The title says how i see everything, the problem is your communicating to people who simply don't want to listen. You need to think of it like this, you have 2 people, they both grew up in a certain state. Now both of these people live across the state one lives in a rich neighborhood and the other a poor neighborhood. One has the whole world gifted to him, the other has his entire world taken and crushed in front of him. Time passes and they soon communicate on a subject mhm lets say the state they live in. Due to the rotten experiences of the poor one his opinion is going to be sour but real, he seen how everything is,he seen what the rich would have night terrors of. The rich on the other hand has a skewed opinion he has only seen the good not the bad his opinion will differ greatly. Now the wrong way is to assume these would understand each other, can the rich see through the poors eyes? no he cannot, he has not lived his life so ultimately he wont be able to see the pains of the poor. Yet can this work the other way? no the poor has seen to much, the scars have plunged itself deep into his flesh. Now you're thinking can these people understand each other? as i would say no, unless they swap for a day maybe so, but still our opinions are based on experiences we dealt with.
Experiences are what form us as people, it will have an impact on every aspect of our personality, our beliefs,etc. Its pointless to fight with these people, they do not know our struggles, they can only see the good not the evil. I could get into the whole brainwashing aspect of it but lets leave that for another day. These people don't want to change their opinion,well frankly because they are afraid. We also fear the unknown or the foreign it is imprinted into our DNA after all. We could bring up the two subjects, with fear they can control anyone. They tell the rich boy not to go down there that there's evil, yet there's evil around him? i call it redirecting its a way for the controlling opposition to blind the followers, to keep them from getting out of line.anyways i'm going on tangents no matter what they will not understand us and they don't want to,i could explain more but everyone if you're tempted don't bother. These people wont change, and neither will we,our scars are just too deep to heal.
tldr: don't bother talking to these people, stick to yourself.
Experiences are what form us as people, it will have an impact on every aspect of our personality, our beliefs,etc. Its pointless to fight with these people, they do not know our struggles, they can only see the good not the evil. I could get into the whole brainwashing aspect of it but lets leave that for another day. These people don't want to change their opinion,well frankly because they are afraid. We also fear the unknown or the foreign it is imprinted into our DNA after all. We could bring up the two subjects, with fear they can control anyone. They tell the rich boy not to go down there that there's evil, yet there's evil around him? i call it redirecting its a way for the controlling opposition to blind the followers, to keep them from getting out of line.anyways i'm going on tangents no matter what they will not understand us and they don't want to,i could explain more but everyone if you're tempted don't bother. These people wont change, and neither will we,our scars are just too deep to heal.
tldr: don't bother talking to these people, stick to yourself.
