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Blackpill Starting To Understand the Black Pill

37YearOldVirgin

37YearOldVirgin

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So yeah. It's been a week since I first joined up and it's been quite a ride tbh. I came here fresh off of celebrating my 37th birthday and still being a virgin, and I had originally joined because I'd made a resolution to myself that I was done being lonely and miserable, and I was finally going to do whatever was necessary to escape celibacy and get a relationship with a girl who I actually like. I was also very motivated because I'd had a long conversation with my (Chad lite) twin brother and his gf, during the course of which I'd received a lot of advice and suggestions on things I could do that might help to improve my chances.. this wasn't the first of these conversations (by far), but it was the first time that I was willing to take advice from him, given that he's got a lot more experience than me, instead of just resenting him and thinking that he can never know what it feels like to be me.

I'm realizing now that coming here with that mindset was all wrong. That's redpill (and maybe a little bluepill) thinking, and doesn't really apply here. So apologies if I rubbed some of you guys the wrong way. Inceldom and the black pill were (and still are) new concepts to me, even if the crushing despair and lonelyness (that come with being single and unloved by any women while everyone else around me is getting girlfriends and even married with kids) is not. But.. I think I'm starting to get it now..

Since joining I've gotten a lot of snippets of opinions and feelings about the current state of society and the sexual market, and also some very high IQ and scientifically backed posts about what the black pill really means, and which forces are at work that cause it, and I can safely say that I think you guys have got it right. The black pill is true.

That said I do think there's still a continuum, and it truly is 'much' harder (or even impossible) for some than for others.. But at the end of the day it all comes down to the fact that the times have changed, and in the new sexual marketplace there really IS a massively widening disparity between the sexually wealthy and the poor. So, for all intents and purposes, if you're not at the top.. then you might as well be at the bottom. Because the lions share of the wealth is being monopolized by the elite 1%, and the rest of us are left fighting over the scraps. So whether or not some of us are a little closer to the bottom of the table is kinda irrelevant..
 
Glad to see that. And welcome of course.

But beware, the potency of blackpills can sometimes be quite heavy.
 
Welcome, you will go through multiple denial stages at first, like i did.

Then one day you will just wake up and accept it, the thing that did it for me was the Peadophile rapist Chad tinder experiments, he still got matches and women still wanted to fuck him.

Look it up, it was one of threads done here.
 
Welcome. Fellow 37 year old virgin here. Pat yourself on the back for somehow not committing suicide.
 
When you take the blackpill you see it in your everyday life. It's very hard to be around bluepilled people. The media is very deceptive, even advice is mostly lies. Even lowering your standards is bullshit, most people demand better than you. Being 28 years old KHHV, I have decided to go down the escort route.

I salute you good sir.
 
I assume your brother is your fraternal twin.
 
I assume your brother is your fraternal twin.

Yes. He's 5'10, built, and 8 in the face. I'm 5'5, ectomorph frame, and 4-5 in the face (at best).
 
Make sure to break the black pill into smaller chunks and digest a chunk at a time, slowly, else you'll overdose and rope
 
Make sure to break the black pill into smaller chunks and digest a chunk at a time, slowly, else you'll overdose and rope
High IQ
 
"Starting To Understand the Black Pill"


BTW: I liked the last paragraph with the analogy about the imbalance between the rich and the poor in the sexual market. Because it really doesn´t matter if you´re a 3/10 or a 7/10 because anything below 8/10 might as well be a 3 anyways.
 


BTW: I liked the last paragraph with the analogy about the imbalance between the rich and the poor in the sexual market. Because it really doesn´t matter if you´re a 3/10 or a 7/10 because anything below 8/10 might as well be a 3 anyways.


Based on the data, I think 6-7 are still ok (if white or black in america.. ethnic is evidently a death sentence if below 8)
 
If you’re ugly, the blackpill is born with you.
 
If you’re ugly, the blackpill is born with you.

I always understood how it 'feels'. I've just been blue/redpilled for so long that it took me a while to aprehend the factual basis for the black pill.
 
