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Serious Stop trying to act like an alpha.

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Greycel
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I keep hearing about incels that try to act like an alpha in public; they try to act like a chad; in hopes of it compensating for their poor looks. Some might try to walk like an alpha, and look women straight in the eye for long periods of time. In reality, if you are not muscular, at least 6 ft tall, this just makes you look like a moron. You are humiliating yourself in front of everyone else. Just stop.
 
Shut up you bully!
 
Legit thread.

A Miro Cech lookalike who's afraid to make eye contact and walks with his head down will get infinitely more pussy than a coping AlphaDestiny lookalike manlet acting alpha
 
PUAs who do the eye contact shit are pretty autistic
 
So we should act like neeks instead?

Fuck that.
 
This is self harming behavior. Don't outwardly attempt to be what you aren't.
Be yourself, don't look to an ideal to strive for. That's the issue here. There's no criteria for a chad that fucks every pussy in existence.
My favorite saying is if your parents did it you're fully able to as well unless you're an literal <80 IQ. Don't give up.

Social media and online dating didn't exist when our parents had us.
 
You can't be a shy beta cuck either. There's something in between alpha and beta that works well for unattractive guys.
 
I always go with the aloof twitchy weird guy routine.
 
My favorite saying is if your parents did it you're fully able to as well unless you're an literal <80 IQ. Don't give up.

Quit that bluepill bullshit. Our parents didn't have to deal with online dating and social media and feminism inflating female standards. My dad is also a 5'2 ethnic who got cucked by a 6'1 white guy.

Stop talking about IQ when the few posts you've made has exposed you as a brainlet and borderline normie.

I thought the rules say bluepill ideology is not allowed. Saying "if your parents did it so can you" is a cucktears level platitude.
 
This is self harming behavior. Don't outwardly attempt to be what you aren't.
Be yourself, don't look to an ideal to strive for. That's the issue here. There's no criteria for a chad that fucks every pussy in existence.
My favorite saying is if your parents did it you're fully able to as well unless you're an literal <80 IQ. Don't give up.
Be yourself? What kind of blue pill crap is that?
That only works if "yourself" is a winning recipe.
 
Be yourself? What kind of blue pill crap is that?
That only works if "yourself" is a winning recipe.
It's not bluepill. I'd explain more if you'd like to PM me. I'm not saying looks don't matter, because they play a large role in determining whether or not someone will fuck you, obviously. I know that.
 
The issue is really that people tend to view it as a whole "Fake confidence to gain attention" but that only works if your looks compensate for any break in that act. Acting like a chad without the looks of a chad just comes across as desperate or creepy.

'Be yourself' is shit advice also and is just a useless platitude people throw out to avoid talking about the elephants in the room.
 
Then you have to use that human brain to it's best potential and adapt to the changing tides. Nothing is impossible if you really want it buddy. Feel free to PM me.
Nice rhetoric. Offer a clear solution, otherwise say nothing faggot. Spread your wisdom outside of PMs, go ahead and let's hear it. I don't know who the fuck you are anyway. Why would any incel want to PM you?
 
This is self harming behavior. Don't outwardly attempt to be what you aren't.
Be yourself, don't look to an ideal to strive for. That's the issue here. There's no criteria for a chad that fucks every pussy in existence.
My favorite saying is if your parents did it you're fully able to as well unless you're an literal <80 IQ. Don't give up.
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Agreed. Just be as aggressive as possible. Act as if you're ready to kill someone and embrace anti-sociality. Then at least people will be scared of shitting on you and will leave you alone.
 
just a reminder that a woman can walk like this and still pull chad
 

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Quit that bluepill bullshit. Our parents didn't have to deal with online dating and social media and feminism inflating female standards. My dad is also a 5'2 ethnic who got cucked by a 6'1 white guy.

Stop talking about IQ when the few posts you've made has exposed you as a brainlet and borderline normie.

I thought the rules say bluepill ideology is not allowed. Saying "if your parents did it so can you" is a cucktears level platitude.

No friend, don't let the idea of social media bog you down. There are better people in life to strive for. People that think about things you might like. Of course you'll never get a Kim Kardashian gf,that's for like the top 1% alpha dogs, but if you'd like to understand more what I'm on about, please PM me.
 
see cucktears, this is what happens when you tell incels shit like

"jus be kunfident!"

are you happy now you fucking numbskulls?
 
see cucktears, this is what happens when you tell incels shit like

"jus be kunfident!"

are you happy now you fucking numbskulls?
If you'd genuinely like to see change, please feel free to PM me. I'm not trying to give the whole "you can do it" shpiel, but I want to see people improve themselves and be happier, and then go after what they want. It's very possible and not all is lost.
 
This is self harming behavior. Don't outwardly attempt to be what you aren't.
Be yourself, don't look to an ideal to strive for. That's the issue here. There's no criteria for a chad that fucks every pussy in existence.
My favorite saying is if your parents did it you're fully able to as well unless you're an literal <80 IQ. Don't give up.
Be yourself? Lmao. Myself is a beta who's personality has made me a loser in all aspects of life. The best you can do as an ugly male is to act like a non-alpha and non-beta calm type normie. If you need hold a job that is.
 
