’s sexual prime [author thinks a woman's sexual prime is later in life because of higher libido/t-levels]. A few times during my research I was able to interview both partners in a relationship. I remember this thirty-six year old, very attractive divorced woman who had started seeing the recently promoted president of the bank where she worked. The guy was a twenty-nine year old, average looking, married man.
The guy was married?
Yeah, he was married and his wife was pregnant with their first child.
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Anyway, this man and woman started out talking and flirting with each other, then began meeting for drinks. Over a period of three months, they talked about the possibility of him leaving his wife and the two of them starting a life together, but they didn’t have sex—only kissed and fooled around. One night while they were together, the woman decided to give the guy oral sex and that’s when she found out that he had a really small penis.
I can’t believe that people tell you this kind of stuff.
I’ve found that people are pretty open about their experiences if you are interested in what they have to say and don’t judge them. After having oral sex with this guy the woman wasn’t interested in him anymore. She said she knew that sex with him wouldn’t be fulfilling.
She didn’t tell the guy she didn’t want to see him anymore because he had a little dick, did she?
No, unfortunately she didn’t.
What do you mean unfortunately? No man wants to hear that. You don’t know what that can do to a guy’s self-esteem.
I think I do. It probably makes a man feel the same way a woman feels after she has a child and her vagina has stretched out, or the way many women feel when they start getting older and believe they are no longer sexually desirable to men. Don’t think these things affect a woman’s self-esteem any less than they affect a man’s. Society has just always been more protective of male self-esteem.
Well what happened, what did she tell the guy?
She told him she didn’t feel right about being with a married man. To make a long story short, the guy ended up leaving his wife. That’s what he thought she really wanted. It was very sad. He lost his wife and his job over it.
Did she ever tell him the truth?
No, she told him that she just couldn’t live with the guilt of breaking up his family. She lied in an effort to protect the man’s feelings as well as his image of her. Over a year later when I talked to him, he was still trying to figure out what went wrong. He said he still loved her and believed she loved him. He thought there was a possibility that they would be together someday.
When females are in their prime, they want to have intercourse. If a man has a small penis, a woman doesn’t feel anything. It’s just common sense. If you stick your finger into an empty mason jar you don’t feel anything, do you? A larger penis stimulates the clitoris.
But if a woman doesn’t screw around with every guy who comes along, she stays tight and doesn’t have to worry about it.
No, Kevin. Then the guy doesn’t have to worry about it. Men don’t want to be judged like women for their physical attributes. Men don’t want to be compared with other men like women have always been compared with other women. Do you know, when I was in junior high, my health teacher told our all-female class that we should wait to have sex until we were married because if we started having sex before then, we would be all used up and no man would want to marry us? The myth that women get stretched out and used up if they sleep with a lot guys is just another one of the lies employed to deter females from having numerous sexual partners. Having a baby or passing a basketball through the vagina is going to stretch it out a bit, but a quarter-inch to an inch or two in circumference isn’t going to make much of a difference. Guys aren’t worried that females will get stretched out from sleeping with other guys; they’re afraid that females will find more enjoyable penises. Men are afraid that their penis is going to be compared to other penises. So that’s how women find out if guys have big penises. They mess around with them. Sometimes they find out by word of mouth, through their girlfriends and through male friends of the men who have big penises.
Women don’t mind if their friends sleep with the same guy they’re sleeping with?
No, that’s not how it works. Let’s say a female meets a guy, has sex with him and then tells her friend, or friends, about the sexual encounter which includes the size of the guy’s penis. One or more of the females she tells may at some future point seek out the guy and have sex with him, but she won’t usually go back to her friends and talk about having done so. It’s kind of like when a guy gets a really good blow job. He tells his friends and then they try to get one, too. It’s a lot like that. I once interviewed a man who had been with several married women, nine to be exact. At the time that I interviewed him, I was already aware that females did this, so when he told me how many married women he had slept with, I knew he had to have a large penis. He also mentioned that he didn’t go out looking for married women; they just seemed to find him. I remember thinking to myself at the time, I’m sure they did. I ended up getting an interview with the married woman he was sleeping with at the time. I asked her if the guy was hung well and she said, very well. Then I asked her if, prior to sleeping with him, someone had told her about how big the guy’s penis was. Her answer was yes, but she wondered how I knew. Turns out, one of her friends had slept with him a couple of years before, so she looked him up. There was another guy I interviewed whose male friends regularly commented on the size of his penis. The majority of this guy’s friends were married and, over the years, he’d slept with all but three of the eight wives. All of the wives had pursued him.
That blows my mind. I can’t believe women do that. So, even if a woman is just naturally really tight, will she still want a guy who’s hung pretty well?
This is really bugging you. I guess you must have a small penis.
It’s not bugging me. I was just asking.
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She might discover that the guy has a small penis and decide to pass on intercourse. It just may not be worth the miles [on her depreciating vagina].
