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Shitskin=Shitlife

Shitskin=Shitlife

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There is a common misconception that people who struggle emerge as stronger individuals from their hardship, but the opposite is often true. Poverty, bullying, narcissistic parents, broken homes just fuck people up for life and stunt their natural development. I was the scapegoat in my family, and my brother was treated much better by my dad, but even he has all sorts of mental problems because of the impoverished, chaotic household we grew up in. He doesn't even want to reproduce because he notices all the mental illness in our family, in particular, my dad, with severe anger issues. This was a person who was treated infinitely better than I was. I was bullied as a kid and it harmed me for life. Every single person I know who was bullied is also damaged goods.

Upper-class white people with two parents who never suffer and face zero hardships end up turning out the best. The privileged who have only known positive reinforcement make the best leaders, partners, and parents. All of the white easy-lifers I know just cruise through life on autopilot, happy as a clam. They lose their virginity young and get to experience teen love. They have no trouble forming relationships and networking to get jobs. They are socially adept so they can easily navigate the hierarchies in the workplace.

Trauma doesn't make you stronger. It fucks up any potential you might've had.

"For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away."
 
Upper-class white people with two parents who never suffer and face zero hardships end up turning out the best. The privileged who have only known positive reinforcement make the best leaders, partners, and parents. All of the white easy-lifers I know just cruise through life on autopilot, happy as a clam. They lose their virginity young and get to experience teen love. They have no trouble forming relationships and networking to get jobs. They are socially adept so they can easily navigate the hierarchies in the workplace.
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depends on genetics, some people end up more resilient and some lose the strength to keep going.
 
depends on genetics, some people end up more resilient and some lose the strength to keep going.
Good looks with struggles is actually good for you, ugly face with struggles is a death sentence and turns out to be traumatizing. It does not build character.
 
depends on genetics, some people end up more resilient and some lose the strength to keep going.
All people would have to grow up in the most privileged environment possible to reach their full potential. Growing up in a warzone will only make you weaker, albeit possibly more violent.
 
Good looks with struggles is actually good for you, ugly face with struggles is a death sentence and turns out to be traumatizing. It does not build character.
I don't think this is true. Chad wouldn't end up a better person if he were poor or had a narcissistic parent. He would do best being raised by rich, well-to-do, attractive white people.
 
I don't think this is true. Chad wouldn't end up a better person if he were poor or had a narcissistic parent. He would do best being raised by rich, well-to-do, attractive white people.
CHAD overcomes anything and comes out on top despite any hardships. Those ain't no hardships and won't affect his personality in any way since he's got a huge support system behind his back, meanwhile subhumans don't have any of that and end up traumatized and self-isolate to cope. This is basically what happens simplified. I truly believe in it. There are no actual struggles for a CHAD they are immune to that shit.
 
streSS is the biggest harm for any living organism. Every trauma, every bad experience is inherently stressful, which harms you. The results of said harm may only occur decades later, but they are existent.
 
If you're a CHAD anything falls in its place like a puzzle it is already predetermined and you'll succeed the power of looks is undoubtedly the biggest factor for success and a happy stress-free life.
I don't think this is true. Chad wouldn't end up a better person if he were poor or had a narcissistic parent. He would do best being raised by rich, well-to-do, attractive white people.
 
streSS is the biggest harm for any living organism. Every trauma, every bad experience is inherently stressful, which harms you. The results of said harm may only occur decades later, but they are existent.
Yes but the cruelest and worst stress happens to ugly men. We cannot cope due to having no support system on top of being stressed and depressed we're also constantly being beat down by society. It honestly depends on your looks there are no struggling people that look above average or normal at best. It is all inside their head meanwhile only subhumans know true suffering.
 
The only good thing about being lonely, stressed, depressed etc. all the time is that hopefully it will shorten my life span.
 
CHAD overcomes anything and comes out on top despite any hardships. Those ain't no hardships and won't affect his personality in any way since he's got a huge support system behind his back, meanwhile subhumans don't have any of that and end up traumatized and self-isolate to cope. This is basically what happens simplified. I truly believe in it. There are no actual struggles for a CHAD they are immune to that shit.
I agree that they will do better because of the positive reinforcement they get but they would perform even better with no struggles. Many attractive women have all sorts of mental issues because they were raised in poor circumstances. I know some. Chad would end up with various personality disorders if the circumstances were bad enough.
 
If you're a CHAD anything falls in its place like a puzzle it is already predetermined and you'll succeed the power of looks is undoubtedly the biggest factor for success and a happy stress-free life.
It is about stunted potential. I know many attractive mentally ill women. I know attractive men who became drug addicts. They won't come out unscathed even if they appear to be.
 
