Spending time chilling with normies is kinda suifuel

[Fontaine]

There are a lot of high inhib autists who can't make friends here, but they're actually lucky to be that way, all things considered.

Being a low inhib incel with friends is worse. (And that's actually why I had stopped meeting people at some point).

1) Even if your friends respect you, you're still kind of a third weel / guy whose opinions don't matter nearly as much as the opinions of the chads in the group. In many cases this is very subtle, and it takes a trained blackpill eye / ear to see it.

2) You get to see what truly normal people get to enjoy, and actually sometimes experience a few of these things with them-- but the experience is always somehow a bit incomplete and frustrating. You feel like you never truly belong even if your friends make you feel like you do.

3) You get to see couples holding hands, exchanging niceties, even kissing sometimes.

All in all, it's somehow more comforting to just give up and play videogames all day. I can understand the attraction of the NEET lifestyle because psychologically-wise, it's in fact optimal for ugly dudes.

 

[Deleted member 60]

gigacope

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I was strongly depressed and neet for a yr at one point and the trigger was being around ppl and seeing what they experience first hand. Extreme suifuel, but i do think its worth it to pursue socialmaxing. The social bond is what helps us survive as a species.

 

[Fontaine]

gigacope

I wrote this just after a little house party with normies, I had a good time there (except for what I've mentioned), so I'm defo not coping

 

[Incellectual]

My (adoptive) brother is a Chad and every time I hang out with his friends and him or go out with him its complete suifuel. Everyone orbits him while ignoring me. The only reason some people are friendly with my ass is because he makes them (hes chad so they listen lmao). I remember one time he wanted him and I to go to mexico to party and I got ignored by everyone but him the entire time. At least there was a lot of alcohol/drugs I would of died if I had to sit alone by myself for a week sober.

 

[Vodaccenu]

It is tbh ,my roommate and his girlfriend were talking about their sexual memoirs and my truecel friend immediately got up and locked himself in his room listening to death metal.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

And if this group of normie friends has a female, she will totally disregard your participation in the conversation or minimize it, since she has no interest in exchanging ideas with men whom she can not have something, sex or betabux, and because of this the flow of group conversation never crosses you, as normies men always end up letting females control the flow of conversations in these groups

 

[June3cel2]

I was hanging out with two of my friends from high school, and then they started talking about their lay count. One of them talked about how he recently received a 30 minute long blowjob from a girl. I was sad after coming home that day man.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I wrote this just after a little house party with normies, I had a good time there (except for what I've mentioned), so I'm defo not coping

it sounds like you're a "high inhib autist" in denial or just hanging out with the wrong people. Going to parties >>>> rotting
tbh.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

it sounds like you're a "high inhib autist" in denial or just hanging out with the wrong people. Going to parties >>>> rotting
tbh.

Depends on how the normies respond to you. I started isolating myself in the first place for a reason. But then, maybe I'm a high inhib autist as well, no idea.

 

[Fontaine]

And if this group of normie friends has a female, she will totally disregard your participation in the conversation or minimize it, since she has no interest in exchanging ideas with men whom she can not have something, sex or betabux, and because of this the flow of group conversation never crosses you, as normies men always end up letting females control the flow of conversations in these groups

That's accurate.

I would say you can compensate for ugliness a little bit by being a funny clown, or being able to make good and timely jokes, or being very knowledgeable about something that women find interesting, or having a developed talent (eg playing an instrument extremely well).

 

[Deleted member 60]

Depends on how the normies respond to you. I started isolating myself in the first place for a reason. But then, maybe I'm a high inhib autist as well, no idea.

his words, not mine. But yeah I feel you.

 

[Fontaine]

it sounds like you're a "high inhib autist" in denial or just hanging out with the wrong people. Going to parties >>>> rotting
tbh.

Lol... Dude you have no idea what you're talking about.

 

[Weirdcel]

Too many feels in this thread.

Sucks in a group setting no one is interested in what you say. You suggest an idea everyone pretends they didn't hear. So frustrating I'd rather be home alone playing vidya.

And if this group of normie friends has a female, she will totally disregard your participation in the conversation or minimize it, since she has no interest in exchanging ideas with men whom she can not have something, sex or betabux, and because of this the flow of group conversation never crosses you, as normies men always end up letting females control the flow of conversations in these groups

Brutal blackpill. Everytime the lone female would leave, she would give everyone a hug but for me just a fistbump. Degrading af.

 

[Deleted member 60]

Lol... Dude you have no idea what you're talking about.

how? I go to parties often enough and it's fun. Probably the only time I can tolerate other people tbh.

 

[Fontaine]

Brutal blackpill. Everytime the lone female would leave, she would give everyone a hug but for me just a fistbump. Degrading af.

