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Sometimes I Feel Like The Only True Social Outcast On This Forum

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I hear popular/veteran users talking about their little discord cliques (I barely even know what that is and don't really care to), studycels regaling us with little anecdotes of campus life, and so on. I feel like everyone's so interconnected and I'm just this little turd getting in the middle of everyone's fun and inside jokes and what not.

I know it's likely unreasonable to feel this way, and that this has nothing to do with inceldom because even the ugliest of incels can have lots of online friends, but nevertheless these feeling come up sometimes. I'm not seeking sympathy here I'm just saying it's hard being a pure social outcast.
 
I literally can't remember the last time I had a conversation with someone
 
Outcast mogs @Social Outcast
 
Trust me you're not alone
 
I’m not in any discord “cliques” and I have no friends in real life

Truly over for me
 
You're not alone, except I don't care for cliques. There's probably some tangible benefits to it though, so maybe I should care. Eh.
 
no ur not man i dont use discord
 
It's like this. If an incel, despite his ugliness and anger and autism, can make friends, why not you?
 
I have no social life of which to speak of
 
You're not alone, I don't have any online friends, and my only IRL friend is my older brother. I'm also neet. I wonder how can there be hope for me if I can't even make friends.
 
Why would you want online friends
 
FrothySolutions said:
It's like this. If an incel, despite his ugliness and anger and autism, can make friends, why not you?
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I can I'm just not interested in discord and browsing memes endlessly and all that shit youngsters like these days.
 
Romello Gaghan 2 said:
I can I'm just not interested in discord and browsing memes endlessly and all that shit youngsters like these days.
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But you are interested in being interconnected with people, right?
 
Just get some testosteron bro.
Dont cry ike schoolgirl.
 
I feel exactly the same, doesn't matter where i go, school, job or even online, people always exclude me.
 
Nothingness said:
Just get some testosteron bro.
Dont cry ike schoolgirl.
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128498
 
Nothingness said:
Why dont you feel included here.
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I do generally, but I start feeling insecure when other users go on about extracurricular encounters with one other: different social sites, casual PM conversations. etc. It's not too common though I admit.
 
Romello Gaghan 2 said:
I do generally, but I start feeling insecure when other users go on about extracurricular encounters with one other: different social sites, casual PM conversations. etc. It's not too common though I admit.
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Find common interest with some particular user and have chat with him. But before post some personal stuff like of what you like ; music books whatever
 
Nothingness said:
Find common interest with some particular user and have chat with him. But before post some personal stuff like of what you like ; music books whatever
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No that's not my M.O. I prefer discussing the blackpill as part of a broader group.
FrothySolutions said:
Didn't you already admit it?
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Nah I'm just saying, some people are BSing when they say they're lonely and such. I'm mainly just jealous of others' popularity.
 
Romello Gaghan 2 said:
I hear popular/veteran users talking about their little discord cliques (I barely even know what that is and don't really care to)
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Discord is a messaging platform, think of it as a giant group chat.

Unfortunately, even incels form hierarchies based on status. In fact, if we all met in real life, the halo effect would come into play (albeit, at a much lower level). Even hierarchies based on money would form.

Most of the popular posters aren't anyone special. They just have been on the forum the longest, and have posted the most, so people are the most familiar with them. High IQ posters are few and far between, and has no correlation with how popular of a poster you are.

I'm sure you could become more connected. The more you post, the more familiar people will become with you. Ask around about joining the discord servers, and I'm sure someone will take you in. Also, if you pm a user, they will 99% of the time respond. After all, most incels don't have a social life, and would love to connect with their fellow kin. In fact, I have been friends with a user here for over a year, and we've talked on the phone a lot. He has become a genuinely close friend, and he and I are meeting IRL for the first time in Vegas tomorrow.
 
Chris_Jones said:
In fact, I have been friends with a user here for over a year, and we've talked on the phone a lot. He has become a genuinely close friend, and he and I are meeting IRL for the first time in Vegas tomorrow.
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How very touching (not sarcasm).
 
Romello Gaghan 2 said:
I hear popular/veteran users talking about their little discord cliques (I barely even know what that is and don't really care to), studycels regaling us with little anecdotes of campus life, and so on. I feel like everyone's so interconnected and I'm just this little turd getting in the middle of everyone's fun and inside jokes and what not.

I know it's likely unreasonable to feel this way, and that this has nothing to do with inceldom because even the ugliest of incels can have lots of online friends, but nevertheless these feeling come up sometimes. I'm not seeking sympathy here I'm just saying it's hard being a pure social outcast.
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Can totally relate. I used to eat by myself in the bathroom back in highschool
 
my only social interactions happen here, on this forum (in public, I don't do private messaging or Discord)
it's true that it's hard to find real outcasts - I used to frequent a lot of forums, imageboards only to find out most stuff happens in private Discord servers
 
I have online friends and they do not supplement the real thing well, let alone a relationship
 
I have no reallife friends and talk in only one discord incelgroup
 
Don't worry I have no friends to talk to either, online or offline.
 
It's hell for truecels like me even on here sometimes.
 
Chris_Jones said:
After all, most incels don't have a social life, and would love to connect with their fellow kin. In fact, I have been friends with a user here for over a year, and we've talked on the phone a lot. He has become a genuinely close friend
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I wish I could get attention like that from someone lmao :feelsbadman:
 
OP you are LDARing too hard.
Go outside so you can make topics about being discriminated
 
You gotta have to be NT in order to go on discord. Most of us aren't blessed with NTness though.
 
Discord is for fags ansd real life is empty so i am social outcast desu
 
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