Discussion started a new job thinking of trying to make friends

[whitesabbath]

my dad helped me get into another job after i started therapy

i started working at a dispensary selling weed and it’s actually really nice, one of my coworkers is this annoying 19 yo foid that has red hair and an eyebrow piercing and other than having to look at her for hours at a time, the rest of the employees are pretty chill, i’m enjoying the calmness and i’ve been planning how to open up and be more friendly to my coworkers

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself? yesterday i tried to jump in on a conversation about formula 1 with the foid employee and another coworker and she looked at me and smiled awkwardly like she hated the fact that i was trying to talk to them and it kinda made me nervous

 

[SchoolDropOutCel]

Brutal, im about to start wageslaving too. I know no one there

 

[Lonelyus]

Good idea, Making friends is healthy.

 

[Michael15651]

You aren’t doing anything wrong, but stay and mind your business. Normies hate ugly dudes who make themselves comfortable

You want to feel involved?

Only talk about work and ask questions work related. Eventually they will “accept you”

But at the end of the day I’d never be friends with a coworker

 

[NiggerSlayer]

Either youre nt and will just click with them, or youre a retardcel and will become an outcast despite your efforts

Honestly my advice is dont overthink it. Just do and say whats natural. If you're overthinking it normies will detect that and theyll think youre being fake, and normies hate people who are fake to them

 

[Mecoja]

Its nice having a job that doesn't stress you out. Let them do the talking, you jump in. I noticed that in normie groups one or two most nt people carries the rest.

 

[NiggerSlayer]

Brutal, im about to start wageslaving too. I know no one there

Good luck brocel. I had one job when i was 17 - i got bullied by all the foids there, most of the dudes were cool though.

Im not trying to scare you but im just saying hope for the best but expect the worst.

 

[Karakol96]

Brutal, im about to start wageslaving too. I know no one there

 

[SchoolDropOutCel]

Good luck brocel. I had one job when i was 17 - i got bullied by all the foids there, most of the dudes were cool though.

Im not trying to scare you but im just saying hope for the best but expect the worst.

 

[Karakol96]

Bro u just made me think of something.. how the fuck am I supposed to introduce myself to the coworkers

 

[SchoolDropOutCel]

Bro u just made me think of something.. how the fuck am I supposed to introduce myself to the coworkers

Your manager arranges a small short meeting for you on first day

 

[Karakol96]

Your manager arranges a small short meeting for you on first day

Yeah ik but that thought never crossed my mind I barely ever talk to people fuck

 

[NT_huntER]

my dad helped me get into another job after i started therapy

i started working at a dispensary selling weed and it’s actually really nice, one of my coworkers is this annoying 19 yo foid that has red hair and an eyebrow piercing and other than having to look at her for hours at a time, the rest of the employees are pretty chill, i’m enjoying the calmness and i’ve been planning how to open up and be more friendly to my coworkers

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself? yesterday i tried to jump in on a conversation about formula 1 with the foid employee and another coworker and she looked at me and smiled awkwardly like she hated the fact that i was trying to talk to them and it kinda made me nervous

If you are autistic, no point in trying. You wont be able to fit in anyway. They will hate you no matter how much you try to fit.

 

[AsiaCel]

Be ware of "friends" and actual friends. In every situation, grade the potential losses and gains between you and the potential "friend".

A lot of people are malicious and manipulative. Be careful and don't expose yourself too much, especially when things like promotion is involved

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself?

don't interact with foids in the workplace

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself?

don't mention your small .is postcount, they will look down on you for being a GrAY

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

normies hate people who are fake to them

normies are all fake jfl

they just hate incels who try to act like they're people. they don't want to consider incels as people

other than that they all bs constantly to each other

 

[whitesabbath]

don't interact with foids in the workplace

i didn’t really wanna be her friend but should i be avoiding her all the time? cuz like sometimes i might need to work alongside her

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

i didn’t really wanna be her friend but should i be avoiding her all the time? cuz like sometimes i might need to work alongside her

if you have to work with them, then you can try to interact as far as necessary

but in general HR departments and managers are v bitchy + trigger-happy abt interactions with foids, so if you're truecel then you should avoid any unnecessary interactions with them

it's more important to avoid the hassle than to befriend foids

 

