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Cope "Stop comparing yourself to others, just focus on your hobbies"

UnwantedVirgin

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Why do denialcels and normies come out with this shit?

Yeah I may be approaching 30 but at least I've got my hobbies (aka copes) to fill the void and keep me occupied, doesn't matter that people my age started having sex a decade ago or are now settled in long term relationships and getting married whilst I can't even get a first date. Doesn't matter that I'll be spending the remainder of my life like this, doesn't matter at all. :fuk:
 
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"Find some hobbies"
"Get a job"
"Take a shower"
 
"Find some hobbies"
"Get a job"
"Take a shower"
It's all just empty advice as they know they can't actually offer anything that'll actually help, they know it's over for you.
 
OP, are you a wizard apprentice?
 
It's all just empty advice as they know they can't actually offer anything that'll actually help, they know it's over for you.
It's not just that they simply don't fucking care, they're evil and they're only out for themselves. If you were slightly privileged in looks + status they would always try to get on your good side to snatch every advantage you give them after earning these snakes trust.

whores and men also have different hobbies no fucking whore likes gaming because already they got cheat modes in real life they don't need to cope in a virtual sandbox, and they definitely don't give a shit about my hobbies either:



Fuck those cucks you have to see through their words they almost always want something from you.
 
It's not just that they simply don't fucking care, they're evil and they're only out for themselves. If you were slightly privileged in looks + status they would always try to get on your good side to snatch every advantage you give them after earning these snakes trust.

whores and men also have different hobbies no fucking whore likes gaming because already they got cheat modes in real life they don't need to cope in a virtual sandbox, and they definitely don't give a shit about my hobbies either:

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Fuck those cucks you have to see through their words they almost always want something from you.
SCUMS SCUMS !!
 
from a practical standpoint ts all you can do
But it still feels infantilizing when people IRL talk down to you like this. Why not just come out and say "Unfortunately I do think your face is the reason why you can't get laid, sorry bro".
OP, are you a wizard apprentice?
29 soon then it's a countdown to wizardom. You?
It's not just that they simply don't fucking care, they're evil and they're only out for themselves. If you were slightly privileged in looks + status they would always try to get on your good side to snatch every advantage you give them after earning these snakes trust.
Definitely you can notice the difference in how these people act around you compared to attractive people they want to suck up with and share their halo.
whores and men also have different hobbies no fucking whore likes gaming because already they got cheat modes in real life they don't need to cope in a virtual sandbox, and they definitely don't give a shit about my hobbies either:

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I think a lot of foids hate video games when guys play them it means they're not paying as much attention to the foid. Is that you driving the van?
 
I think a lot of foids hate video games when guys play them it means they're not paying as much attention to the foid. Is that you driving the van?
Yeah and I'm sure guys would get surprised when they see cumdumpsters play games and simp for them endlessly fucking cucks, and no I took this clip from "sanfour" king of 2 wheelies. :society:
 
Yeah and I'm sure guys would get surprised when they see cumdumpsters play games and simp for them endlessly fucking cucks, and no I took this clip from "sanfour" king of 2 wheelies. :society:
The simps in a twitchwhores chat are all clambering for her attention and love it when she reads their comment out, probably the highlight of their day. Have you ever had a go at wheelie driving like that?
 
That’s actually a kinda legit advice for someone like me who was raised by narcissistic parents. They always compared me with elite kids without being aware of their own social standing or the resources they could provide for me jfl. Now I wish I could stop comparing myself with the successful males and just accept my miserable destiny.
 
The simps in a twitchwhores chat are all clambering for her attention and love it when she reads their comment out, probably the highlight of their day. Have you ever had a go at wheelie driving like that?

I haven't spoken to Jewel in years.
 
Normies get to have hobbies and relationships. Hobbies are only a small component of a satisfying life; they don't replace the need for love and intimacy. Because normies aren't using hobbies to fill a void in their lives, they tend to get more out of their hobbies than us. They can share them with loved one and find new ways of enjoying them. That's why they don't burn out through copes as quickly as we do.
 
That’s actually a kinda legit advice for someone like me who was raised by narcissistic parents. They always compared me with elite kids without being aware of their own social standing or the resources they could provide for me jfl. Now I wish I could stop comparing myself with the successful males and just accept my miserable destiny.
In your case I guess so, but after a while the hobbies and copes don't fill that empty space anymore.
I haven't spoken to Jewel in years.
Who's Jewel? A streamer?
I'm 31. Already a wizard.
What were you last few years of your 20's like? Did you have the sinking feeling that you're not that young anymore yet there's so much you never got experience? Ever been to an escort?
Normies get to have hobbies and relationships. Hobbies are only a small component of a satisfying life; they don't replace the need for love and intimacy. Because normies aren't using hobbies to fill a void in their lives, they tend to get more out of their hobbies than us. They can share them with loved one and find new ways of enjoying them. That's why they don't burn out through copes as quickly as we do.
Good post. I agree and have been feeling this too recently, hobbies should compliment the more fundamental aspects of life such as relationships and a healthy sex life. The icing on the cake if you will, not the main fucking course.
Somebody posted this a long time ago on here but do you think this could be a good incel hobby?


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtwkRd6zHwg

Sure, but like @Autistic Uggo said if you're not having your other needs met first then there's the very real chance you'll burn out since the hobby becomes a bad surrogate for your other needs. And I'm guessing some of these guys will have wives/girlfriends who'll drop by during competitions to support their men.
 
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Very much in agreement, hobbies end up leaving a void no matter how much passion you dedicate to it, the need for affection and love is irreplaceable
 

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