If you'd genuinely like to see change, please feel free to PM me. I'm not trying to give the whole "you can do it" shpiel, but I want to see people improve themselves and be happier, and then go after what they want. It's very possible and not all is lost.

im nofapping and started using the gym so that should help me
 
Be yourself? Lmao. Myself is a beta who's personality has made me a loser in all aspects of life. The best you can do as an ugly male is to act like a non-alpha and non-beta calm type normie. If you need hold a job that is.
If being yourself isn't working, it's because you require to better yourself and actually change who you are instead of pretending to be something.
 
im nofapping and started using the gym so that should help me

If you find this method works, then that's wonderful. If you see yourself not performing well, please feel free to PM me.
 
No one ever talks about the confidence that it takes to realize it's over muh boy
 
Nice username.
 
If being yourself isn't working, it's because you require to better yourself and actually change who you are instead of pretending to be something.

So he should not be himself and change himself to suit a better more approved version of himself that conforms with social norms?
That's shit advice.
I love how 'be yourself' actually just means "Be yourself, provided 'yourself' is socially, sexually, romantically and culturally accepted amongst mainstream society"

What a worthless platitude.
 
I've probably spent ~5000 hours training and sparring and I intimidate people (but not in a way that's useful for me). I also earn a nice amount of money and don't have a boss or a job I fear losing. How am I supposed to walk just because girls think I'm ugly?
 
If being yourself isn't working, it's because you require to better yourself and actually change who you are instead of pretending to be something.
Yeah I'm changing "who I am" by acting like what I described. That doesn't change my underlying personality, and it won't get me sex or a good social life since that's determined by genes and nurture.
 
Yeah I'm changing "who I am" by acting like what I described. That doesn't change my underlying personality, and it won't get me sex or a good social life since that's determined by genes and nurture.
Please PM if you would like to discuss further. I would for sure.
 
No friend, I said better yourself. You can't just do nothing and expect everything to come to you. You must adapt.
It's even in Darwin's laws. Those who don't change are going to be consumed by nature.

Then he's not being himself. He's prescribing to a normalised expectation to what a person should be according to mainstream culture.
 
Yeah, it's all about how the person doing it looks like. It's the same for us men tbh, a cute young girl dancing something silly is cute and a man or old fatwhale dancing it are ridiculous.
 
Then he's not being himself. He's prescribing to a normalised expectation to what a person should be according to mainstream culture.
You don't have to be normal. If you'd like to take a look at my lifestyle and other things and compare and contrast them to how you see "normies", please PM me. There's nothing about a normality here. You don't have to be normal, you just have to improve yourself and improve your self worth in general.
 
I act alpha so at least I won't get bullied. I'm done even trying to get women. It's for pure purposes of deterrence of bullies. Cuz Im naturally weak.

With 0 training and just remaining sedentary, my default strength is just that of a woman.
 
Please PM if you would like to discuss further. I would for sure.
You could just post a summary right here of how to "better yourself" and what the goal of it is. Gym? Done, still no sex. Jordan Peterson'ish advice? I'm doing some just so I can get a job but it doesn't change my underlying personality. I'm just gonna shut up now but you can go ahead and keep wasting your time trying to redpill blackpilled people.
 
You could just post a summary right here of how to "better yourself" and what the goal of it is. Gym? Done, still no sex. Jordan Peterson'ish advice? I'm doing some just so I can get a job but it doesn't change my underlying personality. I'm just gonna shut up now but you can go ahead and keep wasting your time trying to redpill blackpilled people.
There's no time being wasted if a large portion of my generation is going to grow up to be involuntarily celibate and not have children. It's dangerous and not good. Something similar has happened / is happening in Japan, now the United States and other western countries. Bettering yourself isn't about changing your outward appearance so people will like you, it's about shifting your mental state to see things out of a black and white perspective and notice how there's lots of grey areas, and being accepting and helpful, and moving away from the semi-narcissistic ideals that you may have.
 
You don't have to be normal. If you'd like to take a look at my lifestyle and other things and compare and contrast them to how you see "normies", please PM me. There's nothing about a normality here. You don't have to be normal, you just have to improve yourself and improve your self worth in general.

Then your mantra should be "Keep improving until something works" rather than "Be yourself" since the former is what you're saying while the latter is the snake oil you peddle.

Improvement should also not be solely a mans burden, why should I jump through a variety of hoops (that I may not wish to do) in the hopes of wooing a female that simply needs to exist in order to gain admiration. Why must I scale a mountain inch by inch to achieve the same level of desirability as someone that is dropped off at the summit via helicopter? The social and dating power balance is fucked and the solution isn't a series of vain attempts to 'improve' to potentially compete against people with genetic luck AND the skills you may gain throughout your trials.
 
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To summarize what the @nyc and @husky be a beta bitch for women, and know your place.
Act like a man and you're just being a nuisance for thinking you stand a chance with women.
 
I've never heard of an incel pretending to be an alpha. more like the opposite. some guy posted yesterday about how he looks down always in public same with me.
 
Improvement should also not be solely a mans burden, why should I jump through a variety of hoops (that I may not wish to do) in the hopes of wooing a female that simply needs to exist in order to gain admiration. Why must I scale a mountain inch by inch to achieve the same level of desirability as someone that is dropped off at the summit via helicopter?

Because you're man, and you have the capability of being a great one. That's what we do. And you'll get to it eventually friend, I promise.
 
Alphaness is about LMS, not behavior

They say the smallest dogs bark the loudest, everyone knows attitude means shit if you don't have what it takes to back it
 
fuck u man if i meet u irl i will punch u in the face, what will u do about it? im 6'7
 

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