TLDR; I had a close friend since 3rd grade who changed in 8th grade after getting a girlfriend and making new friends. My friend started humiliating and excluding me from the friend group I was forcing myself into it. he would purposely invite me to social situations only to mock me with others.
I had a really good friend in 8th grade, before he got a girlfriend, we actually got along very well. He was this MTN skater hispanic/chink and we were friends since 3rd grade. Everything was good up until 8th grade, which was when he started talking to more people and making more friends, where I didnt and he was the only person I talked to. when he inevitably got a girlfriend he for some reason, just switched up on me and would humiliate me if it meant his girlfriend could laugh at me.
I remember he invited me to a park near my house, before I came I asked if their was anyone else, but this nigga lied to me and said he was the only one. When I came I noticed he was with his girlfriend and 2 other girls, I tried to go back once I saw them but he pressured me into staying “muh bro cmon stay be the jestermaxxer bro”. I remember trying to talk to him but he would just ignore me then go to his gf. He only really talked to me to ask if i can record his skate tricks. I was thinking to myself “why would he invite me here if he wasnt even gonna talk or even play with me” but I didnt realize it at the time, that the only reason I was there was so he can compare himself to my subhuman fucking face. I remember just sitting down and he basically told one of the girls if I was ugly and literally all 3 of them said I was and that I should move schools because of how ugly I am
. Now my fucking “friend” just laughed with them and he was basically pushing me around saying “its just a joke bro cmon its just a joke”
i basically just sat alone to see if he would come up to me or something, but he didnt, i sat alone for 25 minutes until I eventually just left and no one even said a thing to stop me. I walked back home almost crying because I felt like a ugly troglodyte. It was very brutal that someone I trusted since 3rd grade just ditched me for a girl.
Now its the same thing with his “new friends” everytime during recess we would play this game called kick ups. We would get in a circle and kick it to eachother. Since I was very bad at this, all of them just bullied me for being bad and every time I failed at something, they always tried to record it so they can humiliate me afterwards. Another brutal moment was in the cafeteria, one of them made a huge mess on the table and when a yard duty came to see who it was, almost every fucking person blamed it on me. I had to stay in the cafeteria for almost the entire recess cleaning that shit (which is 15 minutes). Essentially I was the outcasted member of this “friend group” i was only there to jestermaxx and not to have fun. The only reason I stayed there and endured it was because my “friend” was apart from this group and that made them the only group of people who would even allow me to stay in. He never stood up for me, never laughed with me, he always tried to find a way to get the entire group to bully me, and make me feel like shit.
I just didn't wanna be stuck sitting alone on the benches all day because that was the only alternative to leaving.
I had a really good friend in 8th grade, before he got a girlfriend, we actually got along very well. He was this MTN skater hispanic/chink and we were friends since 3rd grade. Everything was good up until 8th grade, which was when he started talking to more people and making more friends, where I didnt and he was the only person I talked to. when he inevitably got a girlfriend he for some reason, just switched up on me and would humiliate me if it meant his girlfriend could laugh at me.
I remember he invited me to a park near my house, before I came I asked if their was anyone else, but this nigga lied to me and said he was the only one. When I came I noticed he was with his girlfriend and 2 other girls, I tried to go back once I saw them but he pressured me into staying “muh bro cmon stay be the jestermaxxer bro”. I remember trying to talk to him but he would just ignore me then go to his gf. He only really talked to me to ask if i can record his skate tricks. I was thinking to myself “why would he invite me here if he wasnt even gonna talk or even play with me” but I didnt realize it at the time, that the only reason I was there was so he can compare himself to my subhuman fucking face. I remember just sitting down and he basically told one of the girls if I was ugly and literally all 3 of them said I was and that I should move schools because of how ugly I am
. Now my fucking “friend” just laughed with them and he was basically pushing me around saying “its just a joke bro cmon its just a joke”i basically just sat alone to see if he would come up to me or something, but he didnt, i sat alone for 25 minutes until I eventually just left and no one even said a thing to stop me. I walked back home almost crying because I felt like a ugly troglodyte. It was very brutal that someone I trusted since 3rd grade just ditched me for a girl.
Now its the same thing with his “new friends” everytime during recess we would play this game called kick ups. We would get in a circle and kick it to eachother. Since I was very bad at this, all of them just bullied me for being bad and every time I failed at something, they always tried to record it so they can humiliate me afterwards. Another brutal moment was in the cafeteria, one of them made a huge mess on the table and when a yard duty came to see who it was, almost every fucking person blamed it on me. I had to stay in the cafeteria for almost the entire recess cleaning that shit (which is 15 minutes). Essentially I was the outcasted member of this “friend group” i was only there to jestermaxx and not to have fun. The only reason I stayed there and endured it was because my “friend” was apart from this group and that made them the only group of people who would even allow me to stay in. He never stood up for me, never laughed with me, he always tried to find a way to get the entire group to bully me, and make me feel like shit.
I just didn't wanna be stuck sitting alone on the benches all day because that was the only alternative to leaving.
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