I agree that they will do better because of the positive reinforcement they get but they would perform even better with no struggles. Many attractive women have all sorts of mental issues because they were raised in poor circumstances. I know some. Chad would end up with various personality disorders if the circumstances were bad enough.
Even raped CHADs will be less traumatized than the average sub5 lifer. We can only speculate how it feels like to be good looking, but it halos everything that ever happened in your life. How can those fucks be miserable ? That is literally impossible when everyone worships you. They get to see only the positive side of this life. No one treats them like shit it is the opposite. It makes no sense from evolutionary point of view. Good reinforcement and its effects on the brain turns CHADs into an unstoppable force and no matter what happens to them they deal with it and forget about it within a single day jfl.
 
Yes but the cruelest and worst stress happens to ugly men. We cannot cope due to having no support system on top of being stressed and depressed we're also constantly being beat down by society. It honestly depends on your looks there are no struggling people that look above average or normal at best. It is all inside their head meanwhile only subhumans know true suffering.
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Don't you dare talk about it though, subhuman inkwell!!!!

I fucking hate this world.
 
streSS is the biggest harm for any living organism. Every trauma, every bad experience is inherently stressful, which harms you. The results of said harm may only occur decades later, but they are existent.
The body keeps score.
 
All people would have to grow up in the most privileged environment possible to reach their full potential.
i disagree, a bit of adversity is good for you. People who always win don’t take losses well. They give up more easily and are less hard working. They also don’t know how to stand up for themselves since they never had to. Balance is key to everything in life, having too much of something will always be bad for you.
 
Even raped CHADs will be less traumatized than the average sub5 lifer. We can only speculate how it feels like to be good looking, but it halos everything that ever happened in your life. How can those fucks be miserable ? That is literally impossible when everyone worships you. They get to see only the positive side of this life. No one treats them like shit it is the opposite. It makes no sense from evolutionary point of view. Good reinforcement and its effects on the brain turns CHADs into an unstoppable force and no matter what happens to them they deal with it and forget about it within a single day jfl.
They have a better life than a sub-5. That being said, even an HTN would be more content with himself if he weren't molested as a child. You are underestimating how severely harmful getting raped would be.
 
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Don't you dare talk about it though, subhuman inkwell!!!!

I fucking hate this world.
I literally got my life ruined by bullying. All of my insecurities stem from being reminded how ugly and hideous I am. No one deserves to go through this and being bitter at this point is justified. This is how negative people are made in general. Normies with normal lives seem to think that it's because you're an evil person with muh bad personality or laziness.

It is much more complex than that but normies don't really possess the capabilities to understand especially complex concepts. Not their fault. Nature made them that way.
 
i disagree, a bit of adversity is good for you. People who always win don’t take losses well. They give up more easily and are less hard working. They also know how to stand up for themselves. Balance is key to everything in life, having too much of something will always be bad for you.
Peploe who take no losses continue to take no losses. The people who stand up best for themselves are those who grow up with lots of positive reinforcement.
 
I literally got my life ruined by bullying. All of my insecurities stem from being reminded how ugly and hideous I am. No one deserves to go through this and being bitter at this point is justified. This is how negative people are made in general. Normies with normal lives seem to think that it's because you're an evil person with muh bad personality or laziness.

It is much more complex than that but normies don't really possess the capabilities to understand especially complex concepts. Not their fault. Nature made them that way.
Cattle will never question the herd.

I blame them anyway, because I hate them.
 
They have a better life than a sub-5. That being said, even an HTN would be more content with himself if he weren't molested as a child. You are underestimating how severely harmful getting raped would be.
I don't care looks is everything in this life. It is how you perceive yourself. It is that simple, my friend. How can you possibly fall into bad habits when you were constantly praised. CHADs brains are dopamine spammers. They are immune to trauma. Just because some retarded CHAD decided to end his existence because of drug addiction does not mean that 99% of CHADs are not immune to traumas.
 
Cattle will never question the herd.

I blame them anyway, because I hate them.
Well you gotta be at peace with yourself at least because you got understanding at why you act the way you do instead of blaming yourself. That is a good thing. Normies cannot cope with potential traumas due to having zero self-awareness. Knowing oneself is a lot more beneficial than some think.
 
