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It's not only about your pride, it's about your mental health. It's a well known fact that humiliation only provokes two types of reactions: either violence or trauma. And it doesn't matter how mentally strong you are, if you don't react violently, you're gonna end up fucked up in the head and you'll regret it for your entire life. There's a reason they humiliate recruits in the military during training exercises, it's not only to weed out the weak but also to fill the soldier's heart with resentment and hatred so that he later takes it out on his enemy in war without mercy. You can also see how it has happened throughout all history, whenever there's a ruler that goes over the top subjugating his people and humiliating them to no end, the people react with violence, they start rebellions and fight back, it's a natural reaction.
Trust me, you don't wanna deal with all the scars that bullying leaves on your mind. Fight back, even if you lose, it's way better than the trauma. You won't have a chance to fulfill your violent urges later as an adult cuz you'll have problems with the law.
I would say that standing up to your bullies at an early age is just as important for your mental health as teen love. But don't be stupid, if you're dealing with actual gangsters then maybe you should try to avoid getting involved in stuff that might get you killed and just find a way to stay as far away from them as possible. Also, you can get jumped at any time so be prepared for that scenario, be always aware of your surroundings, and carry stuff to defend yourself.
Trust me, you don't wanna deal with all the scars that bullying leaves on your mind. Fight back, even if you lose, it's way better than the trauma. You won't have a chance to fulfill your violent urges later as an adult cuz you'll have problems with the law.
I would say that standing up to your bullies at an early age is just as important for your mental health as teen love. But don't be stupid, if you're dealing with actual gangsters then maybe you should try to avoid getting involved in stuff that might get you killed and just find a way to stay as far away from them as possible. Also, you can get jumped at any time so be prepared for that scenario, be always aware of your surroundings, and carry stuff to defend yourself.