I always understood how it 'feels'. I've just been blue/redpilled for so long that it took me a while to aprehend the factual basis for the black pill.
Really?, it took me just a walk on a wester campus and I was blackpilled to the bone
 
When you take the blackpill you see it in your everyday life. It's very hard to be around bluepilled people.
A big problem with taking the black pill is you become immune to people's bullshit. That also means any communication with normal humans is pedantic and a pure waste of time.
 
Wellcome to the forum fellow incel, you are in good company here
 
Really?, it took me just a walk on a wester campus and I was blackpilled to the bone

Trust me. I've been bullied, spurned, laughed at, ignored, and friended for 25 YEARS.. while all my high school buddies were getting laid, getting gf's, and getting wives. If you don't think I 'get' it, then I'm not sure what to tell you.

But id always assumed that it was at least 'partially' my fault. My lack of confidence, lack of educating myself, lack of practice, lack of trying, and lack of self improvement must have had 'something' to do with it. And therefore there was still something I 'could' do. A ray of sunshine to hold onto if you will.

The point of my post is that the true black pill is realizing that virtually NONE of that ever mattered, and to believe otherwise is a delusional pipe dream. Make sense?
 
Glad to see that. And welcome of course.

But beware, the potency of blackpills can sometimes be quite heavy.

But necessary. Had we been taught Blackpill at a young age, we wouldn’t be so shocked.

Even girls have an understanding of men by the age of 12 and yet we’re lead to believe this lie of personality as we ascend into wizardry.
 
Trust me. I've been bullied, spurned, laughed at, ignored, and friended for 25 YEARS.. while all my high school buddies were getting laid, getting gf's, and getting wives. If you don't think I 'get' it, then I'm not sure what to tell you.

But id always assumed that it was at least 'partially' my fault. My lack of confidence, lack of educating myself, lack of practice, lack of trying, and lack of self improvement must have had 'something' to do with it. And therefore there was still something I 'could' do. A ray of sunshine to hold onto if you will.

The point of my post is that the true black pill is realizing that virtually NONE of that ever mattered, and to believe otherwise is a delusional pipe dream. Make sense?
Yes, even 1% bluepill is dangerous. I realized my subhumanity in one day tbh, just walk on college campuses tbh
 
Joined today, already feel alot better. Feels good to be around like-minded people.
 
High IQ man that was good read thanks for posting
 
You'll enjoy it here. Were a much friendlier community than we come off as for the most part.

Dont drive deep right away or you really might wanna kill yourself on the spot.

I like to think of it like this. Most guys spend all their time focusing on women, how to get one, how to keep her around

We dont have those worries (even though wed like it) we accept it's over for most of us and can focus on hobbies, self improvement, and just doing what we want

With that said it gets really depressing at times once you swallow that blackpill. You really start seeing the world differently
 
You'll enjoy it here. Were a much friendlier community than we come off as for the most part.

Dont drive deep right away or you really might wanna kill yourself on the spot.

I like to think of it like this. Most guys spend all their time focusing on women, how to get one, how to keep her around

We dont have those worries (even though wed like it) we accept it's over for most of us and can focus on hobbies, self improvement, and just doing what we want

With that said it gets really depressing at times once you swallow that blackpill. You really start seeing the world differently
I appreciate the welcome.
 
Wasnt directed at you, but you're welcome I guess
Lol. Happy to be here (I guess.. sorta. Well in the way you described anyway). Thx for the welcome!
 
Kind of scary that you're using my old profile pic. I had a mini heart attack when I saw that.
Oh Yeah? Ant man? Haha. Are you short?
 
So does that mean we should establish sexual communism? Let's kidnap foids and distribute them evenly to males. Even then it would be over for curries and chinacels
 
So does that mean we should establish sexual communism? Let's kidnap foids and distribute them evenly to males. Even then it would be over for curries and chinacels

Not sexual communism, no. But I do believe we're experience a sexual wealth disparity that is analogous to the actual wealth disparity that was extant in both France and Russia before their respective revolutions.

The solution (I think) is one that's existed for thousands of years, still does in some societys, and has only started to disintegrate in first world capitalist countries within the last 60 years: Institutional monogamy (aka 1 pussy for 1 dick. Period). And it doesn't need to be enforced through law or force either. Only social convention and ostracism if those who deviate (as religions have done, and even China to a lesser degree now).