:justuglyboythings:

how? I go to parties often enough and it's fun. Probably the only time I can tolerate other people tbh.

It's definitely fun... I wouldn't want to discourage anyone from socializing. But the problem is at the end of the party, when you go home alone, while most leave in couples.

 

[Deleted member 60]

:justuglyboythings:

It's definitely fun... I wouldn't want to discourage anyone from socializing. But the problem is at the end of the party, when you go home alone, while most leave in couples.

the solution is to leave a little early or get so drunk you can't feel the pain, lol. And don't party with couples, this is another reason getting old sucks.
My problem is kind of the opposite of yours. I'm looking for friends who I can party with on a regular basis but most folks my age are over that phase and boring af.

 

[Weirdcel]

:justuglyboythings:

Friends are also mostly ugly incels, but they got hugs. They are all NT extroverts tho. That's why I strongly believe in NT theory. Ugly NTs don't scare girls like ugly autists do.

 

[Fontaine]

Friends are also mostly ugly incels, but they got hugs. They are all NT extroverts tho. That's why I strongly believe in NT theory. Ugly NTs don't scare girls like ugly autists do.

That's extremely accurate and it is linked to perceived harm. An ugly NT is kind of accepted by the community, he has social proof, he has been vetted as normal. An ugly non-NT looks like the kind of guy who would rape you or murder you in your sleep in prehistoric times.

Shyness usually angers girls / creeps them out because they can see you're not normal, and for a vulnerable woman, any male not strongly vetted by other males is a threat.

 

[Deleted member 60]

Friends are also mostly ugly incels, but they got hugs. They are all NT extroverts tho. That's why I strongly believe in NT theory. Ugly NTs don't scare girls like ugly autists do.

very legit theory.

 

[Indari]

the guy i dropped acid with had a threesome at the age of 17 or younger. just an indication of what his life is like

 

[Weirdcel]

That's extremely accurate and it is linked to perceived harm. An ugly NT is kind of accepted by the community, he has social proof, he has been vetted as normal. An ugly non-NT looks like the kind of guy who would rape you or murder you in your sleep in prehistoric times.

Shyness usually angers girls / creeps them out because they can see you're not normal, and for a vulnerable woman, any male not strongly vetted by other males is a threat.

I imagine ugly NTs would have been utility to a primitive tribe because they are very sociable/cooperative. Ugly non-NTs are outsiders, a danger to females and competition for the other males.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

the experience is always somehow a bit incomplete and frustrating. You feel like you never truly belong even if your friends make you feel like you do.

It's like being hooked on drugs. You get a taste, but it's never enough. And its disheartening to be an outcast among outcasts

 

[big nose bug eyes]

OP is legit. I tried a few house parties in college with some guys I knew, literal sausage fests and girls just dance with their girl friends. Meanwhile the guys I knew, knew other girls while I knew nobody. I always thought coming out of my shell would be good and maybe I'd eventually find a gf and get laid but that was a false hope.

The bottom line is your "friends" and the girls there just don't respect your opinion, you're the weakest link, they probably do loads of shit without you.

 

[LebaneseCel]

Normies say the most stupid shit.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

I fucking hate normies, disgusting creatures.

 

[WarriorSkull]

This post hits to close to home for me. Approach fags don't seem to understand that guys who never approachspam don't do it because of this shit right here. They ran social circle game before they even fully know what "social circle game" was, just out of pure human instinct and they experienced tons of rejection from it.

Too many feels in this thread.

Sucks in a group setting no one is interested in what you say. You suggest an idea everyone pretends they didn't hear. So frustrating I'd rather be home alone playing vidya.


Brutal blackpill. Everytime the lone female would leave, she would give everyone a hug but for me just a fistbump. Degrading af.

This shit right here, man. This isn't just a coincidence. This is the type of rejection ugly men experience damn near constantly growing up without ever having to ask a girl out on a date. You look around at your own social circle experiences and what sticks out to you is that women behave in a way towards the other guys that makes those other guys want to continue socially interacting with them. Flirting, being cute/derpy, doing little nice things, paying attention to when you talk and just being friendly in general. I got fucking none of this. The few girls I ever had "friendships" with put me down in some of the most brutal ways and often would do it in front of others.

 

[Weirdcel]

This shit right here, man. This isn't just a coincidence. This is the type of rejection ugly men experience damn near constantly growing up without ever having to ask a girl out on a date. You look around at your own social circle experiences and what sticks out to you is that women behave in a way towards the other guys that makes those other guys want to continue socially interacting with them. Flirting, being cute/derpy, doing little nice things, paying attention to when you talk and just being friendly in general. I got fucking none of this. The few girls I ever had "friendships" with put me down in some of the most brutal ways and often would do it in front of others.

I don't want to be alone but being around normies is too painful. They take away all your energy with their subtle or overt moggings.