Theory Starting to inragemaxx, or even volragemaxx

[Ambatukam Alone]

Until now I've preferred sadnessmaxxing https://incels.is/threads/sadnessmaxxing.783399/ (made a thread about the benefits and so on, basically; save energy and think strategically rather than act stupid and waste energy), joking around, blaming myself at least partially, hopium, etc. This is to not lash out and hurt others, since I believe both that my inceldom is not my fault/blame, nor is it the fault/blame of others. You could say I caused my inceldom to some extent, but then the question is why did I do such a thing, and that leads to something that was not in my control. Same reasoning for everyone else, I truly want the best for all beings. Thing is, when I get enraged I never get violent with people, at worst verbal insults (and that was years ago and/or while drunk). I just damage stuff around me, make angry faces, give cold answers passive aggressively, walk away from people, ignore, etc. There are benefits to ragemaxxing, which is prevalent in incels for a reason. Higher agency, more motivation, the ability to displace negativity onto something else rather than ruminate, in some social situations maybe useful (obviously bad in others), feels better than sadness, etc.


The grid-matrices (oversimplified as fuck, maybe):

	Low energy	High energy
Positive (some incels get here via meditation, etc)	Peace	Joy
Negative	Sadness	Anger (also fear, but not relevant)

	Y ao seriouse?	Serial
Anger	Joker-mode, edge, self-destructive, unmotivated, callous	Self-improvement, power-seeking, practicality, displaced aggression, frustration, exploding
Sadness	Literally me-mode, low self-esteem, unmotivated, self-defeating, coping, apathetic	Agony, impaired functioning, desperation, hopelessness, imploding

	I can do nothing	I can do something (including indirect action)
I am to blame/I deserve this/it should be like this	Nightmare simulator, never be here (and never goon)	Beating yourself up instead of helping yourself
This is not my fault/I don't deserve this/it shouldn't be like this	Unserious anger/sadness, serious sadness	Serious anger

TL;DR: Stop the brainrot, this isn't that long at all, at least skim it.

Give feedback.

 

[hatepilledandrich]

I find that ruminating in sadness is the worst thing possible for your mental health. You create a self defeating loop that is very hard to get out of, the same thing is also possible if you externalize all of your problems and cope with raging against a supposed enemy.

I try to be nonchalant about life. It is hard, but sometimes life takes weird turns that are out of your control and I just have to accept it. Pretty much this:

Y ao seriouse?

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

I find that ruminating in sadness is the worst thing possible for your mental health. You create a self defeating loop that is very hard to get out of, the same thing is also possible if you externalize all of your problems and cope with raging against a supposed enemy.

I try to be nonchalant about life. It is hard, but sometimes life takes weird turns that are out of your control and I just have to accept it. Pretty much this:

Hmm, thought you'd be into the more high agency stuff. Maybe you're baseline more active/raging and need to balance it out, I'm starting out more passive and need to kick myself into gear somehow. Also, I didn't mean raging against an enemy at all, I have no enemies, maybe you just skimmed it, thought I made it clear that this was not about hating other people.

 

[hatepilledandrich]

Hmm, thought you'd be into the more high agency stuff. Maybe you're baseline more active/raging and need to balance it out, I'm starting out more passive and need to kick myself into gear somehow. Also, I didn't mean raging against an enemy at all, I have no enemies, maybe you just skimmed it, thought I made it clear that this was not about hating other people.

I was just speaking for the general user here. I do try my best, but one random disease or accident can take all your effort to the drain. You are right though, I am trying to mellow myself down.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

Reply to my stuff you fucking cucks (yes I been dirnking)

 

[poorenglishcel]

FUCK YOU

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

FUCK YOU

 

[poorenglishcel]

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[Ambatukam Alone]

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