I'm planning on making a larger post about this, but that's the gist.
 
Kind of scary that you're using my old profile pic. I had a mini heart attack when I saw that.
Lol sorry. he was one of my favs from dbs so I decided to use him as my avatar
 
You'll enjoy it here. Were a much friendlier community than we come off as for the most part.

Welcome man!

Yeah I have to agree that since I found this forum a few months ago it's the friendliest place on Earth! Compared to groups that self-police and prevent you from saying what you want, it's nice to have somewhere unfiltered. Plus the fact that discussion is still so civil and the general culture of belief is pretty similar for us all.
 
isnt it basically over at that age?
 
37?
I'm 30.

Your post is spot on. I Agree 100%.
 
"Starting To Understand the Black Pill"


BTW: I liked the last paragraph with the analogy about the imbalance between the rich and the poor in the sexual market. Because it really doesn´t matter if you´re a 3/10 or a 7/10 because anything below 8/10 might as well be a 3 anyways.


This is autistic and wrong and immediately lets me know you're a 5+ mentalcel.

There is a HUGE difference between a 3 and 7. I'd rather be well-above average looking than well below it, and for you to make that statement shows me that you have no idea what it's like to be sub5.

If being a 7 = being a 3, and everything below 8 is the same, then why not acidface yourself right now? If it doesn't make a lick of difference if you are a 3 or a 7, then acidface yourself now. You might get pity and benefits. So try it.

Your assertion is INSULTING to sub5 men who get treated like SHIT by women. I've seen guys as low as a 6 get good treatment. It's when you're BELOW AVERAGE, i.e. UGLY, not "NOT CHAD", but "LEGIT UGLY" where discrimination and ill-treatment come in. For you to make your assertion tells me all I need to know about your inceldom. It's not looks-based.

There was a poster on Lookism who said: "Being a 7 is worse than being a 2 because at least 2s know its over for them, but we 7s are so close but so far". This is like saying, "I'd rather be a quad-amputee than have a sprained ankle cuz at least quad-amputees don't have to hop or limp". It's GROSSLY insulting. I'd give almost anything to be a 7/10.

You really think women wouldn't pick a 7/10 guy over a 3/10? You fucking autist. Go schuuuut up a school and be done with it. That's the kind of autism you're bordering on RN.

You really think being a 7 is incel?? Are 7.5s incel? Are 7.9999999s incel? It's not as black and white as your basement-dwelling autistic brain tells you it is. I am probably older than you and leave the house a lot more. I can tell you that even the life of a 6/10 white male is DECENT. It's only really the sub5s who suffer the most but I wouldn't expect you to know that for obvious reasons.

For the final kick in the teeth, you're probably white, young and expect women to approach you. RIGHT?

@13k
Based on the data, I think 6-7 are still ok (if white or black in america.. ethnic is evidently a death sentence if below 8)

See my post above. From 6+ you're at least dateable to SOME women. It's sub5s who are FUCKED.
 
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How can he be your twin brother if he doesn’t look the same
 
I remember like 8 years ago I met online a 38-yr-old NEET christiancel in a random chatroom, rambling about being a dropout law student falling in love with her mom. Dude was your textbook living wizard archetype, I thought to myself no way I couldn't do better than him.

I'm still not 30 but I can actually respect him now, in spite I despise my incompetent mother, I'm doing better in career terms.

I applaud you've made it that far, dude. Welcome to the forum.
 
This is autistic and wrong and immediately lets me know you're a 5+ mentalcel.

There is a HUGE difference between a 3 and 7. I'd rather be well-above average looking than well below it, and for you to make that statement shows me that you have no idea what it's like to be sub5.

If being a 7 = being a 3, and everything below 8 is the same, then why not acidface yourself right now? If it doesn't make a lick of difference if you are a 3 or a 7, then acidface yourself now. You might get pity and benefits. So try it.

Your assertion is INSULTING to sub5 men who get treated like SHIT by women. I've seen guys as low as a 6 get good treatment. It's when you're BELOW AVERAGE, i.e. UGLY, not "NOT CHAD", but "LEGIT UGLY" where discrimination and ill-treatment come in. For you to make your assertion tells me all I need to know about your inceldom. It's not looks-based.

