37YearOldVirgin
Too small to be seen by the female eye
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- Joined
- Jul 5, 2018
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So yeah. It's been a week since I first joined up and it's been quite a ride tbh. I came here fresh off of celebrating my 37th birthday and still being a virgin, and I had originally joined because I'd made a resolution to myself that I was done being lonely and miserable, and I was finally going to do whatever was necessary to escape celibacy and get a relationship with a girl who I actually like. I was also very motivated because I'd had a long conversation with my (Chad lite) twin brother and his gf, during the course of which I'd received a lot of advice and suggestions on things I could do that might help to improve my chances.. this wasn't the first of these conversations (by far), but it was the first time that I was willing to take advice from him, given that he's got a lot more experience than me, instead of just resenting him and thinking that he can never know what it feels like to be me.
I'm realizing now that coming here with that mindset was all wrong. That's redpill (and maybe a little bluepill) thinking, and doesn't really apply here. So apologies if I rubbed some of you guys the wrong way. Inceldom and the black pill were (and still are) new concepts to me, even if the crushing despair and lonelyness (that come with being single and unloved by any women while everyone else around me is getting girlfriends and even married with kids) is not. But.. I think I'm starting to get it now..
Since joining I've gotten a lot of snippets of opinions and feelings about the current state of society and the sexual market, and also some very high IQ and scientifically backed posts about what the black pill really means, and which forces are at work that cause it, and I can safely say that I think you guys have got it right. The black pill is true.
That said I do think there's still a continuum, and it truly is 'much' harder (or even impossible) for some than for others.. But at the end of the day it all comes down to the fact that the times have changed, and in the new sexual marketplace there really IS a massively widening disparity between the sexually wealthy and the poor. So, for all intents and purposes, if you're not at the top.. then you might as well be at the bottom. Because the lions share of the wealth is being monopolized by the elite 1%, and the rest of us are left fighting over the scraps. So whether or not some of us are a little closer to the bottom of the table is kinda irrelevant..
I'm realizing now that coming here with that mindset was all wrong. That's redpill (and maybe a little bluepill) thinking, and doesn't really apply here. So apologies if I rubbed some of you guys the wrong way. Inceldom and the black pill were (and still are) new concepts to me, even if the crushing despair and lonelyness (that come with being single and unloved by any women while everyone else around me is getting girlfriends and even married with kids) is not. But.. I think I'm starting to get it now..
Since joining I've gotten a lot of snippets of opinions and feelings about the current state of society and the sexual market, and also some very high IQ and scientifically backed posts about what the black pill really means, and which forces are at work that cause it, and I can safely say that I think you guys have got it right. The black pill is true.
That said I do think there's still a continuum, and it truly is 'much' harder (or even impossible) for some than for others.. But at the end of the day it all comes down to the fact that the times have changed, and in the new sexual marketplace there really IS a massively widening disparity between the sexually wealthy and the poor. So, for all intents and purposes, if you're not at the top.. then you might as well be at the bottom. Because the lions share of the wealth is being monopolized by the elite 1%, and the rest of us are left fighting over the scraps. So whether or not some of us are a little closer to the bottom of the table is kinda irrelevant..