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It’s that time again where I bring you another story from my miserable college (high school in the UK) days. This one concerns something that many of you may be familiar with, loathe and dread: the group chat.
When you’re in college you’ll be in a class with the same folks all year round and it’s unsurprising that people take their social lives in college outside of the college proper. They take it to their phones, of course, in the form of a group chat regardless of the platform used, whether it be Whatsapp or Snapchat or some other media platform entirely.
I wasnt being actively bullied when I first joined the class group chat. I was persuaded to join by a classmate but I was too shy at first. Eventually I did end up joining but I didn’t say much at all. It was my second year of college where I was jestermaxxing and being bullied in class when I started noticing that, despite all of the negative shit being said about me in class, eventually ended up being said about me in the group chat as well.
Even at home when I finished a day of college, I couldn’t escape the abuse I was given. My bullies would ridicule me in front of the entire group, call me names and humiliate me. I used to take a lot of days off college due to severe anxiety and a fear of going in and being bullied for an entire day but that didn’t help either because I was in the dreaded group chat. They would ask why I wasn’t in, make up stories about me while I was absent and tell lies to the tutor and showed the tutor the group chat messages of me losing my shit with them due to them winding me up as a way as portraying me as the bad guy.
They told me I’d never find a girlfriend and laughed at the idea of me getting married and living a happy life with a girl while they were successful with girls themselves. That hurt me the most. And to this day they’ve had all the success in the world, especially with women, while I’ve rotted inside since the day I finished college, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or even been close to achieving such a thing.
Guess they won and were right after all.
When you’re in college you’ll be in a class with the same folks all year round and it’s unsurprising that people take their social lives in college outside of the college proper. They take it to their phones, of course, in the form of a group chat regardless of the platform used, whether it be Whatsapp or Snapchat or some other media platform entirely.
I wasnt being actively bullied when I first joined the class group chat. I was persuaded to join by a classmate but I was too shy at first. Eventually I did end up joining but I didn’t say much at all. It was my second year of college where I was jestermaxxing and being bullied in class when I started noticing that, despite all of the negative shit being said about me in class, eventually ended up being said about me in the group chat as well.
Even at home when I finished a day of college, I couldn’t escape the abuse I was given. My bullies would ridicule me in front of the entire group, call me names and humiliate me. I used to take a lot of days off college due to severe anxiety and a fear of going in and being bullied for an entire day but that didn’t help either because I was in the dreaded group chat. They would ask why I wasn’t in, make up stories about me while I was absent and tell lies to the tutor and showed the tutor the group chat messages of me losing my shit with them due to them winding me up as a way as portraying me as the bad guy.
They told me I’d never find a girlfriend and laughed at the idea of me getting married and living a happy life with a girl while they were successful with girls themselves. That hurt me the most. And to this day they’ve had all the success in the world, especially with women, while I’ve rotted inside since the day I finished college, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or even been close to achieving such a thing.
Guess they won and were right after all.
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