I don't care looks is everything in this life. It is how you perceive yourself. It is that simple, my friend. How can you possibly fall into bad habits when you were constantly praised. CHADs brains are dopamine spammers. They are immune to trauma. Just because some retarded CHAD decided to end his existence because of drug addiction does not mean that 99% of CHADs are not immune to traumas.
This is an insane cope. Getting molested as a kid is going to cause all sorts of mental issues regardless of how you look. Chad will handle it much better than a sub 5 but he won't escape unscathed.
 
many popular sayings among normies dont tend to be right or exaggerated
 
Well you gotta be at peace with yourself at least because you got understanding at why you act the way you do instead of blaming yourself. That is a good thing. Normies cannot cope with potential traumas due to having zero self-awareness. Knowing oneself is a lot more beneficial than some think.
I'm too self aware. To the point where I question and think back everything I do. Usually resulting in me not doing anything.
 
This is an insane cope. Getting molested as a kid is going to cause all sorts of mental issues regardless of how you look. Chad will handle it much better than a sub 5 but he won't escape unscathed.
Molested CHADs will be much healthier mentally than the average non-molested and bullied sub5 whose entire life is a circus. You're the one coping here and underestimate the power of looks. With looks anything is possible just look at how ignorant and blissful good looking people are. They get to see life from pink lenses anything they've ever hoped and dreamed of eventually happens. Any wish they've ever wished for. How you look like is how you perceive yourself and how you carry yourself. Positive reinforcement will turn you into an unstoppable force and not just positive reinforcement from parents I mean from everyone.
 
I'm too self aware. To the point where I question and think back everything I do. Usually resulting in me not doing anything.
You know what to do and what not to do at least. You know your weak spots. Many normies plan and end up disappointing themselves. I'd say that overly self-aware people such as ourselves plan everything carefully and overthink every single detail. This is why normies are constantly bitter. They fall for something and end up failing.
 
Poverty, bullying, narcissistic parents, broken homes just fuck people up for life and stunt their natural development.
i was born into a not so wealthy family living in like a soviet ass apartment bloc and shitty parent relationship so i can understand. while my parents were fighting, my mother or father would lock me in my room, i didnt understand why at the time but i developed really shit socially and possibly mentally as a whole, from such early isolation which just exacerbated my already fucked start.
 
Molested CHADs will be much healthier mentally than the average non-molested and bullied sub5 whose entire life is a circus. You're the one coping here and underestimate the power of looks. With looks anything is possible just look at how ignorant and blissful good looking people are. They get to see life from pink lenses anything they've ever hoped and dreamed of eventually happens. Any wish they've ever wished for. How you look like is how you perceive yourself and how you carry yourself. Positive reinforcement will turn you into an unstoppable force and not just positive reinforcement from parents I mean from everyone.
Chad will be mentally healthier than a permavirgin rotting on an incel forum but that is not a high bar. Chad would have more mental issues than a high-tier normie. Getting molested as a child will leave permanent scars even to a chad. That doesn't mean he will end up as bad as incels. I know attractive men who ended up as homeless drug addicts.
 
i was born into a not so wealthy family living in like a soviet ass apartment bloc and shitty parent relationship so i can understand. while my parents were fighting, my mother or father would lock me in my room, i didnt understand why at the time but i developed really shit socially and possibly mentally as a whole, from such early isolation which just exacerbated my already fucked start.
My parents would drag me into their fights and make me pick a side.
 
Molested CHADs will be much healthier mentally than the average non-molested and bullied sub5 whose entire life is a circus. You're the one coping here and underestimate the power of looks. With looks anything is possible just look at how ignorant and blissful good looking people are. They get to see life from pink lenses anything they've ever hoped and dreamed of eventually happens. Any wish they've ever wished for. How you look like is how you perceive yourself and how you carry yourself. Positive reinforcement will turn you into an unstoppable force and not just positive reinforcement from parents I mean from everyone.
It wouldn't surprise me if he had worse mental health than the average normie after getting raped as a kid.
 
It wouldn't surprise me if he had worse mental health than the average normie after getting raped as a kid.
You do. Unlike normies you get raped every single day. Getting stomped like a cockroach on a daily basis is worse than anything there is. It is even worse than death. It is a slow and agonizing pain. Once you're brain is fucked by bullying there is no coming back from it.
 
You do. Unlike normies you get raped every single day. Getting stomped like a cockroach on a daily basis is worse than anything there is. It is even worse than death. It is a slow and agonizing pain. Once you're brain is fucked by bullying there is no coming back from it.
I meant Chad. Chad would be in a more traumatized state than a normie.
 
A 4/10 man who ends up dating girlfriends will have better mental health than a Chad who was molested as a kid. Before someone says a 4/10 can't get laid. The vast majority of men lose their virginity by 19.
 
Yep i've always hated the cope that suffering is some sort of test and in the end you'll come out stronger no fuck off suffering only leads to more suffering there is no light at the end of the tunnel
 

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