What, are you kidding me? A woman might decide not to sleep with a guy because he has a little dick?
You may want to believe that the size of a man’s penis doesn’t matter, but it can matter a lot—especially during a woman’s sexual prime [author thinks a woman's sexual prime is later in life because of higher libido/t-levels]. A few times during my research I was able to interview both partners in a relationship. I remember this thirty-six year old, very attractive divorced woman who had started seeing the recently promoted president of the bank where she worked. The guy was a twenty-nine year old, average looking, married man.
The guy was married?
Yeah, he was married and his wife was pregnant with their first child.
...
Anyway, this man and woman started out talking and flirting with each other, then began meeting for drinks. Over a period of three months, they talked about the possibility of him leaving his wife and the two of them starting a life together, but they didn’t have sex—only kissed and fooled around. One night while they were together, the woman decided to give the guy oral sex and that’s when she found out that he had a really small penis.
I can’t believe that people tell you this kind of stuff.
I’ve found that people are pretty open about their experiences if you are interested in what they have to say and don’t judge them. After having oral sex with this guy the woman wasn’t interested in him anymore. She said she knew that sex with him wouldn’t be fulfilling.
She didn’t tell the guy she didn’t want to see him anymore because he had a little dick, did she?
No, unfortunately she didn’t.
What do you mean unfortunately? No man wants to hear that. You don’t know what that can do to a guy’s self-esteem.
I think I do. It probably makes a man feel the same way a woman feels after she has a child and her vagina has stretched out, or the way many women feel when they start getting older and believe they are no longer sexually desirable to men. Don’t think these things affect a woman’s self-esteem any less than they affect a man’s. Society has just always been more protective of male self-esteem.
Well what happened, what did she tell the guy?
She told him she didn’t feel right about being with a married man. To make a long story short, the guy ended up leaving his wife. That’s what he thought she really wanted. It was very sad. He lost his wife and his job over it.
Did she ever tell him the truth?
No, she told him that she just couldn’t live with the guilt of breaking up his family. She lied in an effort to protect the man’s feelings as well as his image of her. Over a year later when I talked to him, he was still trying to figure out what went wrong. He said he still loved her and believed she loved him. He thought there was a possibility that they would be together someday.
When females are in their prime, they want to have intercourse. If a man has a small penis, a woman doesn’t feel anything. It’s just common sense. If you stick your finger into an empty mason jar you don’t feel anything, do you? A larger penis stimulates the clitoris.
But if a woman doesn’t screw around with every guy who comes along, she stays tight and doesn’t have to worry about it.
No, Kevin. Then the guy doesn’t have to worry about it. Men don’t want to be judged like women for their physical attributes. Men don’t want to be compared with other men like women have always been compared with other women. Do you know, when I was in junior high, my health teacher told our all-female class that we should wait to have sex until we were married because if we started having sex before then, we would be all used up and no man would want to marry us? The myth that women get stretched out and used up if they sleep with a lot guys is just another one of the lies employed to deter females from having numerous sexual partners. Having a baby or passing a basketball through the vagina is going to stretch it out a bit, but a quarter-inch to an inch or two in circumference isn’t going to make much of a difference. Guys aren’t worried that females will get stretched out from sleeping with other guys; they’re afraid that females will find more enjoyable penises. Men are afraid that their penis is going to be compared to other penises. So that’s how women find out if guys have big penises. They mess around with them. Sometimes they find out by word of mouth, through their girlfriends and through male friends of the men who have big penises.
Women don’t mind if their friends sleep with the same guy they’re sleeping with?
No, that’s not how it works. Let’s say a female meets a guy, has sex with him and then tells her friend, or friends, about the sexual encounter which includes the size of the guy’s penis. One or more of the females she tells may at some future point seek out the guy and have sex with him, but she won’t usually go back to her friends and talk about having done so. It’s kind of like when a guy gets a really good blow job. He tells his friends and then they try to get one, too. It’s a lot like that. I once interviewed a man who had been with several married women, nine to be exact. At the time that I interviewed him, I was already aware that females did this, so when he told me how many married women he had slept with, I knew he had to have a large penis. He also mentioned that he didn’t go out looking for married women; they just seemed to find him. I remember thinking to myself at the time, I’m sure they did. I ended up getting an interview with the married woman he was sleeping with at the time. I asked her if the guy was hung well and she said, very well. Then I asked her if, prior to sleeping with him, someone had told her about how big the guy’s penis was. Her answer was yes, but she wondered how I knew. Turns out, one of her friends had slept with him a couple of years before, so she looked him up. There was another guy I interviewed whose male friends regularly commented on the size of his penis. The majority of this guy’s friends were married and, over the years, he’d slept with all but three of the eight wives. All of the wives had pursued him.
That blows my mind. I can’t believe women do that. So, even if a woman is just naturally really tight, will she still want a guy who’s hung pretty well?
This is really bugging you. I guess you must have a small penis.
It’s not bugging me. I was just asking.