There was a poster on Lookism who said: "Being a 7 is worse than being a 2 because at least 2s know its over for them, but we 7s are so close but so far". This is like saying, "I'd rather be a quad-amputee than have a sprained ankle cuz at least quad-amputees don't have to hop or limp". It's GROSSLY insulting. I'd give almost anything to be a 7/10.

You really think women wouldn't pick a 7/10 guy over a 3/10? You fucking autist. Go schuuuut up a school and be done with it. That's the kind of autism you're bordering on RN.

You really think being a 7 is incel?? Are 7.5s incel? Are 7.9999999s incel? It's not as black and white as your basement-dwelling autistic brain tells you it is. I am probably older than you and leave the house a lot more. I can tell you that even the life of a 6/10 white male is DECENT. It's only really the sub5s who suffer the most but I wouldn't expect you to know that for obvious reasons.

For the final kick in the teeth, you're probably white, young and expect women to approach you. RIGHT?

@13k


See my post above. From 6+ you're at least dateable to SOME women. It's sub5s who are FUCKED.

I would really like to see your face someday because it´s not the first time I have seen you go completely off on people for next to nothing I mean you gave me a whole novel, but at least you were articulate and explained you point so there is that. Although I think your overuse of the word autism make you look like an edgy teenager. The word "autism" is so abused these days, there is literally no autistic behavior in my previous post lol.

It is however remarkable how right you were about several things. I don´t know what it feels like to look like a 3/10 and I have been rated on Reddit to be a 5-6 and even a 3.5 and also a 7 but mostly 5-6 so there is that. But still I don´t think there is much difference between 3 and 6 maybe even 7/10.

Do you really think girls treat you any difference if you are a 6 or maybe a 7 than if you are a 3? (lets say I am a 6) we are all the same to then i.e. 80/20 rule. Girls don´t approach me, and give me stares of disgust and also ignore me on dating apps.

And since you bring up race I guess you believe in JBW and you are most likely black because blacks envy whites so fucking much and believe "JBW and then the girls will be drawn to your dick like a fucking magnet"

Furthermore you think you have it so hard "just" because of your looks! Try on top of all your problems to suffer from psoriasis, allergies to nearly all foods, back injury in the middle of the spine which means never be able to workout again, and the worst which is my esophagus problem (problem with my throat and swallowing food) It take me literally 20-25 minutes to eat 100g of Chicken or 45 minutes to eat 1 big mac with large fries or 20-25 minutes to eat a cheeseburger from Mc Donalds. And I can´t enjoy neither food or drugs because of my throat problem. So on top of being ignored and have to witness the sight of slutty girls in DENMARK (which has some of the most beautiful and slutty girls in the world) I have to suffer from these deceases too.

Most people in here don´t have any medical problems but you forget that if you ever got a date with a girl you could actually go out with her, I can´t. I can´t eat out at restaurants because of the fear I might choke and even if I don´t I will take far too long to eat a meal, so I literally can´t go on a date. I can´t even socialize with my friends because when I have to eat every 4-5 hour (because I can´t eat large portions because of how slow I eat) I can´t socialize, I literally am fucked in life also because I can never have a job after I finish school because I can´t get enough calories in one day due to the short launch breaks and I need more time.

At least IF you ever got the chance in life to get on a date you could eat out on a restaurant like a normal person, you can even cope with alcohol or illegal drugs or you could gymcel and build an incredible body. I have no cope only hated, missery and suffering and that is also why I am killing myself soon.

But to get back to the topic before I end my rant. I really don´t think girls treat guys THAT different if you´re a 3 or a 7. It´s not like girls are approaching normie-tier guys, you have to be Chad for that to happen.And dating apps like Tinder or Badoo is just made for the 20% of men can get laid while the rest of us gets mocked. I believe you have even made a video about how Tinder works or it might been another incel youtuber. I am a big fan of your videos btw blackpill to the core.
 
