NiggasCallmedaDrink
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Why would she pleasure her past hook ups but not her husband?
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I’ve seen many posts about “how do I get past my spouse’s past”. Mine is a bit more specific. Having been married for 12 years, we have unfortunately followed the cliche of blowjobs becoming non-existent. Unfortunate because I enjoy receiving and she knows it. I’m an eager giver but she doesn’t enjoy receiving. Our sex life isn’t great but I’m patient because I know it comes with this phase of life, being so busy. Recently she randomly told me a story from her past, which we have done very little of sharing sexual past. She had a wild phase which has never bothered me. She randomly tells me a brief story of her only group sex experience, which surprised me as we’ve never done anything close to that. 2 things that stuck in my head. She blew the guy and the encounter happened because someone said to her “come back to our place and party.” Here’s where my brain won’t stfu. I do everything I possibly can to make her happy. She has a job by choice, not necessity. I do my share of housework, cooking, plan stuff. I just can’t get past the fact that I try to be the best husband I can be and no bj’s. Someone else that’s never done shit gets a blowjob. Tbh I got one on my first date with her too. I’ve tried talking about it but she’s made a few comments that she doesn’t do that anymore. And now I feel like if she did do it, it would be some form of punishment. Should I do nothing for her? I’m sure other guys have experienced this or women can explain?