[UglyDumbass]

my dad helped me get into another job after i started therapy

i started working at a dispensary selling weed and it’s actually really nice, one of my coworkers is this annoying 19 yo foid that has red hair and an eyebrow piercing and other than having to look at her for hours at a time, the rest of the employees are pretty chill, i’m enjoying the calmness and i’ve been planning how to open up and be more friendly to my coworkers

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself? yesterday i tried to jump in on a conversation about formula 1 with the foid employee and another coworker and she looked at me and smiled awkwardly like she hated the fact that i was trying to talk to them and it kinda made me nervous

if they dont like geeky shit then dont mention it and dont ever vent or mention how you got no friends and never dated ever. dont bring it up at all and if they ask if you got friends just say you spilt ways

 

[KING NOTHING]

don't mention your small .is postcount, they will look down on you for being a GrAY

^^^

 

[KING NOTHING]

Don't out yourself as an incel.

 

[clocked]

my dad helped me get into another job after i started therapy

i started working at a dispensary selling weed and it’s actually really nice, one of my coworkers is this annoying 19 yo foid that has red hair and an eyebrow piercing and other than having to look at her for hours at a time, the rest of the employees are pretty chill, i’m enjoying the calmness and i’ve been planning how to open up and be more friendly to my coworkers

is there anything i should avoid doing/topics to avoid when beginning to introduce myself? yesterday i tried to jump in on a conversation about formula 1 with the foid employee and another coworker and she looked at me and smiled awkwardly like she hated the fact that i was trying to talk to them and it kinda made me nervous

backdoor me some please. i am stuck paying $70 for an 1/8

 

[whitesabbath]

backdoor me some please. i am stuck paying $70 for an 1/8

where are you from? that’s an insane price an eighth is like $15 here

 

[clocked]

where are you from? that’s an insane price an eighth is like $15 here

new york city. we have many headshops but thats just for delta 8 slop.

 

[clocked]

new york city. we have many headshops but thats just for delta 8 slop.

i also dont smoke sprayed weed i only smoke dispensary

 

[SubhumanGamer]

Brutal, im about to start wageslaving too. I know no one there

Brutal just neet bro

 

[SubhumanGamer]

i started working at a dispensary selling weed

Dream job

 

[SchoolDropOutCel]

Brutal just neet bro

I neeted for nearly 2 years, my parents will kick me out if i go any longer jfl

 

[SubhumanGamer]

my parents will kick me out

Your parents are gay. They brought you into the world (without your consent) it's their duty to care for you until they die.

 

[SchoolDropOutCel]

Your parents are gay. They brought you into the world (without your consent) it's their duty to care for you until they die.

Theyre too low sentient to realize that

 

[whitesabbath]

new york city. we have many headshops but thats just for delta 8 slop.

$70 for that in a legal state is awful

 

[clocked]

$70 for that in a legal state is awful

its actually cheaper to buy prerolls if you are tryna get flower. lmfao

i mostly stick to medical vape since my tolerance is insane

 

[Enigmaz]

Don't bother making friends with co-workers, especially the foid ones. Sure, they will be friendly but that's only because they don't want to cause a scene. Best to just ignore all those fools and glare and smirk at them when they come to ask you something.

 

[whitesabbath]

Dream job

i felt so lucky tbh lol

 

[SubhumanGamer]

i felt so lucky tbh lol

You get discounts?

 

[whitesabbath]

You get discounts?

50% off

 

[SubhumanGamer]

50% off

 

[Ci Jey]

You're giga lucky, that's a comfy ass job

 

[Kamanbert]

If you're young i think people will be more acceptable of you so you might be in a good place right now.

This thread reminds me of my last attempt to be social at a job. My youth was slowly dying (was almost 27). Out of 4 people 2 ghosted me in the long term and the other 2 became almost hostile pretty quickly, in that weird passive aggressive way. A sudden switch that's out of something like Jacob's Ladder, it was pretty chilling. Never did anything wrong apart from being kinda jumpy and cringe. Now i don't give a shit i'm a completely different person.