I would really like to see your face someday because it´s not the first time I have seen you go completely off on people for next to nothing I mean you gave me a whole novel, but at least you were articulate and explained you point so there is that. Although I think your overuse of the word autism make you look like an edgy teenager. The word "autism" is so abused these days, there is literally no autistic behavior in my previous post lol.

It is however remarkable how right you were about several things. I don´t know what it feels like to look like a 3/10 and I have been rated on Reddit to be a 5-6 and even a 3.5 and also a 7 but mostly 5-6 so there is that. But still I don´t think there is much difference between 3 and 6 maybe even 7/10.

Do you really think girls treat you any difference if you are a 6 or maybe a 7 than if you are a 3? (lets say I am a 6) we are all the same to then i.e. 80/20 rule. Girls don´t approach me, and give me stares of disgust and also ignore me on dating apps.

And since you bring up race I guess you believe in JBW and you are most likely black because blacks envy whites so fucking much and believe "JBW and then the girls will be drawn to your dick like a fucking magnet"

Furthermore you think you have it so hard "just" because of your looks! Try on top of all your problems to suffer from psoriasis, allergies to nearly all foods, back injury in the middle of the spine which means never be able to workout again, and the worst which is my esophagus problem (problem with my throat and swallowing food) It take me literally 20-25 minutes to eat 100g of Chicken or 45 minutes to eat 1 big mac with large fries or 20-25 minutes to eat a cheeseburger from Mc Donalds. And I can´t enjoy neither food or drugs because of my throat problem. So on top of being ignored and have to witness the sight of slutty girls in DENMARK (which has some of the most beautiful and slutty girls in the world) I have to suffer from these deceases too.

Most people in here don´t have any medical problems but you forget that if you ever got a date with a girl you could actually go out with her, I can´t. I can´t eat out at restaurants because of the fear I might choke and even if I don´t I will take far too long to eat a meal, so I literally can´t go on a date. I can´t even socialize with my friends because when I have to eat every 4-5 hour (because I can´t eat large portions because of how slow I eat) I can´t socialize, I literally am fucked in life also because I can never have a job after I finish school because I can´t get enough calories in one day due to the short launch breaks and I need more time.

At least IF you ever got the chance in life to get on a date you could eat out on a restaurant like a normal person, you can even cope with alcohol or illegal drugs or you could gymcel and build an incredible body. I have no cope only hated, missery and suffering and that is also why I am killing myself soon.

But to get back to the topic before I end my rant. I really don´t think girls treat guys THAT different if you´re a 3 or a 7. It´s not like girls are approaching normie-tier guys, you have to be Chad for that to happen.And dating apps like Tinder or Badoo is just made for the 20% of men can get laid while the rest of us gets mocked. I believe you have even made a video about how Tinder works or it might been another incel youtuber. I am a big fan of your videos btw blackpill to the core.

Can't possibly respond to all of this so..

1.) Sry about your injuries and disabilities. Those do make things very difficult.

2.) You're dead wrong about there being no difference between how women treat a 3 and a 7. They are either significantly above average or significantly below average respectively, meaning they are on opposite ends of the bell curve with less than 20% of the population being either <3 or 7<, and 80% of the population falling in between. Only the extremes (Chad -Chad lite and truecel) fall outside this range. The effect on how both are perceived by females and society at large is literally night and day. There are mountains of corroborating data to support this.

3.) Whites do have it 'much' easier in the West, with studies showing that females from most other ethnicities give a strong positive bias to whites (black females excluded); Blacks have it second easiest, with white, Asian, and Hispanic giving neutral to slight positive bias; and Asians have it by far the worst, with black, white, and Hispanic giving strong negative bias. Indian and middle eastern men aren't even in the running according to the data.
 
So yeah. It's been a week since I first joined up and it's been quite a ride tbh. I came here fresh off of celebrating my 37th birthday and still being a virgin, and I had originally joined because I'd made a resolution to myself that I was done being lonely and miserable, and I was finally going to do whatever was necessary to escape celibacy and get a relationship with a girl who I actually like. I was also very motivated because I'd had a long conversation with my (Chad lite) twin brother and his gf, during the course of which I'd received a lot of advice and suggestions on things I could do that might help to improve my chances.. this wasn't the first of these conversations (by far), but it was the first time that I was willing to take advice from him, given that he's got a lot more experience than me, instead of just resenting him and thinking that he can never know what it feels like to be me.

