TeeHee [Soyditt] I think my daughter might be incel

[ilieknothing]

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I think my daughter is an incel.

I never thought I'd be in a situation like this, especially not as a parent. But here I am, worried that my daughter, let's call her Sarah, might be what many people refer to as an "incel." Just venting here, I guess.

Sarah is 19 and has always been a bit of a loner, but she's intelligent, passionate about her hobbies (legos), and when she opens up, she's incredibly insightful. Over the past three years, however, I've noticed a significant change in her attitude and behavior. She's become bitter, angry, and often expresses a deep resentment towards her peers, especially when it comes to their relationships and social lives. She is jealous of a lot of what they get to do and accomplish. Meanwhile, she is too depressed to enroll in college. We are just letting her have this time to sort things out, and not pressure her.

At first, I thought it was just standard teenage angst or perhaps depression, so we tried therapy. But it wasn't until I accidentally stumbled upon her discord that I realized the extent of the issue. Sarah is deeply involved in some very troubling online communities. These groups echo a lot of mysogynst rhetoric, blaming others for their lack of romantic relationships and harboring a lot of anger towards people who are "more successful" in love and life. She's in an "incel ladies" group. It was disgusting to me.

I've tried to talk to her about it, but she's very defensive. She believes these people are her only friends who truly understand her. It breaks my heart to see her so consumed by negativity and hate, withdrawing further from the real world and our family.

I know that simply banning her from these thingsor confronting her will only push her further away. I'm scared of alienating her but more terrified of what this path might lead her down. She's already expressed resentment towards interventions, viewing them as attempts to control or change her.

Just trying to suport her. We are getting her involved in a church group but she isn't very keen on it.


EDIT:

There have been so, so many comments. This is overwhelming. To the vast majority of you trying to be helpful, I thank you. I posted this to vent, so all the advice is a lot but I do appreciate it. You are right that my daughter is an adult now, and doesn't need my partner's permission to get tested for autism. She is just so dependent on us, so I honestly never thought about her being an adult I guess. She is. I will do everything in my power to get her help, without chastising her. And we'll take the church thing off the table for now. I just wanted her to be around some kids that have goals and accomplishements without being clicky and judgemental.

 

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[Nakolas]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[Darth Aries]

 

[Diddy]

I can fix that for her

 

[Incel Looks]

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[Skelly]

>daughter showing clear signs of autism
>inkwells did this

 

[AutistSupremacist]

>daughter showing clear signs of autism
>inkwells did this

Always our damn fault jfl

 

[Kimchicel]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[Neucher The Kanga]

These groups echo a lot of mysogynst rhetoric, blaming others for their lack of romantic relationships and harboring a lot of anger towards people who are "more successful" in love and life.

This has to be a larp come on

 

[Skelly]

This has to be a larp come on

i dont know how anyone takes r/self seriously jfl

 

[TOP_5_KANGA]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[Neucher The Kanga]

These groups echo a lot of mysogynst rhetoric, blaming others for their lack of romantic relationships

Honestly this makes me think it's real. No man talks like this

 

[LonelyATM]

girl must a whale to be single as female this day and age.

 

[Mystorious]

 

[BlueCore]

Larp

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

girl must a whale to be single as female this day and age.

Even a landwhale has dozens, if not hundreds of simps who are at least normies with looks above 5.
It's always Chad who refuses to fuck them.

 

[Caesercel]

Femceldom is possible. They are all volcels though

 

[Cope or die]

Even a landwhale has dozens, if not hundreds of simps who are at least normies with looks above 5.
It's always Chad who refuses to fuck them.

Femceldom is possible. They are all volcels though

If they're volcel/femcel its invalid.

 

[Caesercel]

If they're volcel/femcel its invalid.

Maybe but there are still perma parternerless foids out there

 

[over_department]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[stranger]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[Shaktiman]

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Sleeping Dogs?

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I can fix her problem

 

[go2sleep]

 

[go2sleep]

I can fix her problem

 

[oldNgreycel]

Female and incel are antonyms

 

[Vakasneb3856]

I can fix her problem

 

[Ernst22]

female incels: teehee I have autism
male incels: no one remembers who I am, the only person who talks to me first is the cashier telling me the total so I can get the fuck out of his line

 

[Grodd]

I can fix that for her

 

[suicidecase]

Very obviously fake and gender-swapped.

 

[Adolf Kitler]

>Foid
>Incel

 

[Icedancer_333]

Send Sarah my way and she coming back pregnant

 

[Genetics_subhuman]

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I wish I have that problem

 

[lifeisfucked215]

I'll just say this
I remember growing up my older sister was an absolute loser in highschool. She was chubby and had the most terrible acne. She had no friends and was pissed off all the time. She is in her 30's now and only has one friend from highschool she reconnects with. I recall her hating popular girls and chads. I remember being like 10 and thinking wow she's such a loser.
Could make a pretty good case for her being a femcel at that time and I mean that. However she lost weight and got the acne cleared up and now she's been on dudes private jets and yachts. Free trips to Italy and shit.

Even if we tried hard we are fucking nobodies

 

[lifeisfucked215]

girl must a whale to be single as female this day and age.

 

[turbosperg]

she lost weight and got the acne cleared up and now she's been on dudes private jets and yachts.

Just Lose weight and clean your skin and you'll be fucking Stacy in her yacht and flying on her private jet to impregnate her friends in Italy.

That's my theory on how you'll ascend, BRO.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Just Lose weight and clean your skin and you'll be fucking Stacy in her yacht and flying on her private jet to impregnate her friends in Italy.

That's my theory on how you'll ascend, BRO.

The sad reality and difference between men and women

 

[CrackingYs]

 

[Orzmund]

Virgin, autistic enough to play with Legos at 19, resentful and envious because of her social observations? I'd try to date her.

 

[Orzmund]

However she lost weight and got the acne cleared up and now she's been on dudes private jets and yachts. Free trips to Italy and shit.

Even if we tried hard we are fucking nobodies

I don't even blame girls for indulging in easily accessible pleasures and luxuries. It's only natural for people to abide the path of least resistance while maintaining a focus on basic goals. I just wish people would spare us the same courtesy by understanding why it's better for us to remain alone rather than pursue awful relations with lascivious and insipid women.

 

[AsiaCel]

Let's hope Sarah isn't a "foid" like Elon Musk's "daughter" is.