I'm realizing now that coming here with that mindset was all wrong. That's redpill (and maybe a little bluepill) thinking, and doesn't really apply here. So apologies if I rubbed some of you guys the wrong way. Inceldom and the black pill were (and still are) new concepts to me, even if the crushing despair and lonelyness (that come with being single and unloved by any women while everyone else around me is getting girlfriends and even married with kids) is not. But.. I think I'm starting to get it now..

Since joining I've gotten a lot of snippets of opinions and feelings about the current state of society and the sexual market, and also some very high IQ and scientifically backed posts about what the black pill really means, and which forces are at work that cause it, and I can safely say that I think you guys have got it right. The black pill is true.

That said I do think there's still a continuum, and it truly is 'much' harder (or even impossible) for some than for others.. But at the end of the day it all comes down to the fact that the times have changed, and in the new sexual marketplace there really IS a massively widening disparity between the sexually wealthy and the poor. So, for all intents and purposes, if you're not at the top.. then you might as well be at the bottom. Because the lions share of the wealth is being monopolized by the elite 1%, and the rest of us are left fighting over the scraps. So whether or not some of us are a little closer to the bottom of the table is kinda irrelevant..

Welcome!

I have been here pretty much since the forum started and it's a great place to discuss the black pill and other things without cucked mods coming down on you. I am almost 30 myself and was force-fed the black pill by life experience due to being ugly which was further reinforced by black pilled experiements and other studies online.

Hope you find some solace here.
 
There was a poster on Lookism who said: "Being a 7 is worse than being a 2 because at least 2s know its over for them, but we 7s are so close but so far". This is like saying, "I'd rather be a quad-amputee than have a sprained ankle cuz at least quad-amputees don't have to hop or limp". It's GROSSLY insulting. I'd give almost anything to be a 7/10.
Ahh, now I see why you didn't realize I was being sarcastic when I mentioned something to this effect, there are people who genuinely believe this shit.

lmao
 
Ahh, now I see why you didn't realize I was being sarcastic when I mentioned something to this effect, there are people who genuinely believe this shit.

lmao

Yes. Lookismers and fakecels are insulting.
 
When it comes to male looks, a miss is as good as a mile. You’re chad or nothing.
 
Can't possibly respond to all of this so..

1.) Sry about your injuries and disabilities. Those do make things very difficult.

2.) You're dead wrong about there being no difference between how women treat a 3 and a 7. They are either significantly above average or significantly below average respectively, meaning they are on opposite ends of the bell curve with less than 20% of the population being either <3 or 7<, and 80% of the population falling in between. Only the extremes (Chad -Chad lite and truecel) fall outside this range. The effect on how both are perceived by females and society at large is literally night and day. There are mountains of corroborating data to support this.

3.) Whites do have it 'much' easier in the West, with studies showing that females from most other ethnicities give a strong positive bias to whites (black females excluded); Blacks have it second easiest, with white, Asian, and Hispanic giving neutral to slight positive bias; and Asians have it by far the worst, with black, white, and Hispanic giving strong negative bias. Indian and middle eastern men aren't even in the running according to the data.
Yeah I know too long a rant I got carried away.

"whites have it much easier in the west" maybe because we are a predominantly white population. People should stick to their own races and I don´t like the idea blacks or ethnics being with white girls, stay with your own damn girls. If you´re only hunting for white girls then you are no better than the asians you claim only go for whites.

Maybe if ethnics stayed in their own country (or rather continent since I hate the idea of countries that devide the world in imaginary lines)

I guess I can see what you mean with the 3 and 7 difference but it just sounded like you expected that just because someone is a 6 or a 7 that they easily can get girls which isn´t true, it´s impossible to meet girls outside of dating sites because you would be branded a creep for cold approaching girls without knowing them. And dating apps is only for the top elite of good looking men and I can say with certainty that there isn´t much difference in being a 3 or a 7 on dating apps because girls only go for the 8+/10 muscular and tall fuck-boys.
 

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